Family & Relationships - 8 May 2007

2007-05-08 08:14:30 · 8 answers · asked by Danielle x 1 in Singles & Dating

Soo i had sex with my ex we dated like a year ago and the sex was ssoooo good. But we had more of a lust thing then a realtionship thing about eachother. He has a girlfriend and he goes to see her some and i think really likes her, but i think im startin to like him agian. What should i act like towards him cause i wanna call him everyday. But i think ill just get on his nerves! soo how should i get him to want me?

2007-05-08 08:11:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-08 08:09:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend that has cheated in the past and i Believe that he is cheating now. I just cant prove it! I am tired of being with him because I shouldnt have to watch my boyfriend as if he were my child. In my mind I wish I could do him like he did me make him feel what I felt but I cant. Everyday I think of what I want in a guy and its clearly not him. I am thinking of a dream guy that at this point doesnt exist. Even when I'm with him I think about how it would be if I wasnt. Could I be cheating with my mind pulling myself away from a guy that I've been with for so long. I just cant get over the past and have found myself in a relationship that I a scared to get out of because I havent found anything better.

2007-05-08 08:07:14 · 47 answers · asked by spoken 1 in Singles & Dating

I want a cinderella wedding but i dont want to pay 60,000 for a wedding( thats a brand new car for christ sake) but anyway I want to build some towers for my reception hall. Any Ideas or suggestions?

2007-05-08 08:06:45 · 4 answers · asked by Jenn 1 in Weddings

I know a lot of people (both my sister's friends and some of my more distant cousins) that refer to non-biological or distant relatives as actual family.

For example, I know someone that calls a friend she's known since birth, cousin (even though they are not related at all), calls my dad uncle, and calls some other unrelated friends of her family "Aunt This" or "Uncle That". It kinda makes things confusing because I never know if this person is referring to a biological relative or not. This person is of Italian heritage.

Then, I also know someone else that refers to my parents as "mom and dad" (I think she does this more to be affectionate than other said person). Again, this is just a friend of the family. This person is Hispanic.

And then I have an actual relative, who is a semi-distant cousin. (I think like 2nd or 3rd --- possibly removed a couple of times --- I'm not sure exactly). He calls my dad uncle, where he's just a cousin (not a close one at that).

Why do they do it?

2007-05-08 08:06:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was online with my friend's screen name last night and my boyfriend IMs her thinking it's another girl (because my friend and him had chatted two times before and he just happened to save her screen name). He asks if this is Lisa, but my friend's name isn't Lisa. I decide to go along with it. I tell him yes it is Lisa and he's like wow I haven't talked to you forever, are you still hot? I then ask if he has a girlfriend, and he says no. He then invites her over and I tell him sure that sounds good. I say wow I'm surprised you're "single." He says yeah well I've just had a few girls here and there. WUTTTTT!!!!! I then immediately sign off and begin to call him. He doesn't pick up the first 3 times because he obviously realized that wasn't "Lisa" and figured out it was my friends sn. I knew he was s***ting bricks by this time because he got caught. He finally picks up and tells me he was trying to play a joke on my friend and I. Wut a LIAR....any advice on what I should do? Please help

2007-05-08 08:06:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My stepdaughter is the daughter of a mom who commited suicide when her daughter was 6. I married her dad when she was 11, having known her for 3 years prior. She has been endulged since her mom's death as her dad overcompensated for the loss. This has created a child who speaks her mind no matter what, has a total loss of respect for anyone older than her, doesn't know her place in the family, acts disruptive and is extremely arguementative. I am acting in the role of her mom because her birth mom is dead. I cannot cope. I am on medication and off work because of the extreme stress she has caused in our home on a daily basis. I am in therapy. This child is not on medication, nor in therapy. She just goes about her day trying to get he own way every day no matter what anyone even her dad says differently. There is always a scene. I feel such a sense of hopelessness that I do not know how I am going to cope for the remaining years she lives with us. Any suggestions 4 me?

2007-05-08 08:05:46 · 11 answers · asked by Firegal 2 in Family

This guy that I have known for awhile (cuz i went to elementary school with him...and till now in highschool) has recently been talking to me online a lot. We have a normal conversation usually but almost every time he asks how my guy life is and who i like. I never tell him...but he is keen on knowing. he finallly told me one day that if he told me than i would tell him. So he told me that it was "this girl...i think her name is kimberly" and that his friend said she thought he was hott so he might check into it...so then i told him that i wouldnt tell him because thats not fair because no one in our school even is named kimberly...and the people i like actually go to our school and he knows. what do you think? does he just wanna know who i like out of curiosity or does he want to know because he likes me sort of. im not sure..because I dont want to give him the wrong idea if he does like me. ya know?
help please?

2007-05-08 08:05:08 · 1 answers · asked by allydally 2 in Singles & Dating

we had a break for a week, first I was sad, then I was mad, and ever since then we've been doing nothing ,but arguing, now he told me "he stopped caring." and in order for him to care again "I have to fly to the moon." meaning hang out with his family and become best friends with his sister. we broken up onces and I dont want to experience that again. what do I do to fix this mess.

2007-05-08 08:04:31 · 1 answers · asked by Mari M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It is surely a stupid question. But I just want to try some good methods to forget the painful relationship. He is having his night today. I can hear the happy voice in the background when I call him. This might be the last time to talk with this gay for whole my life. I have choose to forget him. But what is the method. Can someone share the days of recovery??I am truely hope to release the pain and get recovery from it. It is too heavy for me at this moment although one day I cant even remember his face again. But now, I am surely sleepless with continuous tears running on my face.

I dont understand why dont he make up his mind to make a decision-hard but true decision? But I am surely I'm not his true love since I am the outsider away from the wedding. I dont know the tradition and culture of india. I just know that he is never my love anymore. Hence, only way is to delete this guy from my memory and not being a fault to someone's marriage. i will never never be making this faul

2007-05-08 08:01:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey everyone,

I am 19 with a 25 year old girlfriend, and I am living with my Grandparents for the time being. They are both roughly 80 years old. I work with my girl, and we have none of the same days off, and have different hours as well. So, the only time I can see her is at 9:30pm when she gets off work, until about no later then 11:30pm. I do that 2 - 3 times a week. I've been goin out with her for about 3 months.

Now, my grandparents have all these assumptions that my relationship with her is affecting my work, and it's affecting other things about me. She might be moving to Texas at the end of the month, so I decided to ask my employer permission for a friday off to spend with her, which I was approved. They think that my employer would get mad or dislike me going out with this girl that I work with. WELL, half the people there are together, so I know it's not affecting my work, and plus I am one of the best employees there! Can someone just speak there mind on thesituation

2007-05-08 08:00:55 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay how can i make it up to my sister heres what I done

Tackled her badly in football and made her watch a scary movie and she wont watch TV now

2007-05-08 08:00:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend is in college and we made a deal that if he got an A on his test I would be his slave for a whole weekend. I wore lingerie that he bought me, massaged his feet, made him dinner, even wore this nurse costume that I had last halloween. Well it turns out that he lied to me! He told me he got an A on his final but instead he got a D+. I was pissed. The anger has subsidded now and its time for revenge. He is now going o be my slave. I have also found a few outfits for him ( http://shop.trashy.com/index.php?s=product&set_id=6664) or http://shop.trashy.com/index.php?s=product&set_id=7935. Does anyone think this is to far? He's agreed to do it if I stop being angry. I'm over it but I want him to pay! Also if anyone has any better ideas please post the link! Thanks

2007-05-08 07:55:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

If your we're with this guy and you had a kid, But you and this guy we're always faighting!?! Would you leave him right away? or Would you stay with him and gust deal with the bullshit? .... Cause see one of my friends is going throught this, and i wanted to know what i shouild advise her. Cause she has been with this guy for live 17 yrs. Right and her and this guy always fight, he always hit's her is has so many marks on her face and body. Plus this is the worst they fight in front of the kid. So please tell something.

2007-05-08 07:52:23 · 9 answers · asked by galvez_m2004 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 17 years old and i have lived with my real dad and step mom ever since i was 2. we have never had a good relationship or even a relationship at all and im afraid that because we have never really had a relationship, that we never will. i think that she feels that she still has to compete with my real mom for my attention and love. how can i improve this relationship and do think that it will ever get better? I need help ASAP! this means alot to me! HELP PLEASE!!!

2007-05-08 07:51:02 · 6 answers · asked by babyspice200267156 1 in Family

Is it appropriate for men to attend wedding showers?

2007-05-08 07:47:08 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband went to bed the friday before christmas happily married and woke up saturday thinking he didn't want to be married to me any more. Since then has moved out and told me he fell out of love with me and in love with another married woman. To top it off a married women that will not leave her husband and he swears they are not sleeping with each other. He wants me to not give up on him and says that he has not loved me in two years. I was stunned to say the least we have been married 9 years and together since highschool almost 16 years total. I don't know what to do, he wants to separate and he wants to be best friends and talk everyday and we have two children as well. I cry everyday because i miss him so much. It is so frustrating because i am a very strong person and know i can take care of my children & be okay, but the thought of not being married and having my best friend is killing me. Should i fight to save our marriage when it was so easy for him to walk away?

2007-05-08 07:47:03 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is begining an ugly divorce and her husband it acting psychotic. She has found out that he has a hacker friend who hacked into her emails and anyone that she has been sending to. He has also tracked her by GPS on her Nextel. She now has to turn her cell off when going out and she found out the other day that he knew she was going out so he hid his phone in her car and tracked her that way. He has never hurt her before but has now gone overboard. He has private emails from when he hacked into her work email address (they both work together) and has threatened to show our bosses. He is spreading rumors around work and all of this has affected my friend. He is now threatening to take her car that is financed in both of their names even though he has his own vehicle. What can my friend do? Are any of the things he is doing illegal?

2007-05-08 07:47:02 · 5 answers · asked by Lisa D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have gymnecomastia so, though I'm slim, I have breasts with a feminine shape and developed like those of a 12 or 13 yo girl. Doctors don't recommend a surgery and say this will disappear in a year. But this is terrible, especially for a boy who likes swimming. Many kids and even adults keep picking on me, they've told me a lot of times I should wear a bra. I turned 14 Sunday and yesterday some schoolmates, 4 boys and 2 girls, said they wanted to give me a gift for my bday cause I'm a good fellow, help them with math and other subjects. Actually, I'm a good at math, get good grades and like to help people. I'm not that kind of boy who gets in trouble.
Well, the gift was a joke, they wanted to make fun of me, it was a bra. I got embarrassed, didn't expect something like that, couldn't avoid tears. They laughed, made fun of me and other kids laughed to. This was something so degrading that I didn't tell my parents. I'm their friend and they did this to me. Now I want revenge

2007-05-08 07:44:40 · 5 answers · asked by Ed 1 in Family

How long should you wait?

2007-05-08 07:44:01 · 51 answers · asked by whatdoesitmatter05 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-08 07:43:42 · 23 answers · asked by interested 1 in Singles & Dating

-a friend sees the best in you even when you're not showing it.
-a friend makes you laugh when you can see little to laugh about.
-a friend makes the best spouse.

2007-05-08 07:43:37 · 3 answers · asked by downhome girl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband has just walked out of our marriage and has gone to live with an other woman in a other city and has just told me that he wanted a change and is not comming back he told me that it wasnt me but him. he left last year for a week but said he was in his mates but came back crying and promised it would'nt happen again he does things on impulse and thinks the grass in greener but I know he will with get bored with that life. he wants a divorce but want me to do it

2007-05-08 07:43:30 · 23 answers · asked by jambi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-08 07:42:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Has anyone ever dated someone after their divorce and realized it was just too soon so you ended it? Do you think it clouded how you truly felt about that person?

What happened when you were ready to date...did you try again with the same person, or move along to someone new?

2007-05-08 07:42:13 · 5 answers · asked by loves2sing 2 in Marriage & Divorce

WHAT IS EVERYONE PREFRENCE IN WHAT THEY LIKE IN THE SAME SEX OPPISITE SEX MALE FEMALE TRANNNY WHAT THE F*** EVER! I WANT TO KNOW!!!!IT'S A DAMN QUESTION!WHAT DO YOU PREFER IN WHAT EVER YOU'ER ATTRACTED TOO ION THE OPPSITE SEXOR SAME SEX WHAT EVER?GET IT FOR THOSE PEOPLE WHO DID'NT UNDERSTAND!AND NO I'M ASKING THIS QUESTION FOR A PROJECT I'M DOING!!!I LOVE MY SELF!

2007-05-08 07:42:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex and i just broke up about a week ago...and i finally told him what tore us apart...and he understood what he did wrong...and last night i told him that i don't really see us getting back together because of what happened....today he texted me and said that hes going to walk away for good and not expect to get back together and that hes going on a date this friday and he doesn't want to think about me.....is he trying to make me jealous? im not hurt becuz i really don't want to get back with him...but the fact that he wanted me to know so badly he was going on a date can't escape my mind...any thoughts?

2007-05-08 07:41:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well...i do...do u?

2007-05-08 07:39:54 · 13 answers · asked by Barakatttt. ♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

If money isn't really an issue, how many carats should my ring have? I want something big, but not obnoxious.

2007-05-08 07:39:42 · 25 answers · asked by shelikesdior 2 in Weddings