i just can't understand male's mind... i'm in love with a guy from my uni, but we don't know each other personally... he follows me around, always looks into my eyes, copies me, collides with me ''by chance'', always appear there where i am, but never comes up to me talking! and i'm sure he is not shy, he is too often surrounded with girls... and he is too attractive to be shy...and i can't make the first step, out of my rules, and i'm kinda afraid... and everything is so obvious and has been lasting for 2 years already! i just have no idea what's on his mind!
2007-05-11 19:18:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, let me give you an example. go up and flirt and talk to a guy you are not interested in. it's pretty easy. Now go up to the guy you like and try to go up and flirt with him. it's a bit harder. if outgoing people have shyness at at least one point in their life.
2007-05-11 19:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by Baby I'll stay, heaven can w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy seems totally shy, maby he does yahoo answers too? The next time he runs in to you, maby you should try and make the first move, like coffee, that is if you feel so strongly for him. It's bending the rules more then breaking them. Some guys regardless of the people they are sorrounded by don't know how to approach girls. Perhaps hes never had to? Two years... thats a loooong time..
2007-05-12 02:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by seanied2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't understand him because you don't understand yourself. he is a weak-minded, coward just like you. or maybe he's just not into you. i will give you a tip: it's a rule that every heterosexual is fundamentally insecure when interacting with at least some, and in most cases, all members of the opposite sex.
if you're too scared to even talk to him, then you're not mature enough to be in relationships. you need to work on improving upon your inner strength. while you're at it, you could probably do for a character overhaul.
2007-05-12 02:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by natecarr4499 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should just go up to him, If I have learned anything in this life is that regret is worser than fear and you never know maybe he is shy, some people so other people dont know how they really feel is by doing the opposite so you never know just give it a shot. Never think that you cant do it.
2007-05-12 02:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by green_eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi... there, somtimes boys are shy, but i think ...you both are on the same boat, you two are too shy to clear things out, your gonna have to deal with it if you want some answers, "you cant move unless your done with the other". and guys are much more shy if they face a serious matters,
2007-05-12 02:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg....im kind of in the same situation, except its been a few months and im in high school....yeah im pretty sure the guy likes you...just start slow, um invite him to coffee to study or something like that, i pretty sure that u are going to have to make the first move, thats how it usually is with shy guys.......
2007-05-12 02:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy is being shy with girl he loves
2007-05-12 02:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by InterCop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks have nothing to be shy. Chances are he really is SHY!
2007-05-12 02:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by crazy_young_folk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably shitting his pantsd everytime u look @ him! He is also very nervous, give it time but u may want to take the first step!
2007-05-12 02:22:32 · answer #9 · answered by Brandon H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be that he knows you like him and is either thinking,
A. "She's always the one to come over. I think I'll stand here and be safe and let her think of the first thing to say."
B. "She likes me, right? Why isn't she coming over to me?"
2007-05-12 02:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by YearoftheRat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋