See, Were Eniemies, Me & my sister N law, She created All of This Herself & ends up blaming all on me. I cant call down there, Or they will take there Xtra Money & make sure I cant call my father In law, hes in his 70s, there living with him, & they brain washed him, Hes the kind whos Quiet, tilll He bursts, But He changed to, I dont know how to feel any more. My sister N law doesnt work, In her 20s, My brother N law, Is in his 40s, & They brain washed MY father N law, My father N law Was Better acting, Before They Went Down & stayed with him, hes in a Postion That He cant do anything, Any Suggestions Out there for me?
2007-05-11 11:05:59 · 13 answers · asked by ------------------- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
More Info?
We Disagree on everything.
she Takes Disputes In public.
I have all Her e Mails Blocked.
Shes a Bible Thumper.
She Has a fit That I wont give In to her.
2007-05-11 11:12:55 · update #1
FATHER IN LAW
BROTHER IN LAW
SISTER IN LAW
WHY CAN'T YOU JUST ALL REUNITE AND GET ALONG FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR
FATHER IN LAW
HE IS OLD LET HIM ENJOY THE REST OF HIS LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-11 11:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by Pretty me :) 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd slap her azz down hard and keep her there. She's a crappy example to her own children. As for the father in law if he doesn't know the whole story he should. I'd be embarrassed to have a daughter in law like that and he should be too. Sounds like that side of the family is beyond "F" 'd up. Sorry that you had / have to go through that crap. Unfortunately some people will never have manners...maybe FIL should teach her some but it appears he has nothing to offer. Rude ? Not even close enough. That was actually polite in my book. Her husband is probably really whipped isn't he ? There's a big problem right there...her fat azz won't fit in the pants he needs to be wearing.
2016-05-20 23:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So if you want to talk to your father in law--call. If she puts it in speaker phone and you say something she does not like---then she should not eves drop.
You could always call and invite your father-in-law to come and stay with you for a while. You might discover he is not brainwashed. He could be just being extra quiet because he does not want to hurt either of you. He is both of your dads and if you both keep up with this attitude you might just both loose him. He might throw his arms in the air and say the heck to both of you. In his later years he should be able to rejoice and relax. He cannot do that if you both are fighting and putting him in the middle.
It sounds like you and your sister-in-law might need to sit down and talk. I mean really talk and work out your problems. If you two cannot sit down together to do this--get a mediator to help you with this. Do what is best for your dad.
I know that I have always called my inlaws mom and dad and never by inlaws. They are family and you should treat them as family and not as a way to hurt someone you do not get along with.
2007-05-11 11:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by snowwhite_in_a_glass_case 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change anyone but yourself. I don't know what has led to this family turmoil, but you have to do what you think is right and what works for you. If you need to contact your father in law, how about a trip to visit him with his son, your husband. Where does he stand on all this. Does he feel a need to be in touch with his Dad. How is his relationship with his sister? Can he help you make changes that will result in everyone being happier? If not, then you can only attend to yourself. Sometimes it takes time for old wounds to heal. Meanwhile put your mind on something else if you can't resolve it for now.
2007-05-11 11:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by Pinca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any chance of picking him up and taking him out for dinner or to your house so that you can talk? Invite him by himself, and maybe do something fun, in other words, be proactive and do something. I guess he is your husband's father? Get your husband to work with you on this, sounds like your father in law may be ready to have someone to talk to away from your sister in law.
2007-05-11 11:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by Nanneke 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, not enough info.
What are you wanting to call father-in-law about?
What did you're sister in law create?
What is she blaming you for?
Sorry, I need more info.
2007-05-11 11:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by ioannacardish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer and sue them for custody of your father in law.
2007-05-11 11:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by The Answerer 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well what do you want to call him for??You didn't give much reason for wanting to it.I would just call him or go there.
2007-05-11 11:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.Danielle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go over there.
You don't have to talk to your sybling nlaws.
Just talk to your dad.
2007-05-11 11:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by music_lover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get him a cell phone? And if your old enough get him away from those NUTS!
2007-05-11 11:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by mistista07 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋