Family & Relationships - 11 May 2007

See, Were Eniemies, Me & my sister N law, She created All of This Herself & ends up blaming all on me. I cant call down there, Or they will take there Xtra Money & make sure I cant call my father In law, hes in his 70s, there living with him, & they brain washed him, Hes the kind whos Quiet, tilll He bursts, But He changed to, I dont know how to feel any more. My sister N law doesnt work, In her 20s, My brother N law, Is in his 40s, & They brain washed MY father N law, My father N law Was Better acting, Before They Went Down & stayed with him, hes in a Postion That He cant do anything, Any Suggestions Out there for me?

2007-05-11 11:05:59 · 13 answers · asked by ------------------- 1 in Family

She always acts like I'm a guest when I go to my moms house, she always says when are you going home? Everytime you come over you always leave this house dirty ( which Its not true I do clean) and the other day she told me you made me fail my test because you were here (she is in the RN Program) so sometimes I don't like going over there because I feel unwnated I usually keep quiet and tell her Shut up and cuss at her sometimes my mom usually yells at her and tells her the same shut up I don't know what to do when I am not at my moms she calls me and yes we talk on the phone she apolgizes by saying oh sorry bout yesterday I had a big test and I tell her well so do I I am in Law school and I have major projects you dont see me talking crap. By the way she lives with my mom she is 26 I am 25 living on my own she lives with my mother still because she is going to school to become a Doctor and she is in the RN program.
What should I do about this situation?

2007-05-11 11:04:09 · 10 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3 in Family

I like " some people change when they see the light, others need to feel the heat!"

2007-05-11 11:02:58 · 30 answers · asked by hooks 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How old are you, and how do you feel ?


My age is 24 and i hate it, almost feels like im a teenanger again, confused and lost..i wonder if it's part of being a young women...

2007-05-11 11:02:47 · 9 answers · asked by *CoUrAgE* 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My Husband and I have been together for quite some time now, hes white and I am black. My In-laws doesn't talk me and give me the cold shoulder all the time. Last Christmas we when to his parents house for dinner and very polity I greeted my self, his parents looked right through me as if was not there. They’re always talking about me and gossiping. His sister writes me a very nasty message on myspace saying I’m not a part of the family and that is brother was drunk to marry me. Omg, I don’t think I can deal with this. I consider myself a very nice person to him, I don’t nag I’m not quick to start an argument. I really thought that after the wedding things would have gotten better I always ask my husband is this how their going to treat their grandkids? I don’t know what to do, but is it just me or his family racist?

2007-05-11 11:01:21 · 31 answers · asked by Telly-Of-War 3 in Marriage & Divorce

any ideas for me right now i`m bored

2007-05-11 11:01:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well cut a long story short we was together for 2 years and had done alot together we split at crimbo time shes 20 now and am 20 turning 21 in july.am starting my army training in july 23rd this year and am ganna be 200 miles away from her.ive not spoke to her since the split only her dad and mum and they still speak to me and want to know what am getting upto and so on...but in the last 2 months ive emailed her dad and not had a reply after a few emails and still no reply....but my question is shall i pay him back before or after my army training and turn up dressed in my army gear to show what ive done....as they always thought i wud never get there...i owe him £2000 for the motorbike he brought me and hes not been asking for it back he just says pay back once you can.....but i think aswell he was involved in my and my ex's split so thats why am ifin to pay him back....i know in my heart the real thing to do is pay him back
i would love some advice....plus am still in love with her

2007-05-11 11:00:08 · 20 answers · asked by killergibbo1111 1 in Singles & Dating

I am Algerian and white mixed and my hubby is white and so are my kids since they look light like my husband. What should I do? I feel weird sometimes

2007-05-11 10:59:35 · 10 answers · asked by goodfamel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he wanted sex and i said no but he got his anyways.. now we are divorced and he took more than half or more than what he suppose to get.. would i be awkward to sue him for unwanted sex while we were married?

2007-05-11 10:59:30 · 9 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this is a story i need to work out.i need help,my mom is mad and the world is out to get me.

2007-05-11 10:58:43 · 5 answers · asked by Jon 6 in Friends

My ex kept complaining that I was partying too much & not settling down. He is from another country & they have a lot of traditional ways. He went & married someone last summer in his countryland. We argued for months because he thought I was pregnant for him. I finally told him that I wasnt the other day & now he wants to come & take me out for a date..?? I am confused. He said he didnt want to see me any more last year. Now he knows we dont have any ties together, & he wants to start seeing me again. He asked if I wanted some more chidlren & said he misses the times we had together. If he still has feelings for me I dont understand why he went & married someone else? He is very jealous of other men that are around me. He wants to pick me up tonite but I dont know if I can resist having sex with him. People are quick to judge, but it is difficult to walk away from someone when your heart tells you that you love this person. I'm not mad at the wife. I dont know what to do....

2007-05-11 10:56:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my friends mom keeps calling my friend fat! She is a dancer so it is really important! Since we both are size 00 does that she is calling me fat too? and im worried about my friend cus i think shes going bulimic! ive had this suspision for a while now. One time after we were out eating at a rearuante she just walked in to the bathroom and it was kind of suspisuse. me and another friend followed her but i sneezed so i guess she heard us. im just really worried about her!! weve all told that she is not fat but im still worried! please help!

2007-05-11 10:53:45 · 17 answers · asked by guys~r~confusing 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

There are always forgotten moms that love attention on mothers day even if you are not their child.

2007-05-11 10:53:11 · 18 answers · asked by Fauna 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do u have sex what do u do,how do u knwo its the right time,what age do u think is best is there an age to early.What positon is the best and how do i do it,what does sex feel like.what happens afterwards.if u can only answer one or a few thats fine just plz answer

2007-05-11 10:51:47 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend has been acting weird. It started about a month ago. Then it was just little things. EX. she was not eating like she used to and that she was tired after a normal amount of sleep. Latly it has gotten worse. She has started to cus a lot more. not that she didn't it's just that she knows that I don't like people to cuse around me and she used to respect that and even if she did say somthing she would apologise or reword what she said. Now she does it without caring and even if its just us talking one on one she do it in our conversation ( so its not like she trying to impress any one). I know people a subject to change but this is not like her. She has much more of an attiude then usual even with me. I asked her what was wrong and she wouldn't say anything then she finaly said that she thinks that she minght have some kind of disorder like mono. I dont think this is what would couse that kind of change. I don't want to pull away but I don't know what else to do. Any ideas?

2007-05-11 10:51:20 · 7 answers · asked by servevolleygal 1 in Friends

if i told people in school that this one girl my school liked me, and that if she did, would she be mad if other people make fun of her about it or laughing bc she is embaraased.

2007-05-11 10:51:03 · 13 answers · asked by Nicholas 1 in Singles & Dating

It's my girls bday, I want to give her a tiffanys bracelet, but imagine if you're boyfriend was to give you a gift what would you like the most, could be anything? i just want to know more ideas coming from girls....thanks

2007-05-11 10:48:37 · 19 answers · asked by dostres 1 in Singles & Dating

im known as 'the pretty girl' in school....why cant i get a date? are they too afraid? i have a good personality too....i know im coming off concieted BUT IM NOT trust me.....do guys just find me as a beautiful girl they can never date?....i have this huge crush on this guy....dan elliot....i could marry him! but he wont even talk to me? is he afraid?

WHAT DO GUYS WANT?

2007-05-11 10:45:48 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just realised woman dont want to be stick thin to impress men , they want to impress and win against other woman , if they wanted to attract men , they would plump them selves up ......us men by farr prefer a curvey woman ( not fat ) with a nice large wobbly bum !!!!!!!

2007-05-11 10:44:20 · 6 answers · asked by yo ! 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months and now hes not sure about "us". There is a 5 year age difference (in our early 20's- don't know if it matters). Hes acting selfish and I just don't know whats going on with him or how I can help. I've had bad relationships in the past and have trust issues, but have been trying to put them aside; Then i just look into his eyes to see nothing but distance and confusion about what he might be doing here. I don't understand whats happening, and my question is: how do we get that spark back? I love him, but i realize the relationship shouldn't be headed downhill this fast. We don't fight, but we rarely have the infatuation-ary conversations that we did before we were dating. I'm getting very discouraged and still want to be with him..

2007-05-11 10:42:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

pants and he was touching me and trying to get me sleep with him..

i said no but he won't stop until i pushed him off, then i went home..

should i see him anymore?

2007-05-11 10:41:44 · 53 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my soon to be mom in law to death but I really wanna plan my own wedding. I know it's a couple of states over but i would rather do an all inclusive wedding knowing that everything will be taken care of by one person. Rather than having to go to several vendors and worry that someone will not show up. Makes me wonder if I should get married with a big wedding or just opt for the court house. Also he wants our wedding colors to be black and gold. I don't wanna look like a bunch of bumble bees. Does anyone have any advise that i can have without hurting his feelings?? Thanks alot

2007-05-11 10:39:08 · 26 answers · asked by Sasha R 2 in Weddings

I love a friend of mine. Over the past few months we've spent a ton of time together, and also have a physical side to our friendship. I will never tell him that because I coudn't bare to not have him in my life, and I'm afraid that's a possibility if I admit that. But he keeps telling me. "I love you" (not "love ya" or something else closely related). I respond "I love you" laughing inside, because I mean it. I asked him if he tells all his friends that and he said "I love you as a friend" It's weirding me out, because I'm positive he doesn't love me like I love him. Hearing him say that feels like being stabbed with a thousand knives. Should I confront him further on it? Should I let it be? What should I do?

2007-05-11 10:38:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well i'm 13 and i'm going out with this guy thats my age. We started going out last friday at a school dance. Well i want 2 break up with him because i found out from a good friend that he's going 2 break up with me and i know he's been saying bad things about me behind my back. But when i called he was out and hes at this sport he plays and he has a game so he won't be back till way later. And now i'm going 2 a dance tonight but since i didn't officially break-up with him i'm wondering if i could slow dance with someone else. Would that be cheating??

2007-05-11 10:36:35 · 25 answers · asked by singyourheartout =) 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 10:36:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been together for 23 years and have 2 girls and 1 boy. I caught my wife cheating on me with another woman. She said that she has had this feeling before we were married and wanted to feel young again. I can’t get the pictures out of my mind. She say’s that she wants to stay, but I feel that it’s only because of the kids and she doesn’t want the kids to find out about her feelings. Every time I think about it I get angrier and angrier. Sometimes I want to tell her to get out and than I feel so bad that I could be with out her. I just need help letting go of it all so we have a chance of making this work

2007-05-11 10:32:59 · 11 answers · asked by cvfsnej 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-11 10:32:36 · 11 answers · asked by Shadip 1 in Weddings

Italian, french, English, American , Etc.?????? I want to know what culture is the most romantic. I think its Italian.. but thats my view. Because ROMANtic roma. but thats me iwant to know other peoples views on the most romantic culture.[ My boyfriend is roman and so sweet and i know not every man is so toughtful to their girlfriends and wifes. ] So.. Whats other cultures like?

2007-05-11 10:32:14 · 4 answers · asked by alaina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this girl 5 months ago. It was a very crazy relationship how it started but Im not gonna go trought this. She is 11 months older then me, and its crazy, how she acts. She tells me I love you, and she doesnt hide it. But now she is in onother state for a vacation, and when we talk most of the times she says I dont have time, Ill call you back, and she calls me back in 3-4-5 hrs, actually I call her. She makes me feel like its my fault. I changed my number, I try not to call her and I told her many times its over because of her mistakes with guys, but she always try to come back. I really love her, but I dont know what to do.. Please help

2007-05-11 10:30:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I guess it's just how I am. I'm crazy. I have a lot of energy and a very good sense of humor. Just sometimes I think my weirdness gets in the way. Like for example, guys. I have never had a BF. I was wondering if maybe my craziness is keeping me from getting a BF. I'm not crazy as in mental crazy. I just say random things. The guys think it's funny but....I dont know. Is it possible to change myself into being more serious? Like do they have counseling for it or anything?



I'm being serious. Please help

2007-05-11 10:26:22 · 8 answers · asked by LindsayS 2 in Singles & Dating