im known as 'the pretty girl' in school....why cant i get a date? are they too afraid? i have a good personality too....i know im coming off concieted BUT IM NOT trust me.....do guys just find me as a beautiful girl they can never date?....i have this huge crush on this guy....dan elliot....i could marry him! but he wont even talk to me? is he afraid?
WHAT DO GUYS WANT?
2007-05-11 10:45:48 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Accessibility (and I don't mean sex)
What stops you from talking to him?
2007-05-11 10:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If a girl has a lot of good to great qualities, then guys tend to think they won't measure up to any standards she might have set for the guy she would be interested in. After all, girls who have less going for them will shoot down these same guys, so what chance do they think they would have with her. Also, since she has so much going for her, then guys invariably feel she might already be taken. Sadly, this usually leaves the way open for the guys with far less desirable qualities. They are the ones who don't have much going for them so they don't care if they might get shot down, they have nothing or little to lose. Or the ones who are real jerks, who will use and abuse any opportunity to be with a halfway decent girl.
If you want to be with some guy, then I'm afraid you are going to have to make the first move (and maybe second and third) in order to get one that is somewhat decent.
2007-05-11 17:56:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much all your questions are your answers. School agee boys are afraid of good looking girls, they always think they can never get the girl they want.
If I look back on my school days the girls I avoided talking to... and looking back the signals were probably there, girls now actually say yep I really did stand a chance, but at the time I wouldn't have thought it or taken the risk.
Either wait until you (and the boys you're after) are older, or start talking to the guys your interested in. Push them as much as possible to make a move.
2007-05-11 17:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some guys are intimidated by pretty girls. When you go out, do you go out with other girls in a group setting, such as to a dance? Girls surrounded by other girls seem to be insulating themselves from guys, and it is awkward for a guy to approach a group of women and ask one of them to dance or whatever. You could consider joining groups that are traditionally male, such as a chess club or an astronomy club.
Have confidence - pretty and handsome people have all kinds of advantages over ugly and average people.
2007-05-11 17:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he could be afraid. he might just feel he is just out of your league. though you might be there prettiest girl in school, he might think that he will never have a chance with you. if he is afraid to talk to you than why don't you just talk to him. let him get to know you. yeah us guys are suppose to make the first move but if you want to break the barriers than you should make the first move. let him get to know the real you and you just might never know. the reason why i am saying this to you cuz it happen to me. i was afraid to talk to this girl in my school and she was the prettiest girl in my school i never thought i would ever have a chance with her and well she came to talk to me so she made the first move and guess what two years later i married that hot girl. so after graduation i married her. you never know until you try it.
2007-05-11 17:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's simple. Guys are intimidated by a "pretty girl". Also, if you are a "pretty girl" guys may also feel as though you will just take off when the next "pretty guy" comes around or "pretty girls" are high maintenance. This may not be you so what you have to do is make that know to the guy that you are interested in.
2007-05-11 17:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
im not the greates looking guy in the world so i dont get very much attention from girls, but im not ugly, but i know when a really pretty girl comes my way i have no clue what to do and i think there is no way i could ever get a date with her so you just have to let him know you like him cuz if he know you like him then he will ask you out.
2007-05-11 17:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by guitarguy123456789 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he isnt your type. when a girl says i know im coming off concieted BUT IM NOT trust me.....youre coming off concieted. maybe he doesnt like the pretty girl who gets what she wants. i have no idea who you are or who he is...im just saying guys dont like girls who try too hard. correction, good guys who are in it for more than sex dont like those types.
2007-05-11 17:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i had the same problem...the thing is that guys are intimidated....wat i did is that i started talking to whoever i wanted to talk to...make the first move....now that im really good friends with these guys i ask them...& they have admitted to me that at first when they didnt talk to me they didnt cuz they thought i was stuck up or that i was too good & they simply did not want to face rejection...but they can now tell the difference that im not! so jsut make the first move....start taking to him...& smile a whole lot!!!
2007-05-11 17:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by sexychikalatina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I humbly refrain from answering your question for two reasons:
1. You're still in school
2. I don't want to lie or make an answer up to flatter you, and if I told you the truth, then chances are that someone will find it offensive thus report me:( so good luck:) I'm sure someone on here will oblige you.
2007-05-11 17:52:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah, you know, I suggest you don't do a thing, if you want to find a date and or marry a guy that I don't even know who the hell he is, but anyway getting to my point here is that, go and ask that guy out, your probably be afraid, but at least try, you can do it.
2007-05-11 17:50:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋