I see my boyfriend everyday. Is that bad for my realtionship? i've been dating him for about 3 years now and we've only been apart like 1 month out of the 3 years. is that going to effect my longer term realtionship such as possibly marriage(if we do get married)?
please help! thanx
2007-05-11 09:06:02 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think so... Your boyfriend is a big part of your life, why not spend time with him... learn everything there is to know about him. It's the best way to see if you will be compatible later on...living together, marriage, future family... It gives you lots of time to talk about what you both want in life and out of your relationship. I spent a lot of time with my husband before we got married...if not in person online. We spent hours together and hated when there was a day we could not talk or see each other. In the end, us spending as much as we did together while dating was the best thing for us as it brought us closer together and helped both our insecurities.
Good luck.
2007-05-11 09:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by jessicadiamond_4einc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's bad at all. This way you are learning him and he is learning you. I also did the same thing you are doing for three for four years and within that time frame we were apart for MAYBE a month. If he's not complaining than neither should you. Now my boyfriend and I live together and now I REALLY see him everyday!!!! Most women complain of not seeing their man enough you should be happy he's with you and not someone else. GOOD LUCK!!!!
2007-05-11 09:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by achick1984 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if ur together 24/7 then its bad.
but then if u see him everyday u might get really depressed if for some reason sometime you cant see him for a week.
but i see my boyfriend like once every 2 weeks [[were young and dont live too close, i dont have a car and neither does he but we try our bests to see eachother as much as possible]] and i dont think weve ever got in a fight! he lives about 3 miles from me, but being a teen with no car, thats a problem but its still even more fun when i do see him!
2007-05-11 13:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well usually that depends on Ur relationship.. from my own experience if u are not a needy person then it shouldn't be a problem on your side.. But if u are a needy person and constantly need his attention than enjoy it while it lasts because right now ur used to it and ur gonna fall into routine. But like i said it depends on who is the needy one in the relationship only control what your can.. I don't think it will ruin potential long term relationship with him. But just give each other space sometimes when needed and understand when that time is needed! A man needs sum times to do his thing. And u know we woman like to have our time too! GIVE TIME TO MISS EACH OTHER.. =0)
2007-05-11 09:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's bad as long as you don't shut out the other important people in your life - your family and friends. It's good that you have found someone that you have so much in common with that you can spend so much time together
Eventually you will spend more time apart - and that's when you'll find out if you've been neglecting other friendships, so just make sure you spend time with other people too ;)
2007-05-11 09:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no good and bad in a relationship. Is depends on the individual, some individual encounter alot problem if they always together. Some individual encounter alot problem if they are not together.
What you need is a trust to your bf, and what you need to request from your bf is a trust on you. With this you can last ever after.
2007-05-11 09:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by Bill Tay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. It will actually help a lot through your relationship cause you have good way of communicating. Just make sure that you or him is matured enough for that Longer-term relationship.
2007-05-11 09:09:25 · answer #7 · answered by C A M S ™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is bad. You need a break to spend time apart and see if the feelings are still there.
2007-05-11 09:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by Frank Rizzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well three years is a pretty long time to be together all the time so chances are if you guys are going to get sick of each other it would have happened already, so don't worry about it.
2007-05-11 09:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not even a little bit- I knew a couple seventh graders who used to full on make out in the middle of the hallways- THAT was bad. Yours, is cute :)
2016-04-01 07:04:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋