I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months and now hes not sure about "us". There is a 5 year age difference (in our early 20's- don't know if it matters). Hes acting selfish and I just don't know whats going on with him or how I can help. I've had bad relationships in the past and have trust issues, but have been trying to put them aside; Then i just look into his eyes to see nothing but distance and confusion about what he might be doing here. I don't understand whats happening, and my question is: how do we get that spark back? I love him, but i realize the relationship shouldn't be headed downhill this fast. We don't fight, but we rarely have the infatuation-ary conversations that we did before we were dating. I'm getting very discouraged and still want to be with him..
2007-05-11 10:42:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm so sorry you felt this way dear..but i think its too soon that he acted distance w/you....
i mean its normal in a relationship to have a small argument as long that both of u are willing to work on it later without blaming who's fault it was.....
my suggestion teach him a lesson...if you could just cut some communication be less available for him...cuz this is the way that you will let him realized how important you are w/him...
any how if things didn't work at...it just mean is not meant to be....atleast is time for you to find someone who will treat you better and make you happy like the way you want to...good luck
2007-05-11 10:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know how you feel, I'm going through the same thing... good luck though. if you guys really and truly love each other you'll try to work it out, just try not to end things on bad terms, those are the worse b/c if you do love each other but think a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with each other isn't a good idea, you may end up being really good friends
2007-05-11 17:50:53 · answer #2 · answered by Sadiq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its time for you to move along. He's let you know that he is no longer interested in you. You can't get the spark back, the relationship is over.
Time to find someone else.
2007-05-11 17:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by Earl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it's going downhill fast. Talk, talk, talk, get everything out and find out what's wrong
2007-05-11 17:47:14 · answer #4 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is NO longer interested in you... no much you can do about that. Maybe he was just looking for an easy lay and did not get it.
2007-05-11 17:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋