Sooooo there's this guy I like a lot and we're really good friends and we flirt with each other all the time but he does that to other girls too so I never took that as a sign that he likes me. We go to different colleges and we talked about 2 weeks ago and he was asking all these questions about if i've hooked up with anyone. but he said it like he was joking, you know, laughing about it and all that.
So these games have been going on for a while now and I kinda just wanna d something about it lol. When we see each other again this summer, I wanna have a complete nake-out session with him. I'm just scared that it could backfire on me and he would be like, "what the hell are you doing?" and our friendship would be weird after that. If it happens, that would help determine how our relationship is headed.
So do you think he likes me or not?
And how should I go about this plan without it ending up awkward? I was thinking just kissing him out of the blue but....help please!
2007-05-11 18:31:16 · 3 answers · asked by golden~child 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's a player, doing that to other girls. he's not into you most likely. but lay out your cards and grab him by the (bleep) and make out with him in a way he wont refuse. rarely have i encountered a player who refuses a slurping contest especially with an aggessive girl.
2007-05-11 18:37:44 · answer #1 · answered by Shangri-La 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he keeps bringing up the topic, I'd expect he's hiding deeper feelings behind the joking. If he just brought it up once, then I couldn't guess. I know I've hidden behind a joking manner myself, but not in this context.
If he's continually initiating "these games", then that seems to be the field he wants to play on and you'd do best to play on it too. If he starts joking about this again, ask him in a serious tone of voice why he's asking these questions, or ask him if he would be jealous if you said you had hooked up. Or I suppose you could ask him about these questions retroactively.
In short, I'd suggest you try to escalate the relationship verbally first before trying the physical approaches.
2007-05-12 02:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The out-of-the-blue kiss is risky, but very satisfying if it turns out the way you hope.
If you're too risk-averse for that, try a smaller gesture. Take his hand, look into his eyes, and see what you find there. If you have to, you can deny you meant anything by it - briefly awkward, but not likely to sabotage the friendship.
2007-05-12 01:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by DW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋