and he's over 21. should i just not say anything about him to my parents and take all the blame? i really like him and dont want to get him in trouble.
2007-05-11 18:43:14 · 23 answers · asked by nodumgys 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good thing you didn't say anything to these retards about the tattoo you got when you got drunk.
2007-05-12 11:45:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay, he's over 21, how old are you? If you are under 18 he could be in for a world of trouble if you tell your folks. I have a 16 year old daughter, and if she was dating a guy who's 21 I'd have a **** fit over it. It's already hard enough for me to accept that she has a boyfriend who's 18.
2007-05-11 18:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You know right from wrong - find someone that you have more in common with your own age. Just because he can drink does not make him any better and the fact that he would encourage you to do so says he has poor character. Just don't hang out with him like that anymore - you are headed for trouble and you know it.
2007-05-11 18:48:59 · answer #3 · answered by Mamma Mia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me like you are quite a bit younger than 21. You need to take responsibility for your actions (regardless of your age) but he does not deserve to be "protected" by you in this instance--or, possibly, in any instance. Talk with your parents.
If he's encouraging this behavior, he is bad news. You need to respect yourself more if you think that he is good enough for you. I'm sure he's older and seemingly cool and probably cute--but that doesn't mean he's a good idea. Once more, TALK WITH your parents--don't fight with them or whatever, just talk with them. You might want to consider talking with a counselor, also. And prepare yourself--if your parents are smart and you are a minor, they'll probably do their level best to keep you from this guy.
2007-05-11 19:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by joy_like_a_fountain 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He asked you to drink all night? How old are you? Sounds like you are much younger then 21. Did you ever stop to think that he wanted to get you drunk so that he could, to put it nicely, take advantage of you? You don't want him to get in trouble? Have you ever heard of sexually transmitted diseases or even pregnancy? Honey, tell your parents and drop him!
2007-05-11 18:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by Lil_Red_Bird 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He didn't seem to have any problem with getting you in trouble, did he? What is there to like about somebody who would treat you like this?
On the other hand, if you're old enough to date someone over 21, you're old enough to take responsibility for your own actions and know when to stop.
2007-05-11 18:48:53 · answer #6 · answered by Alice K 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he truely cared about you he wouldn't have encouraged you to drink all night, there have been jocks who went on drinking binges overnight and have died from alchol poisoning. You should be very careful of those who encourage you to do what is wrong! Bad decisions now can affect your life later! I encourage you to read more on alchol poisoning and the warning signs, the life you save could be your own! Take care and be safe.
2007-05-11 18:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by Michael B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like something only a visit to the secret room with those whips and chains might discourage in the future .. or not.
2007-05-12 00:27:35 · answer #8 · answered by thellord_thighgod 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old r u? If you are still in high school, then you are dancing with danger. Get rid of him. However, if you are a high school grad and in college or something like that, then it is up to you. However, I would be suspect of him getting you drunk. That is dangerous for you and clearly demonstrates his low maturity level. You should really think about this relationship.
2007-05-11 18:48:06 · answer #9 · answered by Guy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are to blame too, its not like he FORCED the drinks down your throat. You have a mind of your own and you know whats right and wrong and you KNOW you shouldnt have drank all night.
2007-05-11 18:53:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off, this guy seriously needs to be in trouble. Why should you cover for him? He seems to be pretty content to let you suffer the consequences of HIS actions. Stand up, realize that you are better than this, and ditch the loser.
2007-05-11 18:50:27 · answer #11 · answered by thequestion78 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋