My ex is always blaming me for something. For once, I wish we could just get along. He got in trouble for accidentally starting a fire and he told me not to tell anyone. I didn't, but I heard his friend telling some people. So he comes up to me and tells me to f*** off cuz I have a big mouth. He always chooses me to blame 1st before he finds out what REALLY happened.
What should I do?
2007-05-08 03:24:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i guess it's good he is your ex. It sounds like he doesn't respect and trust you. Good friendship goes through a lot of stages. Hopefully he will start to respect you again otherwise it's not worth it because you can't have a relationship without respect.
2007-05-08 03:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds as if he has a lot of growing up to do. Maybe you should just move on and not say a word to anyone ever about him that way he can't blame you for anything. He will blame you but you will know that it had nothing to do with you because you haven't said anything. Blaming everyone but yourself is a sign of being immature! He shouldn't talk to you that way at all. Find someone who is more mature and wants to be in a relationship.
2007-05-08 10:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your ex. I'm sure there were good reasons for the break up. Since the relationship is done, you don't have to continue associating with him. So move on and forget about all his problems that he wants to blame on other people. Find yourself a good guy and be happy!
2007-05-08 10:32:16 · answer #3 · answered by Tim C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw him hes an ex right?Then thats why leave it alone and if hes always blaming you cut off ties w/ him and then he wont have anyone to blame.But then again maybe you should talk to him about it.
2007-05-08 10:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by Kas3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an unlisted number, put a new lock on your door and get a doberman with a short temper. An ex has no standing, just running.
2007-05-08 10:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess his not worth being friends with if he is treating you with disrespect and if he is always blaming you for everything. you should really tell him that you don't deserve to be treated that way and if he wants to remain friends with you he should stop blaming you for someones mistakes,
2007-05-08 10:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex's are ex's for a reason. Why would you put up with a guy's crap if you aren't even dating him? Ignore him.
2007-05-08 10:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by The Naughty Librarian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away and stay away from him. Even Stevie Wonder could see he is abusive.
2007-05-08 10:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by shyone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him. He just wants the attention from you.
2007-05-08 10:32:47 · answer #9 · answered by Adapted_For_The_Screen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he stil wants you and he is looking for ways to get back with you...Ignore him tho he seems like he is full of drama
2007-05-08 10:31:17 · answer #10 · answered by Crazychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋