WHAT DO I DO?????
I THINK I AM PRETTY
2007-05-11 12:03:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
At 12 you shouldnt be having boyfriends. Why would you want to complicate your life for some guy whose only real interest in girls at that age is about sex? Boys arent interested in relationships at that age or even older, they just want to have sex. I know cuz I was one of those boys once.
You should enjoy the freedom you have. When you get a boyfriend suddenly your freedom is cut in half cuz you have to worry about what he wants all the time, and the guy usually gets what he wants.
2007-05-11 12:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your're only 12 darlin! I didnt have my first boyfriend untill i was 15. and it lasted 3 days!! Let me tell you this: at age 12, most boy aren't really thinking about girls and the ones that have a girlfriend dont really know what they're doing. Its just cool to say you have a girlfriend. They dont care about looks, they only care about if you have a good personality and make them laugh. thats why so many younger kids play with both boys and girls, they dont care, its just another person.
Also how do you know no one like you? There could be a guy out there that thinks your great! Just enjoy being 12 and still in that kid becoming adult stage. I used to think i was unlikable when i was your age, but things change.
2007-05-11 14:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of what your friends are doing, don't follow their lead. None of you should have boyfriends while you are this young. This is the time to hang out in groups as you all get to know each other and learn to interact with each other. Your brain has alot of changes to go through before you can rationally figure out what you want to do with your life.
Set goals for yourself for what you want to do after high school. Start planning for college and what you want to do with your life once you are an adult. Even that will change from time-to-time as you grow up so don't move too quickly on anything, especially now.
I have a 17 year old niece that doesn't have a boyfriend but she doesn't let that bother her. She will be graduating from high school and going to college and for now, that is her goal and what she concentrates on while she enjoys going to the movies or ballgames with her friends. She doesn't drink or smoke and is waiting until she marries before having sex. She doesn't let her friends influence her or make her feel guilty for what she wants or believes in and she takes pride in who she is as a person. Try to do the same with your life ~ you won't regret it.
And remember, beauty is only skin deep and beauty fades. True beauty is what is inside you, what values and morals you have and how much you respect yourself. If you don't respect yourself, your friends won't either.
2007-05-11 12:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by KittyKat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it. 12 is way to young to have boyfriend and people really do like you. at 12 you don't really have a good control of your emotions (sorry to say)it's a phase that all us girls go through, thinking that we'll never find someone. but don't worry, it took me till i was 15 to get my first boyfriend and it lasted 13 1/2 months. waiting and not rushing was one of the best choices i ever made. so don't rush into anything.
2007-05-11 19:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys still have cooties at the age of 12, stay pretty like you are and boys usually loose thier cooties at the age of 30...
No really!!!
Focus on you right now. Have fun with both boys & girls because having a boyfriend is actually boring when your 12.
2007-05-11 12:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by Dee U 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be 12... Boys don't grow up till they are like in their 30's so you have a long ways yet! You know what's more fun... just to be "friends with the boys" and not date them. I got more respect from the guys and they all loved hanging with me cause I wasn't out to cause drama by trying to date all of them. You say you want a boyfriend but... can you drive yet? can you take a date to dinner and pay for it yet? Can you stay out past 10 p.m.? OR can you hang at school, the mall, talk on the phone, be a friend, just be 12? Learn to be yourself and independent... women who feel they need a man in their life in order to live happy end up extremely unhappy.
2007-05-11 12:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by litlredm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter so much if u have a bf? U will in dure time u don't have 2 have one now focus on ur school work and if u think u r pretty then u r. Boys will so look ur direction enjoy the freedom now.
2007-05-11 12:08:20 · answer #7 · answered by sashii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 12, group up first and get a education then worry about a boyfriend.
2007-05-11 12:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by Ash Kat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what you do.
Look in the mirror and keep telling yourself you're pretty.
Then, for now, take a deep breath. Inhale, exhale. Got it? Good. Okay.
Don't rush life, it'll happen eventually. And then someone may like you but don't really show the direct signs of liking you.
All I can say is give love time.
2007-05-11 12:06:49 · answer #9 · answered by devilishangelgirl10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. much too young. if ur friends have boyfriends.. dont follow them... if ur pretty, keep your self pretty, dont become ugly with the stress of a boyfriend!!!! they arent the most important thing in the world, wait untill ur at least 15 or 16...
2007-05-11 12:12:28 · answer #10 · answered by BEautiful_Disaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋