Ok I’ll say a month or so ago me and my bf broke up and it was him that initiated it. After a while I come to the assumption that he did it for no reason at all. He said that it was academic and spiritual purposes, yet we still were seeing each other and doing all the things that broke us up in the first place. After being fed up with him, I cut him off, and every time he wanted to see me and to come over to my place, or me to his, I would always be busy and have something else to do; and would avoid him. He would not stop. After the last time he did it I told him to stop bothering me, and he was so hurt, but I only did it because I felt he was playing games with me and didn’t know what he wanted, and I got tired of feeling like that. A few weeks later I check on facebook and he is in another relationship with some other chick. I think he did it because he saw all these guys sending me messages and playing around with me getting married and in a relationship on facebook. Anywho I congratulate him on his new relationship and wish her and him the best of luck in the future and told him to treat her good. I guess he didn’t expect that. A few days later I am in the shower and he calls me telling me about their problems and how he cant be with her, because every time he was with her he was thinking of me, and that he told her he was still in love with me. I was like that was really messed up how he was playing games with that girl. He calls me over all the time to spend time with me, but is still in contact with this chick. He says its nothing but I don’t know what to think. Should I just leave this dude alone for good? Seems he doesn’t know what he wants in life?
2007-05-08 03:51:29 · 6 answers · asked by girliegirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems to me that 90% of these relationships crises can be solved with communication. Just tell him that you aren't happy with the way things are. Think about what you want in a relationship, tell him, and if he can't meet your needs, then he isn't the one.
Simple.
2007-05-08 04:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes playing games with you. He does like you but doesnt know how to express it so you need to sit him down and tell him whats up.Either just be frineds with him or if you want him back tell him what has to change.Freinds would be better and work it from there.If everything seems good go for it start dating again. Good Luck!
2007-05-16 09:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by kyle w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that the reason he still talks to that girl is because she is probably like obsessed with him and wont stop calling and he cant be mean. I say you try dating him again and if the same situation comes up again I would never try it again. I mean anyone deserves a second chance
2007-05-16 10:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by Whitney S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he just likes to play games, which is a form of control. He didn't appreciate you until he lost you, and now he's missing you while he's with someone else. If you take him back, he may just miss her. I think you know what to do. He's not good enough for you.
2007-05-16 07:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run like the wind girl. he's playing games with you. and its not just the playing games with you, his inability to maintain the choices he makes should generally make you nervous. if he's unable to make desicions about hs own life, then you should do your best to stay out of his. leave him alone.
2007-05-16 10:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by phoenixchi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not good enough for u,............move on
2007-05-16 10:29:31 · answer #6 · answered by saltnsaffron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋