I'm 15, and he's 17. We share french together, and though he's quite shy, I've made an attempt to speak to him; today, I asked if he was taking any AP classes, and he said no, but that he would be taking 3. The only other time we've spoken is when my partner (in class) and I were discussing airplanes, and I mentioned that I had never been on one before. Jonah (that's my crush's name) overheard, and said, "You've NEVER been on a plane before? Not even camping?" I replied that I'd never been out of state before, and he says, "Wow."
Seeing as he's somewhat shy, it was more than I expected. When he talks, he looks me in the eye and smiles. Sometimes, he'll turn a little in his seat to watch me eat my lunch, or something. Am I analyzing him too much? If he never tries to make conversation with me, how do I know whether he likes me or not? Opinions much appreciated!
***Sorry if this was long-winded.
2007-05-11 19:12:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Teeheee. Cute. I think he wants to get to know you before anything.
2007-05-11 19:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by o0lilazndemon0o 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to yo's advice about playing hard to get. If you try that with a shy guy he's very likely to give up, assuming you've rejected him outright. Also, the shy guys can be quite perceptive, and if they sense you're playing games they are repelled. And they're often intimidated or turned off by hair toss and such. They want to meet genuine people, not people acting like models.
I'd say he's likely interested in you and would welcome your attention. Most shy people would like to make conversation with lots of people, but it's difficult for them. If they're not pathologically shy, however, once you make them feel comfortable they can be quite open. Think of it like approaching a cat.
2007-05-12 02:35:43 · answer #2 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to learn about you and by doing so have a way to start talking to you on a regular basis. If you like him ask him questions about the places his been to, what was his favorite trip, let him talk about things he is comfortable with and then you and he can initiate a conversation a little easier each time you see each other without it feeling uncomfortable.
2007-05-12 02:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by Spartacus34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to rush into this too quick. You don`t want a relationship right off the bat. Be his friend first...That`s all you should expect from him if he`s the shy type. But it`s always best to get to know the person first. Their likes and dislikes, their dreams, goals, etc. And most importantly...their tendencies. GOod LUck
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2007-05-12 02:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by iLLeGaLz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never worried much over a 'crush' in school. sometimes i think i got a crush on a boy if he began staring at me first.
If he never talked to me, or rarely talked to me, well, its probably because we were both immature and not ready to do anything more than look at each other. hehehe
2007-05-12 02:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it nice and slow, start by being friends first. Ask him to walk you home one day after school. See how that goes.
And don't play games, you'll just be messing with his head and he might not want you after that.
2007-05-12 02:18:58 · answer #6 · answered by sharon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eye contact....and he stutters when he tries to talk to you....i also like this shy guy in my school, its so hard bacause you have to start all the conversations and do everything....smiles at you when you smile....
2007-05-12 02:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he really does like you. But he is shy. Take action into your own hands!
2007-05-12 02:17:13 · answer #8 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋