i really dont know what to do?

Question

i love sex with my wife but since she works nite so i guess i/we can only have sex if she is available & on her day-off.then when the times that she wants to have sex,wakes me up @ 1am, 2-3am..but the prob.is those hours were im dead sleeping coz i work early morning @5:30...but still i managed to get hard just for her,..but after 10mins atleast it wud left me not be able to climax bec.mine is getting soft.....& if we were both on day-off, she wantsbut i will manage to get aroused bec.she will get mad @me..as ussual after 10mins atleast of pumping.it wud left me not be able to climax cox mine was soft...she was so disappointed &threaten me that she will go look for a man that can do climax.i dont know if i have or i need to take a pills thats being sold to GNC....or i do have some problem with my brain?

Answer 1

First of all, you need to learn how to write properly. However, you seem to be stressing over the situation period, which means that you have to be able to get into it before you can stay hard. Stress, even underlying stress will keep you from performing properly. What you should do is try going to be a little early, and set your alarm for when you know she is going to be in, and then you should be able to get in the mood better, when you prepare yourself for it. Maybe make a rose trail to the bedroom, and start her out like that. I would try working on it before just resorting to a pill. Also, try to fix your schedule to where you have the same days off at least one week out of the month. There are several things that you can do to help this situation out, but first you have to be willing to try new methods.

Answer 2

Naw...the problem isn't with your brain...it's the wife. Expecting you to throw one into her at zero-dot-thirty in the morning is alittle unreasonable I think.
My advice...as much as spontaenous sex can be great I think you'd better try and work out a schedule of sorts. either that or be 'in the mood' on your days off together.
However...any male or female that says if you can't satisfy them sexually they'll find someone who can needs a good, swift kick in the posterior.
That is a cruel thing to say to any spouse and if she throws that up again in your face...tell her maybe if she appealed more to you sexually you'd be able to perform better.
naturally this won't sit well with her but maybe she'll pack and and hit the road. Good riddance pal. You don't need that kind of crap tossed in your face because you don't feel like getting laid that night.

Answer 3

You know you shouldnt be so "hard" on yourself... ;) shes being selfish...it happens when shes sex deprieved. You guys should maybe take a weekend away, and relax and it will help you both unwind and enjoy each other. It gets kinda tough to be in the mood when your in a schedule and it has to be done....i feel for both of you. I thin kthe problem is neither you or her its your situation. You guys should really talk or maybe go and see her during her break before you go to bed and get a quickie maybe it will help...Good Luck!

Answer 4

wow well that's though you guys should talk about considering for her to get another job, both need to ask yourselfs what's more important: the job? or your relationship? and about your wife cheating on you, well i've had that problem myself where my husband doesn't a full erection and im not able to climax but the best thing is to be patient and talk about it!

Answer 5

Screw her... :0 ) Seriously thogh, what does she expect a full salute in amatter of seconds, does she atleast try to get u in the mood...Every girl knows you have to stimulate it in order to have it do what you want it 2 do...Do some foreplay....If that doesnt work.... maybe she should get a different job.

Answer 6

Your wife sounds like a *****, Caspar.....sorry.