Family & Relationships - 11 May 2007

Me and this girl have known each other for a year and shes been my girl for almost 4 months now...and i told her the other day that i was falling in love with her.She told me that she doesnt think i love her and that i just like her alot.How do i convince her that i really am in love with her??

2007-05-11 19:53:01 · 8 answers · asked by WILL I AM 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a 50yr old man,married for 25yrs,and suddenly my wife tells me she had an abortion 30yrs ago.I am totally stunned, does anyone have any advise.not even her family has ever told me

2007-05-11 19:50:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 17 and a virgin. The thing is I've had four boyfriends and three of them cheated on me. They slept with another girl. The fourth threatened to cheat if I didnt sleep with him. I at first thought that me being a virgin is something to be proud of, but it seems like that is why I keep getting hurt. I dont know what to do. I dont want to do anything with just any guy you know? I want to love them. But it seems like the more I dont the more I get hurt. What should I do?

2007-05-11 19:43:57 · 19 answers · asked by ~*Zaidens Mommy*~ 3 in Singles & Dating

Sex. my Hubby want's to have sex everyday. Morning, evining, night, at all time. I can't bend over because he will get turned on. In my opinion I think he is addicted to sex. What do you think? I get angry because sometimes I'm not in the mood or I'm sick and he gets mad if I don't do it. What should I do? I'm getting tired of this situation.

2007-05-11 19:36:32 · 2 answers · asked by lupe s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

At the final judgement hearing from a divorce, I was awarded the house which had 2 loans to be paid . Can my ex withdraw money from those loans? Are the loans frozen from any activity? And if he did withdraw money, what happens to him?

2007-05-11 19:36:00 · 5 answers · asked by bliss 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am looking for a lady with either big breast or big but or both that live in Washington and seriouly looking for love.
peg_sey@yahoo.com

2007-05-11 19:34:54 · 6 answers · asked by peg_sey 1 in Singles & Dating

I often hear that girls appreciate guys who "act themselves" but i whenever i try to be "myself", things dont work out like i would want them to. Is it also possible to try to act yourself so much that you actually act like someone else rather yourself?

2007-05-11 19:32:05 · 11 answers · asked by bscot889 2 in Singles & Dating

I like really like him. And I don't know why at all, I haven't even really had a conversation with him before. TOO SHY. And everytime we see each other we like 'lock eyes' for like a few seconds but I don't know what to do after that, so I look away.
=( I'm to scared that if I smile back that he won't, I don't know what to dooooooooooooooooooooooo and its making me crazy. He might be only looking at me cause he thinks I'm ugly? Or hes interested in me or... I don't know! Guh. This is annoying, whats to do???
PLEASE HELP

2007-05-11 19:32:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 19:19:49 · 12 answers · asked by Sujay Nigudkar 1 in Singles & Dating

I have noticed that most girls would get mad if they like you after seeing you for the first time or, at least in the beginning. And you don't pay attention back to them, not because you don't like them but simply because you are preoccupied with other things and haven't noticed them yet. Why do girls always seem to be sad or even mad at this situation? Don't they understand that boys simply can't notice her immediately sometimes?

2007-05-11 19:19:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just can't understand male's mind... i'm in love with a guy from my uni, but we don't know each other personally... he follows me around, always looks into my eyes, copies me, collides with me ''by chance'', always appear there where i am, but never comes up to me talking! and i'm sure he is not shy, he is too often surrounded with girls... and he is too attractive to be shy...and i can't make the first step, out of my rules, and i'm kinda afraid... and everything is so obvious and has been lasting for 2 years already! i just have no idea what's on his mind!

2007-05-11 19:18:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 19:14:49 · 8 answers · asked by SoldierSide 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 15, and he's 17. We share french together, and though he's quite shy, I've made an attempt to speak to him; today, I asked if he was taking any AP classes, and he said no, but that he would be taking 3. The only other time we've spoken is when my partner (in class) and I were discussing airplanes, and I mentioned that I had never been on one before. Jonah (that's my crush's name) overheard, and said, "You've NEVER been on a plane before? Not even camping?" I replied that I'd never been out of state before, and he says, "Wow."

Seeing as he's somewhat shy, it was more than I expected. When he talks, he looks me in the eye and smiles. Sometimes, he'll turn a little in his seat to watch me eat my lunch, or something. Am I analyzing him too much? If he never tries to make conversation with me, how do I know whether he likes me or not? Opinions much appreciated!

***Sorry if this was long-winded.

2007-05-11 19:12:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I left my husband 3 months ago and I have started to date a longtime friend......a lot of his(the guy I'm dating) friends are putting me down for it. They tell him that I'm married and to stay away from me. He knows the situation that i was in and and was there through it all.......although we had nothing going on then. Why do people feel the need to condemn me and assume I am like a Jezebel from the Bible? They don't even know me!
This is just very frustrating for me......I'm not one that usually lets things like this bother me......My philosophy is........Those that mind/ don't matter......those that matter/don't mind!

2007-05-11 19:12:19 · 26 answers · asked by NCchic 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Crazy situation with a girl. Need advice.?

I met this girl at my university about a year ago and from her signals she is interested in me. When I asked her out, she rejected me and said she didn't have time for dating. A few days later, her friends told me that she got caught off guard and said no because she was nervous. So what should I do? Should I wait for her to talk to me or should I continue to pursue her? I don't want to seem like a stalker or anything like that.
If I don't do anything, will she think that I am not interested and move on? Thanks for you advice.

2007-05-11 19:00:07 · 9 answers · asked by john23213 1 in Singles & Dating

I am talking about a lover that you loved deeply

2007-05-11 18:57:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've always felt as though I was different than other people. I've never had a friend in my life and constantly experience isolation from the outside world. I feel that this has everything to do with my appearance as I've had no luck meeting other guys my age in bars and clubs. (I'm a gay 26 year old guy)
I've been to a psychiatrist as well as a psychologist and social worker throughout the last few years in order to seek counseling and they have all said that I'm an attractive guy, yet that's only been said by medical professionals, so I have problems believing the source. They all have diagnosed me with Body Dysmorphic Disorder, but again what they say doesn't seem to relate to my personal experience with the outside world. This all makes me wonder if someone can experience happiness even if they're unattractive? Do you think it's possible to have a significant other and friends if you're not an attractive guy?

2007-05-11 18:48:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Funny Story. Yesterday I was on yahoo answers answering questions (using it for it's intent) when out of no where today I get this E-mail from some chick who apperently got hurt from my comment. The way I look at it is like this...if you come on here ask a question youre going to get all types of answers, and you have to pretty much deal with them regardless. I just think it's funny how this chick is so bitter by my comment. I really use this place to relieve stress on people like her..I have life and things going on ...she think's this place is my sanctuary..!!! It's great..who's with me

2007-05-11 18:45:45 · 17 answers · asked by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 in Singles & Dating

and he's over 21. should i just not say anything about him to my parents and take all the blame? i really like him and dont want to get him in trouble.

2007-05-11 18:43:14 · 23 answers · asked by nodumgys 7 in Singles & Dating

I get pulled back in. And that--youre on a roll crap doesnt help. Give me something, does this happen to you I swear if this fricken crap keeps happening Im starting a 12 step program. What happened to me, I used to be cool, now Im answering relationship questions. Is this happening to anybody else? What do we do? I think Im hooked on this stupid site.

2007-05-11 18:41:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know I have to break up with him but i just dont know how too..I mean he was the first love of my life but lately it hasnt been workin out. Everything he does annoys me grrr...everytime Im about to say it he says the sweetest things to me and i just feel fu.cked up for doing it =[[.....how can i let him know with out hurting him?

2007-05-11 18:39:57 · 9 answers · asked by ღ 3SA sL33PY CaNT B3 sToPP3dღ 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 18:39:39 · 23 answers · asked by jnnfchar 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Only serious answers please.

My husband is not letting me get a full night sleep. It's been weeks, I don't know what to do anymore.

Every night, once we've gone to bed, he waits till I get to sleep and thens proceeds to, the only word that comes to mind is molestes me. Feels me up, touches me and wakes me up then asks if I want to have sex. I love to make love with my husband, but my health recently has been a concern. Having the sleepless nights are not making it any better. I've talked with him and asked him to please let me get some rest, I don't like getting woke up everynight at midnight or later because I can't get back to sleep. It happened again tonight. He says he sorry and it won't happen again, but then, sure enough, it happens. It's causing me to miss work and I'm not able to function during the day. I get maybe 3 or four hours of sleep and that's if I'm lucky.

I've talked and argued with him about it but nothing helps. I need some advice.

2007-05-11 18:38:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I mean Im a mommy of 6 and I am busy but I dont have any real friends. Not a whole lot of adult interaction. It gets real lonely at times.

2007-05-11 18:37:15 · 13 answers · asked by THE mommy 3 in Friends

how many of yous have been bullied when you were in school?? i was never bullied but i'm a girl and my husband and my brother and every guy i talk to was. so the question is were you bullied and was it a long or short time ... or were you the bully?

2007-05-11 18:34:50 · 6 answers · asked by youngmom2x 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Like accusing them of cheating,talking behind your back,their true feelings,ect.

2007-05-11 18:34:39 · 16 answers · asked by t n 2 in Singles & Dating

what do you think? she said it was stupid and stormed off. what should i do about that?? she may have been a little drunk.

2007-05-11 18:34:10 · 14 answers · asked by Drujon 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 18:33:53 · 13 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 18:31:45 · 8 answers · asked by Jax 9 1 1 2 in Singles & Dating

Sooooo there's this guy I like a lot and we're really good friends and we flirt with each other all the time but he does that to other girls too so I never took that as a sign that he likes me. We go to different colleges and we talked about 2 weeks ago and he was asking all these questions about if i've hooked up with anyone. but he said it like he was joking, you know, laughing about it and all that.

So these games have been going on for a while now and I kinda just wanna d something about it lol. When we see each other again this summer, I wanna have a complete nake-out session with him. I'm just scared that it could backfire on me and he would be like, "what the hell are you doing?" and our friendship would be weird after that. If it happens, that would help determine how our relationship is headed.

So do you think he likes me or not?

And how should I go about this plan without it ending up awkward? I was thinking just kissing him out of the blue but....help please!

2007-05-11 18:31:16 · 3 answers · asked by golden~child 2 in Singles & Dating