Family & Relationships - 11 May 2007

i am 15 and my boyfriend is 16. we go to the movies quite often and im an easy going person who can see anything at the movies. last night he said he wanted to see a movie and gave me a choice and they were all strong violence or action type movies. he said to me he knew i didnt like them and he said he didnt like them either (but really he luvs them.) when he decided on the movie which was shooter i told him i didnt want to see it and told him i didnt want to see him at all now. wat should i do ?

2007-05-11 12:11:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 12:11:49 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I need everyone that believes in God to pray the prayer of agreement with me that I will get a higher paying position...who's with me?

2007-05-11 12:09:47 · 8 answers · asked by Ms Mika 2 in Family

what does he mean? was he insulting me??? i have no idea what he meant! what does he mean??

2007-05-11 12:04:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad drank behind our backs for 4 years. He was always angry and constantly yelling. I've never been able to talk with him and especially now. It happened about 7 months ago. My dad became so sick and I became worried. When he refused to go to the hospital I said "I will not stay in this house, if you can't even take care of yourself." Well, he did go. Turns out he was about to die from alcohol poisining. I saved his life.

Then there is my mom, who is one of my best friends. Yeah, we have or fights, but I love her so much. During my fathers drinking, my mom was hiding her drug addiction. She would take up to 70 pills a day. These pills are Narcatics (pain killers) and make you extermely tired. Why she isn't dead is a miricale. Let's just say, she was obtaining these drugs in illegal ways. And one day as she was picking them up the police arrested her. She went to jail, was released, and we haven't talked since. I am alone and sad, and can't find away to escape

2007-05-11 12:03:07 · 10 answers · asked by twilight411 2 in Family

WHAT DO I DO?????

I THINK I AM PRETTY

2007-05-11 12:03:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is there a chnace i will get a gf even if im overweight? i feel embarrased. i have lost about 3 pounds recently from playing bball and eating a bit healthier. but i worry that no girl will like me.

2007-05-11 12:01:28 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hm, what DO you guys think. He told me spicifically taht he is not going for commitment and wants some fun. I thought about it

and I agreed but I have set out the rules. He hasnt replied as a i left a message.

GUYS i need your opinion NOW!

2007-05-11 11:59:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just today, i was looking with my boyfriend on the internet and i saw this picture of a girl on his friend's myspace page, he was staring at it and i asked him if he knew her, he said 'yeah, she used to work in my shop' (he has a shop) - i asked him if anything ever went on between them, he said she made advances towards him but he didnt do anything with her.

he's always honest with me with these types of things, as i always question him about most girls, and he's very open and will tell me 'yeah we did things' or 'we hung out' etc - maybe i am prying too much and hearing things i dont want to be hearing - but i can't help myself - it's like i want to make myself sick with jealousy

Anyway, i got upset over it, more so because I made myself become upset, she looked pretty on the photo, long blonde with blue eyes - opposite of me; long black haired chinese girl.

i feel ugly and horrible, because i know my boyfriend's been with lots more prettier girls than me.

whats wrong with me?

2007-05-11 11:58:54 · 11 answers · asked by hippyJu 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

When I graduated college, my father threatened not to attend because I did not want him to bring his mistress to what was supposed to be MY day. He ended up coming, sans the concubine, and everything was fine.

Tomorrow, both my best friend and my father are graduating from different colleges. It's impossible to attend both ceremonies. I was trying to decide which to attend. I asked my father if he minded if I attended my friend's graduation instead of his, largely because she doesn't have a lot of support.

For his answer, he cited my response to his suggestion to bring his girlfriend to my ceremony (which would've embarrassed me, my mother, and my maternal grandparents, also in attendance...) when I told him that I would never forgive him because in my eyes, he chose his concubine over me.

Now, all I want is some opinions on his response. I would be attending my friend's ceremony. He would've been at home, being selfish. He says it's the same thing. I disagree. Who's right?

2007-05-11 11:58:51 · 4 answers · asked by Steven A 2 in Family

one thing:yesterday...I had to stay at my school for our consert which my parents always do the recording for the DVDs But my parents were like an hour and twenty something minutes late and this guy that always is playin round with me and things. He came up to me and was like what are you doing here and i was like uhm. and told him and he was like oh then he kept bugging me and he just like jumps on me as i almost fall over (he is 6ft and im like 5"5 so it was like killing me)he came up to me then he left and soonly came back and was like your my best friend and gave me a huge hug and things then he just hung around me and then i turned around to look out the window to see if my parents were there yet and then he kicked me in the *w/e*butt and i was like ah hello but then he did it more than once. once again he left went somewhere then when i was walking to the band hall to see the director he again came up and hugged me and was like your my best friend again.do you think he likes me?

2007-05-11 11:56:23 · 5 answers · asked by Bobbie J 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 11:55:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister who I thougth was a saint is cheating on her husband, what is even worse the man is a preacher. What should I do I feel sorry for my brother in law

2007-05-11 11:53:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

shall i leave the computer on, cos i could be back in 5min

2007-05-11 11:51:02 · 29 answers · asked by Lisa T 6 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this girl, and I used to go out with her, it never worked out, we never seen enough of each other, now we do. In class she will say something and I'd have to lip-read from the other side of class. She always walks with me at the end of school, and asks me what I'll be doing when I get home tell me what she's doing. The question is, does she like me to a certian extent that she will go back out with me?

2007-05-11 11:48:36 · 15 answers · asked by Granty Arr 2 in Singles & Dating

I posted on here before about a girl I liked having problems as her Grandad was dying. She text me yesterday apologizing for being distant explaining she had big problems on her mind and that her Grandad had died last Friday.

It sounded like she was looking for a shoulder to cry on but I am useless in this situation, if I have a problem like that I tend to go very quiet. So I tried my best and told her I'm there for her if she needs me for anything and all that sort of stuff and I tried my best to listen and offer advice, but another problem was I was ill yesterday and when I was trying to write the right words I couldn't concentrate very well. I'm hoping I didn't come across as I wasn't interested as that wasn't my intention at all, of course I'll do what I can if she needs me, but my mates would call me a 'blokey bloke' and I'm not that good with emotions and all that stuff.

So my question is, Did I handle it OK? What should I have said? Or what could I still say that might help?

2007-05-11 11:48:27 · 3 answers · asked by mikester_tyson 2 in Singles & Dating

I need tips on getting boys to like me! I am having a very slow love life and all of my friends have had their first kisses, apart from me! I need help because at this rate I'm gonna be the literal "sweet 16, and never been kissed"! I had more than my fair share of rejections and I'm getting sick of it! I'm a little emo kid with red hair and I can't seem to catch any boys eye about how pretty or beautiful I am etc. (i'm not saying I am pretty or beautiful but...), i can only catch a boys eye because of my hair! Grrrrr!

2007-05-11 11:46:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I'm what you would consider a "Last Minute Shopper". My Fiancee and I were blessed with a child last year in march, so this whole being a mother and father thing is kinda weird, but we are doing well. Beings how we are new to parenting, I'm a little confused about what to get her! Does anyone have any ideas?

2007-05-11 11:45:01 · 1 answers · asked by racin4slips 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been unfaithful to my partner ,he knows now and wants to try to sort this out. I for one realise i have made the biggest mistake and would never cause this destruction or hurt to anyone again. I love my partner and deeply regret my mistake,however i am unsure of how and what i need to do to rebuild our relationship again? please help

2007-05-11 11:29:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Having marital problems. I am 30 and my wife for 7 yrs. is 34. We have 2 kids 6 & 4. My wife told me she was not in love with me any longer. She had been feeling this way for some time but never revealed her true feelings to me until now. To her, our marriage is over and there is no chance for recovery. She is determined to find her "happiness" somewhere else. All this time I thought I was providing her with all the happiness she wanted -- emotionally, mentally and physically. I don't drink, smoke, and I'm not abusive to her or the children. But for some reason I'm not worth a second chance. She wants to continue to stay here until we can financially afford to separate. But I'm living an emotional roller coaster. I never thought she would stop loving me. What can I do to save my marriage when she is so determined to be by herself. She tells me she wants to find her happiness with herself. What can I do? I will always love her and do not want to lose her. She is not seeing anybody.

2007-05-11 11:28:27 · 17 answers · asked by Angelboy00 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-11 11:23:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm planning my friends bachelorette party in a month and we're going to Provincetown, MA ... we can't wait!!
The 'maids and I want to have a list of dares for the bride (and us) to complete by the end of the night.
Has anyone done this??
Any and ALL answers welcome!!!
We don't mind being raunchy or far out there, since we'll be in Ptown Mass ... the gay capital of the East Coast. :)

2007-05-11 11:23:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

...I told my girl to quit her job, because i wanted her to go to the gym: work out and have a better physical figure...I told her i was going to support her(money) all i ask is that i wanted her to look sexier and to work out for her own good....I just want her to be hotter...she called me shallow and an asshole..what did i do wrong?? is her body after all...what would you respont?

2007-05-11 11:20:58 · 65 answers · asked by paisa007 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I want to go out tonight but all of my friends are either working or just busy or didn't answer their phone. I really don't want to stay home tonight since I have to work the rest of the weekend. Any ideas?

2007-05-11 11:20:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and I have been together for two and a half years, married for 7 months. Last January I found out that he had cheated on me for the past two years with several different girls. Then last summer 2006 he had finally stopped (or so I thought, he really didn't) cause we found out I was preganant. We married a few months later and the whole time I thought he had stopped cheating on me he was actually having an affair with the same woman for the last 10-11 months. I caught him through his e mail and after confronting him, he confessed to seeing this woman, and all the other bad things he did behind my back the entire relationship. Mind you, I was 8 months pregnant when he was caught. My husband claimed to be unlike any man and that marraige was sacred to him and that kind of BS. But now I know that he is nothing but a selfish complusive liar. I love him as a person but I'm not in love with him anymore. Do I stay with him for the child? Or do I leave now while shes a baby?

2007-05-11 11:17:23 · 18 answers · asked by Betrayed and Insane 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Today him and his brother were talking about something on the bus and the convo I was listening to was completely boring so I turned around and started listening to their convo and about 5 seconds after I turned around he started talking to me about something that happened to him yesterday. And then he made a joke that was pretty funny and his bro said "Your not funny" and I had to stand up for him so I said "Well, at least he's funnier than you". And then we started talking again and I swear he was staring striaght into my eyes the whole time. Do you think he may like me??

2007-05-11 11:16:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'v a son of 11, always in some kind of trouble.
nothing bad, he's not that kind of boy, just he's a bit of a classroom clown, gulable, and always easily lead astray.
My husband seems to have no patients, looses his rag with him, always shouting, cant talk things through, and im sick of playing goosberry sorting and calming the situation.
Any suggestions from others in the same boat,
mams keeping dads calm or dads not being able to deal with things calmly.
most appreciated
x

2007-05-11 11:16:09 · 12 answers · asked by red 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend wants to be naked in front of his mom, though his mom is of old thinking, and does'nt like this thing. he wants to be naked only infront of her mom [not all the time] in some situations, that his mom would think that he is not doing it purposefully. he said me this thing a few days before and asked me some such situations, i wasn't able to help him. he is a good friend of mine, and is good by nature.

2007-05-11 11:12:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to have my hubby make breakfast and dinner. And go out and spent some time with my friend while daddy deals with the kids. Peace and Quiet for me!

2007-05-11 11:11:25 · 5 answers · asked by Marge 5 in Family

I let my son go with his grandma today, and they were supposed to be going back to her house (15 minutes away) and playing, and he was supposed to be home by 3pm. 4:30 rolls around and they pull up to my house like nothings wrong(While I have been trying to call her cell and house for over an hour). She says shes sorry she is late but the train took longer than they thought. I asked what she was talking about, and she tells me she took my son on a train to NY city for a ride, without asking me if it was alright. I was totally pissed off and told her she had no business taking him on any trip without letting me know. nd to top it off she threw out his brand new shoes that I bought him, and bought him new ones because the ones he was wearing were a little to big. I spent 50$ on those darned shoes. She told me to relax I was really overreacting she thought she was doing me a favor, by making sure he had "good" shoes. I was more upset about her taking him on a train W/O my approval

2007-05-11 11:06:24 · 25 answers · asked by melissaw77 5 in Family