Family & Relationships - 11 May 2007

My Fiancé and I have been together for 5 years! And have been friends ever sense high school. About 6 months ago he asked me to marry him! I was so excited and he knew that I wanted to get married so badly! I tried to never “push” him about us getting married, but yeah sure it came up a few times. Well now that we are engaged I would at least like to set a date. September 13th 2008. That is about 1 ½ years from now. I don’t think myself that is too soon, it gives us a bunch of time to plan things and not have to rush, but every time I try to talk about us getting married I get blow off or shunned. I sometimes feel that when he asked me to marry me he wasn’t really ready. It was more like a promise to one day get married. I understand that he isn’t an emotional person and sometime talking about this makes him uncomfortable so I want to know how I can talk to him about it without seeming pushy or making him uncomfortable… Oh I can’t wait for the day when the “Kids” subject comes up, ha that should be fun! But right now I just want to get married!!

2007-05-11 09:38:39 · 19 answers · asked by Kate 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend was also right next to me, and she was actually the one that asked him out for me!
Could've it been shyness?

2007-05-11 09:38:36 · 26 answers · asked by Bob the Cat.™ 4 in Singles & Dating

or is it more people are co habitating

2007-05-11 09:38:00 · 11 answers · asked by bust15nutz 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it wrong to divorce a man who isn't who you thought he was? What if this man is a decent man, he doesn't abuse you, doesn't cheat on you but doesn't always respect you? What if the spark isn't there anymore, you always would fight and now you're just sick of it. What if you've tried but can't make him try to make it work. What if you don't know if you love him anymore? What if all he's guilty of is not knowing who you are or taking the time to know who you are, not liking your family, not who you wanted to marry, being lazy, and not pulling his weight financially and not being 100% respectful of you? I'm not sure if I should be considering divorce or not. But this is this situation I'm in. I married young, I still don't think I'm ready for marriage. We've been married less than a year and only new each other a few months before we wed. Coulda shoulda woulda, now I know I shouldn't have rushed. We don't have kids. He's just joined the Navy, against my wishes. I'm catholic.

2007-05-11 09:37:40 · 12 answers · asked by seriously2sweet4u 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do they end up hating their ex wives/husbands? Is it a way to transfer guilt? I am not talking about exes who go crazy and try and interfere in each other's lives. Why do men/women who leave their spouses for another have to turn their exes into the bad guys??

2007-05-11 09:37:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ever since we have started dating he refuses to keep a job. He has had 4 and has only been out of school for 2 months. He really wants to get married, and I love him to death, but it makes me wonder where our financial lives will go?
I don't want to just up and dump him because I love the hell out of him.
He also wants to live with me after i graduate, but my mom told me to wait until the end of June so I can get things set up and going for us, and he freaked out and told me that we have to live together because he will just get sick without me... what do i do? Do I talk to him about it? I have no idea!! I'm all out of ideas!

2007-05-11 09:36:40 · 9 answers · asked by Misty Lee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been dating this guy on and off for 5 years. we are never on the same page. he has a child and he's on and off with his baby's mother but we know than we love eachother. when i wanted more her didnt want to take it to the next level and vice versa. he always wanted to pin point my bad traits but at the same time he tells me how im the right woman for him. he acts so different when we are around certain people. i dont know what to do with him!! now im 21 and im ready for something stable. could it be that he's just keeping me around because the sex is good or is it more???

2007-05-11 09:36:20 · 16 answers · asked by xxshaolinzfinestxx 1 in Singles & Dating

in school, my friend natalie fake laughs. i think. she laughs over the word poop, someone missing the garbage can, someone farting and someone giving a gay look. is her laugh fake? how can i make her stop laughing? its annoying. why does she laugh so much? tell me. in the cafeteria, the teacher made an announcement and natalie was talking and laughing with her friends. her "fake laugh" then the principal grabbed her arm and told her to leave. on her way out, i say her laughing with her hand on her mouth. why was she laughing over something so embarrassing. how can i make her stop laughing. please!

2007-05-11 09:36:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

do you think being a 50's wife in this day and age is strange? I grew up believing that women do everything, but it's hard to do that and work too!! That's who my husband married and that's who he expects me to be forever I am sure.

2007-05-11 09:32:57 · 19 answers · asked by Kastenfrosch 1 in Weddings

i accidentally told a guy who likes me my bra size, what will he be thinking?

2007-05-11 09:32:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband has another woman we have been married for 20 years we have a doughter 17 after my surgery he ask me to start looking for an apartment because he wants a divorce i cant work a or have any money what do i do dies any one know?

2007-05-11 09:32:23 · 2 answers · asked by Maria R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So there's guy and he's really great in every way but the problem is this other girl likes him. She now is really terrotorial and is super mean to me and tries to hurt me physically or worse tries to get him to (but he dosen't) She started liking him first. She is really great friends with him but I dont think in a BF/GF way. I think he likes me a bit and occasionally flirts with me and calls me stuff that sounds like honey or baby but dosent repeat it when I ask him to he dosent, but he also is now kinda flirting with this really pretty brunette... he used to be pretty rude and called me ugly and such but now hes really nice to me. we talk and stuff... I am in 6th grade, what are some of the signs he likes me...

2007-05-11 09:31:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was seeing this guy for over 2 years. I thought everything was great. I took care of all of his needs but he always left me in the dark when it came around to returning the favor. We moved in together and everything was going fine until his best friend moved in with us. He started suddenly being gone more often and becoming more distant. He broke up with me the day after my birthday. He would not give me a reason. Just that he didnt want this anymore. I continue to talk to him and try to make it work but how do you know when you have done all that you can? I feel stupid for still loving him since he really doesnt show an interest in me anymore unless he wants something sexual. I feel bad about myself and he tells me that the only reason that he doesnt want to be with me is because of my weight. I really love this guy beyond words but how am I supposed to know when over is over? How do you let go of the only thing you have? How do you know when to give up and say screw love? Help...

2007-05-11 09:30:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend been together for 7years now
we want to spend our lives together and not get married
we spend alot of time serving god and doing what he wants us to except getting married he know whats in our hearts.
we dont think getting married is gonna make any difference
when ever we pray we ask him for his forgiveness if he thinks
that we doing something wrong by not being married. We choice to leave things the way they are. We truly love each
other and in our heart we are one.

2007-05-11 09:24:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

bacause my ex looks at me and talks to me and he get mad when i talk to other guys and he doesn't talk to me for a while

2007-05-11 09:22:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay i don't know where to start this all off at! Im 18 years old and I'm 7 months pregnant.( Don't Judge me because Im young) I have been going to college since i was 17 and now i have a daughter on the way! I have been with my baby's father for a little over a year when i got pregnant with our daughter. At first he was okay with it, than he told his mother who i believe convinced him that we shouldn't keep the baby. After that he kept telling me to get an abortion. I didn't because i was pregnant with his first child months before and i was devastated after getting that first abortion! So i said no to the abortion! He didn't change after that he was still the same person. I didn't notice that he changed until 5 months into my pregnancy! That's when he started disappearing and not coming around that much anymore, but he would call everyday and whatever i needed he would help with. But it was like he didn't care about me anymore! Than he called and told me he thinks we should take a

2007-05-11 09:19:52 · 10 answers · asked by HopelessRomantic 1 in Family

I know that nudism is a rather touchy subject with some people and that a lot of people have been made to think of the human body as a shameful thing. I've seen a lot of questions on here asking whether it's right or not to be a nudist and I have to say that a lot of the feedback is harsh and probably comes from people who have been taught that nudity in any way is shameful.

I'm 15 and I'm not exactly sure what to think. I grew up around my mom who isn't exactly a nudist, but has no problem with being naked. I sometimes lounge around naked in my room, but these occasions are seldom and I usually feel weird doing it. I know people who think the human body is a beautiful thing and others who think that it should be concealed at all times, I'm confused.

I want to know what you think about nudism. Please try to keep your answers polite whether your for, against or confused about nudism.

2007-05-11 09:19:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

CNN says the U.S. divorce rate is the lowest since 1980.

Is it because fewer people are getting married or people are working harder to make their marriage work?

http://www.cnn.com/2007/US/05/11/divorce.decline.ap/index.html

2007-05-11 09:16:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

had my wisdom tooth out today. the dentist had a job to get it out cause it was very high up and way back in my jaw. feeling very battered and bruised and still bleeding?. in need of sympathy from the beautiful people of yahoo. go on GIVE ME LOVE.

2007-05-11 09:15:28 · 22 answers · asked by ? 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

How can you find out how much it would cost to get married by a justice of the peace?

2007-05-11 09:14:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

What do you like iin a girl? What way do you like them dressed?

2007-05-11 09:10:37 · 9 answers · asked by Alisurfz 1 in Singles & Dating

Please i need to know what to do... any advice?

2007-05-11 09:09:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that you guys never approach us and when you do, she's extremely skinny and dark skinned...I'm not mad, just curious?

I'm speaking from personal observation

2007-05-11 09:09:25 · 34 answers · asked by hrd2get19 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 09:08:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-11 09:06:50 · 14 answers · asked by Brandon 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 09:06:06 · 25 answers · asked by maldita 1 in Weddings

I see my boyfriend everyday. Is that bad for my realtionship? i've been dating him for about 3 years now and we've only been apart like 1 month out of the 3 years. is that going to effect my longer term realtionship such as possibly marriage(if we do get married)?

please help! thanx

2007-05-11 09:06:02 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want people i dont know to love me

2007-05-11 09:03:01 · 3 answers · asked by blondey 1 in Singles & Dating

in 2 weeks im gonna meet my gfs parents what can i do to impress them plz im dam nervous about it and need some guidance i dont want it to mess up as i love my gf and dont want her parents to hate me

thanx

2007-05-11 09:01:31 · 7 answers · asked by gin 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 09:00:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating