Family & Relationships - 8 May 2007

i love sex with my wife but since she works nite so i guess i/we can only have sex if she is available & on her day-off.then when the times that she wants to have sex,wakes me up @ 1am, 2-3am..but the prob.is those hours were im dead sleeping coz i work early morning @5:30...but still i managed to get hard just for her,..but after 10mins atleast it wud left me not be able to climax bec.mine is getting soft.....& if we were both on day-off, she wantsbut i will manage to get aroused bec.she will get mad @me..as ussual after 10mins atleast of pumping.it wud left me not be able to climax cox mine was soft...she was so disappointed &threaten me that she will go look for a man that can do climax.i dont know if i have or i need to take a pills thats being sold to GNC....or i do have some problem with my brain?

2007-05-08 09:37:51 · 6 answers · asked by Casper 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I live in VA, I've never been married & my daughter is now 1. Let me know if you need additional details.

2007-05-08 09:37:40 · 6 answers · asked by jmw_1484 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Leave your spouse of 14 years because you just are not into them right now. And tell them the family life is not for you. Then when your spouse tries to talk to you about it you tell them I am not responsible for your feelings and I am not losing any sleep over it. Fast forward 5 months. You have met someone else, and have let her meet your kids already, then when your spouse calls you because they think it is to soon to do that, would you say your just jealous and hang up on them? That is what my ex did to me. Cruel huh?

2007-05-08 09:36:12 · 24 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Well...my mom has drunk ALOT since my aunt died last year from cancer. And even before that, while she was dying. I don't have any sympathy for her. My mom needs to get on her own two feet again, and stop making me miserable. If she wants to loathe, she can take it elsewhere. I really don't know what to do. I can't even convince her. She refuses to talk about it, and then gets all offended like "What are you talking about?!" when I bring it up. I really need some advice on how to talk so that she listens, and what I should say/do from there.

2007-05-08 09:36:08 · 6 answers · asked by Hiram Abiff 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-08 09:35:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Come on, I know you guys know some or had some said to you. Let's hear 'em!

2007-05-08 09:34:31 · 12 answers · asked by zolavanny 2 in Singles & Dating

YOU decided to have and keep this child, so tough! Take responsibility. This man obviously wants nothing to do with you, or your child so let him be. Women depending on child support is a way of life now a days. If you were financially unstable you shouldn't have had this child. Not to say what he did is right, but be better than him. Be everything your daughter needs you to be. One day this will make you and your daughter a better and stronger person. Don't think his life isn't hard as well. He has two other kids, they need to be taken care of, too.

SIDE NOTE: Put yourself in the shoes of the men you call deadbeats, as*h*l*s, losers, etc... try MAKING yourself responsible for a kid you have no feelings for, giving a large portion of your hard earned income to a stranger, being linked to a person you want nothing to do with. The U.S.A. has the dumbest laws on child support ever, and it is a shame that so many women are dependent of the law for revenge to make themselves feel better

2007-05-08 09:31:36 · 41 answers · asked by MonaLisa 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in love with a "baby's daddy" but I'm not sure how he feels about me. I have asked him how he felt about me a many times. First he said he loved me and he still says it now but we couldn't be together at the time because we were both in relationships with someone else (2 yrs now). Recently, he has been saying he don't want anything 2 do w/anyone right now becuz he don't want to put anyone thru his baby momma drama becuz he knows how his baby's mother will react 2 him being with another female. Also, he is currently living with his friend at his friends mom's house and his friends mom doesn't want him bringing females (not even his baby's mom) in her house. I don't know if he really does want to be w/me but thinks that it will make my life worst than it already is or if he doesn't want to be w/me & just sticks around 4 the sex. (20 yr old college student who just broke off a 3 yr engagement/he's 21 & a college drop out). What do u think he's up to and/or how do I find out? THX

2007-05-08 09:31:35 · 18 answers · asked by Silent Jay 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong to stay at home and take care of all the household chores and kids while my wife works. She doesnt seem to mind at all,she actually prefers it that way, but people tend to put their two-cents in all the time and make me feel like scum. What do you think?

2007-05-08 09:30:39 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i've been married for 5 months already, my husband cheated on me last year while we were boyfriends he said he was confused when he did it but that this is never going to happen and it's been almost imposible to forget about it we lasted almost 5 years as boyfriend and girlfriend... i know he only did it once but i can't seem to get it out my mind, the worse thing is that i imagine them both having sex and that disgusts me! what should i do? i've consider therapy but i don't know if it will work ...

2007-05-08 09:29:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my childern were put in the custody of their father over a year and a half ago i have court visitation and have not seen or talked to my childern in that time how do i take them back to court if i dont have the money

2007-05-08 09:28:10 · 11 answers · asked by sugga246 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please LADIES ADVICE???
I was in a 3 year relationship with an incredible woman.I just didnt feel ready to get married, be with her yes. I knew in time she would be my wife. She temp went back home to her country and 6 months later she tells me she hooked up with a friend, and they got married. The SAD thing is that I was wishy washy before, we were always together, but I changed my mind about getting married a few times, and I guess she didnt trust me as much. Well, she is married now for 2 months and I am DEVASTATED. She called me yesterday and told me she only got married bcs. he would do it ASAP and thought I would never do it. Sayst that her husband loves her much more than she loves him. Also, she said she would get divorced if he gave her a reason to (but she cant do it). Also told me that if we are meant together, then we will be in the future. Ladies, what is going on here? She is obviously not happy or not in love? What? Do I have a chance? What should I do?

2007-05-08 09:28:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-08 09:27:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

everyone i know is being cheated on or cheating .My ex has got intouch after 6yrs and i am feeling now llike the other woman

2007-05-08 09:25:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was divorced after 23+ years. She divorced me. She was an adulteress and admitted it.

Before I moved out, I rifled through a box which she kept up high in her closet. Inside, I found a photo of her and "one" of the guys. This one happened to be her High School sweetheart. (Really)

I took the photo, which was a "party picture" type, with these two boneheads in an embrace. You can even see her wedding ring. I still have the photo, I don't know if she knows I have it.

I no longer want it, and thought I'd just mail it back to her. We've been divorced for over a year now. I don't speak to her.

2007-05-08 09:24:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was divorced after 23+ years. She divorced me. She was an adulteress and admitted it.

Before I moved out, I rifled through a box which she kept up high in her closet. Inside, I found a photo of her and "one" of the guys. This one happened to be her High School sweetheart. (Really)

I took the photo, which was a "party picture" type, with these two boneheads in an embrace. You can even see her wedding ring. I still have the photo, I don't know if she knows I have it.

I no longer want it, and thought I'd just mail it back to her. We've been divorced for over a year now. I don't speak to her.

2007-05-08 09:24:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My son is almost 8 years old now. We haven't seen his father in nearly 4 years. He was always in and out of the relationship cheating on me and staying out all night. He used to hit me and I let it go on far too long. Now things are great. I have remarried and had another child. My son calls my husband daddy mostly because this is all he has ever really known. Now My ex is due to get out of jail. He had to sit the last 6 months in county lock up for not paying child support. He has never really helped me out at all and I know he will just end up back there cause he never learns.

I guess my question has to do with waht should I do if he tries to get into my sons life? I think he is going to feel that he is owed because he just sat time and is going to try to take him from me. His family lives out of state and I'm afraid he will leave with my son. He is not a good man and has never grown up so I don't think my son being around him is a good idea. We have a good family here

2007-05-08 09:23:03 · 19 answers · asked by Michelle C 3 in Family

Can a long distance realtionship really work?

2007-05-08 09:22:34 · 12 answers · asked by Chelsea B 1 in Singles & Dating

that you do infront of you husband,wife or partners apart from letting off wind lol

2007-05-08 09:19:32 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have DDD boobs brown and cooper hair brown eyes and im hott

2007-05-08 09:19:06 · 25 answers · asked by [†]Reyven Star[†] 2 in Singles & Dating

He said he could live without anybody else (including me), except for his brother. do i need to find someone else that will be more willing to put me first. im not self centered, but this really bothers me. any suggestions? 1 week ago
he also blamed me for him not talking to his brother often enough, like it's my job to tell him to call his brother.

2007-05-08 09:18:46 · 17 answers · asked by bass_clarinet07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have fallen in love with my best friends girlfriend. I need a sneaky plan to get him to dump her. Any suggestions?

2007-05-08 09:16:56 · 32 answers · asked by FUN 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm really curious because i've had alot of friends who've tried this and really controlled themselves. Is it true that eating citrus fruits such as lemons, oranges, and grapfruits help control your hunger and appetite. I've been gaining to much weight for the past couple months and i just want to know if eating citrus fruits is a good beneficial start.

2007-05-08 09:16:37 · 3 answers · asked by JuJu Beanz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i don't understand if they have love, someone who's always there for them... etc why??? can you guys help me understand....

2007-05-08 09:16:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm talking about a guy that you don't know too well, but you're attracted to him. If you can tell if a guy is lying to you, what are the signs that you look at to make that determination?

2007-05-08 09:15:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm recently divorced after 15 years "she cheated" and I never really payed attention to a womens ring finger until now. If she is wearing a ring I stay away but if not then I take her as possibly available. Do women look at guys the same way?

2007-05-08 09:13:12 · 14 answers · asked by tyler d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so i dont even know if they should be getting married. im friends with both of them and feel like its my place to say something. the major problem they have comes from his family. the way he was brought up is that the man is the bread winner and the woman cleans. his grandma just recently told his soon to be wife (in like 13 days) that she is worthless, lazy, ect. and to never call her again. she called me all upset. well the thing is he hurt his knee many years ago and had surgery. since then it bothers him sometimes. I think he uses it as an excuse ALOT. he has worked maybe a total of a year in the 6 years they have been together. he always says he cant do something because of his knee. (even making pizzas) so he usually sits at home all day and whatches tv or plays video games while she goes to work. his grandma thinks it okay that he doesnt have an income and sits on his ***. he doesnt help her clean but once in a while and then he might put the dishes up or take the trash out

2007-05-08 09:13:03 · 5 answers · asked by DP 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is in the military and we got "married" shortly before he was getting sent to another duty station. We didnt have a ceremony, in fact, most of my family doesnt even know. We did all of the legal stuff to get married, we share the same last name and I'm a legal military dependent but it was never an "in the eyes of God" thing, so we're legally joined, but his family(and the parts of mine that know) only consider us engaged until we have the religious ceremony. Well, we're doing that spring of next year, Can we have a regular 'wedding' and just not do all of the legal stuff (since it's already done). And can i still use my maiden name in the ceremony, and just leave out the part where the pastor says "and i now present for the FIRST time...."
Has anyone ever done this? I want a real wedding, not a renewal of vows ceremony.

2007-05-08 09:12:42 · 11 answers · asked by a jarhead's wife 2 in Weddings

I have been married now for 10 years... My husband love porn like most, but he is getting way to involved with it.. I am not noticed, and I am always a piece of *********** ... I cant seem to even make conversation with him ... He finds his own reasons not to make love to me... Sometimes this will go for 6 months or so...... Could someone please help me. I am a woman and I need the little things out of life... Not the negative crap all the time..I know no one could be that bad...I am not perfect by no means, but I have a heart and I do give my all... JUst anouther thought..How much negative crap about oneself, can one withstand throughtout a life time before they {A} start beiling it or {B} they crack.... Thanks anything would be helpful...

2007-05-08 09:11:56 · 20 answers · asked by smiles 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been having an affair for 2 months now.,and my son are taking their jerk father side, and now am being shown the door as well as a couple of smack across the face!
My sons all 4 of them have been beating the hell out of our family friend who I had an affair with, while their father was in IRAQ! Yes I know it was not right but I wanted to have sex, and he was their when my husband wasn't!

Now he's moved back to Jacksonville FL. and trying to escape what my husband said he was going to do to him!

My boys have thrown me out of the home and are calling me a dirty C**T, in public!
I'm being destroyed and my husband wont do anything about it but kick my ***!
I've got no where to go, and been fired because of affair and no money, because my son, gave my pin # to father and he took all the money and put it in a account whit his name only on it!
What am I going to do? I'm 45 and can't start fresh, and sons have been mean to me, I hate what I did to my family!

2007-05-08 09:10:22 · 14 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Marriage & Divorce