Family & Relationships - 11 May 2007

is women fell happy than men when they have sex?
and why ?

2007-05-11 23:30:57 · 1 answers · asked by San 1 in Singles & Dating

This is not a joke, but I'm sure humor may be involved. I really want to have less tension and better times with her. Especially since I will be moving to her neck of the woods next year. We get along okay but we both know we are not one another's favorite person. Without getting into the problems, how could we get along better and totally eliminate fakeness? Thanks for your answers!

2007-05-11 23:10:57 · 13 answers · asked by Sleek 7 in Family

I am 16 years old and since I turned 13 I don't get along w/ my family, especially my brother. I know all siblings argue, but these are such serious fights that I don't even think I will talk to him after I turn 18 and go to college. He is 21 years old and when he is in a good mood, he is always kidding around and fun to be around. When he talks to me directly, things are okay. But then when I talk to him, he is always being really mean and I don't know why. It is like he has mood swings or something. We argue everyday and he hurts my feelings a lot everyday. We used to be sooo close and I used to look up to him, but now I don't even look @ him the same way. Like today, he walked in the room to get his laundry while I was using the computer. I JUST said "Hi" and then a song came on the radio that I liked and I just said "I like this song" and was being polite, and then he is like "shut the f*** up, I just want to do my laundry." and then later....

2007-05-11 23:07:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi, I'm a 20 year old girl, still a virgin, who's abstaining from sex till marriage. But what is the right age to settle down with someone and get married?

2007-05-11 22:39:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like the attention he gives me because I feel attractive. I like him and is attracted to him too. I like it when he flirts with me. I feel happy because he seems to like me alot. He's always kidding around with me, look for me, and always look at me and say or do something to try to catch my attention and make me smile or laugh. He buys me lunch and seems to care about me alot. I like him and he likes me too. I need to stop but I can't. I just like his attention, but would never divorce my husband to be with him. I could never see myself living with him, only with my husband, because of culture differences. We know we both won't get hurt because we both are same boat, married too. We just like each other and like to flirt with each other.

2007-05-11 21:46:34 · 47 answers · asked by . 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been together for 4 years, and it's only been in the past three monthes that she's been this way, and it's driving me crazy. Any speculations on to what the ****'s up?

2007-05-11 21:45:47 · 18 answers · asked by John Paul 1 in Singles & Dating

...because you are separated from your husband (by mutual agreement) and you and your child live with an another man that you realy love?

2007-05-11 21:39:37 · 17 answers · asked by Wintermute 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-11 21:36:44 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have these two friends who are cousins and are both boys.theres also this pattern that one boy gets a crush on a girl, then the other like that girl too, then they fight and try to make the girl tell them who she likes. in the end, they lose their crush on her, and get a crush on another girl. it keeps bugging that the fact they both tell me these things on msn, then they want me to tell them whats wrong with them, and ask me how to get the girl to like them or how to get the girl to break up with the other. but every time i tell them of the pattern and that they should like sepprate girls, they get really mad at me and say that i like the other guy or some stupid saying like that. how am i supposed to tell them of the pattern and to like different girls without them getting mad at me and saying mean things?

2007-05-11 21:35:31 · 5 answers · asked by Hip_cat 2 in Friends

he wants me to talk dirty on the phone i don't know waht to say to him?

2007-05-11 21:34:03 · 13 answers · asked by josie s 1 in Singles & Dating

Like from some other country like China, Vietnam, Cambodia or something

2007-05-11 21:22:22 · 10 answers · asked by Thomas 2 in Singles & Dating

i was just wondering if any one know a poemor verse that i can put in a card to say thanky ou for attending our wedding or some thing along them lines ....
would like to here any poems to do with weddings
thanks

2007-05-11 21:01:11 · 3 answers · asked by tamieka_hyland 1 in Weddings

A friend's wife had an "accident" with her office mate. They went to Frankfurt in order to attend the company's annual world meeting in the company's headquarter. Her local office didn't allocate that much to give them each room. So they slept in the same room for 5 days and in the last day, the lust was in their head, then...

They didn't prepped with safety.

The next week she checked, and wooaa it gave 2 stripes. My friend cannot tolerate this and still acting like a nut since last week when he knew bout it.

What would you do if you're in his position?

What should I tell him?

**O, my friend's wife is 38 and her office mate is a junior, still about 20s the office send him because of his fluent French & German. The conference was held in German and her local office only got him.
She had 2 children with my friend. My friend is 43, but in this case he's acting like 13 years old adolesensce

2007-05-11 20:43:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I take it very personally and start to question my manhood, am I attractive?, does she want someone else? does she have someone else? these things go through my head. I'm feeling that way tonite. We average if I'm lucky once a month (and NO that is not enough) I am so disgruntled we were in church last Sunday and the pastor was talking about how God's greatest gift to us was sex in marriage its pleasurable, wonderful and more fulfilling, and you have it much more often. I wanted to stand up and say Bull ****! but I didnt. That sermon has bothered me all week long and today was my 16th wedding anniversary. I got a bouquet of mixed colored roses and a musical card and delivered them to her at work on my way home. She was so excited.Then we went out to dinner when she got home from work and I told her how I feel. Her only suggestion was to talk to the pastor. Tell him that isnt how it is in my marriage. I want it to be like in the sermon. What do I do now?

2007-05-11 20:43:02 · 14 answers · asked by gr_elvis 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever been so hurt by the truth? Didn't you feel like it just hurt so bad but it felt so good because you knew that it was the truth? Did the truth hurt your heart and make it hard for you to breath? What was your reaction to the hurting truth?

2007-05-11 20:41:34 · 10 answers · asked by ME 4 in Singles & Dating

i am getting married next month but feel strangely flat about it. at times i feel so scared and am worried that i am making another mistake. I have been living with partner for 2 and half years so it is not as if i dont know him.

This is my second marriage the first was abusive and violent, my fiancee never even raises his voice and is great with my son who is disabled. (better than his father actually).
I get scared that after the marriage he will change and turn nasty but i am not sure where that comes from.
I am also having probs with my ex who gets at me through the children and they wont visit me at home beause they are scared of what my ex will say. My youngest son who lives with us is scared to tell his dad about the wedding becasue he makes him feel bad and guilty for talking to my partner.
What do you think, i dont want to hurt my son but also dont want to hurt my partner

2007-05-11 20:40:21 · 13 answers · asked by cottontail 5 in Weddings

He also has two married daughters and therefore no body to look after his son as he has to go for job daily. Though the son is reasonably respoonsible (30 years) but still sometime he creates dangerous things for himself. Now this person only wants to marry for sake of his son only. But our worry is that new wife which as of now is saying that she would be able to take good care of his son may get irritated after some time and then the marriage will be in doldrum. Please advice(No jokes please)

2007-05-11 20:37:42 · 20 answers · asked by Happy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife doesn't want to know I have things left from my late wife. Some of the items have helped comfort me in the past when I was missing my late wife.

2007-05-11 20:35:34 · 28 answers · asked by KeepSellorGive 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just before you drop him in the boiling water???

2007-05-11 20:33:25 · 21 answers · asked by gasparin 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband is out of state for his job so we are not together. He called me earlier to let me know that he will be out with his co-workers and told me not to worry & that I can call him anytime. But I got upset at him. So, now I called his cellphone & he won't pick up. Although, he doesn't have a history of cheating ( thank goodness) but I hate it when guys go out because they go to bars and drink and who knows what else happen. He's with co-workers who are also married but I don't trust guys especially when they're out drinking. I don't drink at all & I always have a bad impression on married men who go to bars and drink. He told me his co-workers name & I also tried calling his co-worker to see if they're together but his co-workers phone is OFF. Do I need to worry? What could they possibly be doing and talking about for hours? Maybe they're at a club or nude bar. I really hate to think worst. Help. Thanks.

2007-05-11 20:31:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you date a girl that wore make-up? Even if they wore a lot or less?

2007-05-11 20:27:59 · 13 answers · asked by RavenBlack 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm currently attending med school and there's this guy in my class who I've been dating for the past 4 months. Well, I go up to talk to him at school today, and he totally ignores me and doesn't even look at me. And then he sends me this email "we need to talk." And then he comes over and dumps me. I have a twin sister who's also in the same class, and she told me not to start seeing him when I first started school a year ago, but he kept persuing me and I actually took a risk. I should have listened. I am really sad now and can't study or eat. I'm 22 and he's 24 and this was my first relationship. I am a Christian and don't believe in anything pre-marital but he sure does. He told me that he didn't have feelings for me when he broke up with me and that we weren't compatible. Do you think it was my personality? Do guys see good girls as boring? I feel really sick because I have to see him every day in class for the next year and it's really going to affect my studies.

2007-05-11 20:25:40 · 7 answers · asked by Jenn S 1 in Singles & Dating

We work together and love each other's company & we are both married to different people. The sex with my husband was good when we dated for about an year - since we got married its been about 3 years now, he has lost all interest in me, I have tried everything I possibly could do but it dint help - my guess-he got into h00kers when we away for 6mnths bfr marriage.
Now this guy at work is a sweetheart, I have known him for about a year now and we have been sort of flirting and fooling around. I like him very much but there is a big chance that if we sleep together I might want it more and might fall in love with him. Also, we have kissed and it was totally hot. I know if I have sex with him it is going to blow my mind!
Now as far as guilt is concerned, I dont feel too much of it now, but we have only kissed. Will the guilt suddenly strike if I have sex with him. I feel bad more about his wife than my husband. BTW, My husband is the only man I ever slept with so I am tempted to try.

2007-05-11 20:21:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My son is a Marine. He is the kindest, most compassionate person I have ever known. He is being deployed to Iraq in a few weeks. My son is only 20 years old. He just graduated high school in 2004. He is a kid still, he is not a soldier, he is not a killer. He plays games on the computer and still leaves his clothes on the floor. He has only been to another state on vacation, never to another country. He never even liked the air-soft gun he got for x-mas a few years ago. My eyes are now filled with tears, my heart hurting badly, my mind filled with only scary thoughts. I want to go with him and protect him. I am his mom, his life JUST getting started. He has the world at his feet. Why are we in Iraq? My son would do anything for our country, but this deployment is not for our country. I am not sure what it is REALLY for??? I do know that his life is worth more than this. He is brave for me and our family, but he must be terrified on the inside. I need help to handle this.

2007-05-11 20:20:09 · 20 answers · asked by Helaine S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

By the way, I'm a country girl.

2007-05-11 20:19:21 · 11 answers · asked by auburn_countrygrl 2 in Singles & Dating

She needs $1200 to have a medical procedure done. I've known her for years and figured she'll pay me back. Should I lend it to her?

2007-05-11 20:11:30 · 17 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Friends

2007-05-11 20:06:02 · 10 answers · asked by candy 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I got a divorce,and since then we tried to work things out and we got back together for awhile but it didn't work.we both have been dating someone new for 6 months now.We still talk and spend time with each other from time to time, and still love each other but cant seem to work out our differences because when we try to talk about it, it brings back the hurtful memories . Is it a good thing to still be close or should we just cut all ties and try to move on? I'm so confused and so much still in love with him,that part of me wants him back no matter what the problems are and the other part of me says we will never be able to get through our differences. What should I do I'm so confused but still so much in love????

2007-05-11 19:58:54 · 19 answers · asked by ekhkygirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There was this guy in HS i used to hang alot. He was/is a very nice person.He was there for me when I was dump by my 1st love.Than a new girl came to school and he started to hang with her or maybe like her I don't know.All I know is that it hurt me to see him with her.We even stoped talking because of this girl.And boy did I cry but never told anyone about it. I did wanted him to get a girl but not this one.I started hanging out with the girl and found out many bad things.Thats one of the biggest reason I didn't want him with her.(this happend around 2001).He married the girl because she got pregnant)Recently around 6 months ago I saw him at a video store.We both looked at each other for a while and I felt something in my tummy I can't explain.He didn't talk about his wife and I didn't talk about my husband.There was a shine in his eyes. I found out he got sepparated from his wife a while ago.But I didn't ask him about it.I love my husband but i don't know why i felt that day.

2007-05-11 19:55:37 · 7 answers · asked by lupe s 1 in Singles & Dating

Well where do i start... ok i have been at my current job for 8 months as a chemical plant operator , great benefits ok pay but its not a rewarding or as adventurous as my last job as a traveling pipeline reconstruction tech, not to mention the last paid better. This job is very demanding mentaly and stresses me out so bad i cannot relax when at home for dreading coming in to work monday. do i go back to my previous job and make everyone mad who helped me get the new job or stay here and lose my mind?NEXT my name is on the lease of a home that i am sharing with 2 of my best friends. the 1st that moved in is driving me nuts with his drinking and irresponsibility, the secound is perfect no complaints but the 1st is ruining it all for both of us. how do i kick him out with out ending the friendship? any suggestion would be greatly appreciated

2007-05-11 19:54:10 · 6 answers · asked by brandon4568 2 in Marriage & Divorce