Attention boyfriends out there...why is my boyfriend acting like this?

Question

My boyfriend, my cousin and I are planning to go to a trip this summer.
I asked him - - since he's my boyfriend, if he won't mind putting 1 night on his credit card on the hotel, since I dont have a credit card. He said sure no prob.

But I've noticed that he's been a little annoying, making sure that we'll pay him and stuff. I mean obviously we're not going to ripp him off, but he keeps talking about it.

I know he is on the cheap side, etc., but I mean, last year I paid for the full room and didn't ask for a cent for him, and now, he's acting like this? I mean, we'll been together for almost a year and a half, and he should trust me that we are obviously going to give him the money, but he seems to be reminding us a lot. It annoying.

I dont know, I fee like calling him and explaning to him that his attitude is making me feel bad and unsure.

Answer 1

If hes putting it on his credit card maybe his financial status is not good rather than tell you that maybe hes just afraid not you but others may not pay right away and he doesnt want to jeopradize his credit.

I would though let him know that you have done that for him before...

Answer 2

Your boyfriend is cheap, take this for a hint into a future with this guy. He is this way, will be this way in the future and you can't change him. If you don't like this behavior in a boyfriend, seriously think about finding a new one.

Remember no matter what you think, he isn't going to change in the future...only get worse.

Answer 3

he is prolly just kinda worried because he doesnt have the money and doesnt want to be in debt, it doesnt sound out of the ordinary for an average guy... and trust me he has already forgotten that u paid for the one last year

Answer 4

I think since you paid last time he should at least pay your and his two thirds of the room without you paying him back. If he has the money to spend he should do it.