Family & Relationships - 11 May 2007

1) He goes out of his way to talk to me at work.
2) He insisted on paying for my lunch today.
3) He spent 2 hours talking to me at a festival.
4) I told him I tried to call him at home and he gave me his cell phone number.
5) BUT he hasn't asked me out.

2007-05-11 08:59:08 · 2 answers · asked by Lynne 3 in Singles & Dating

if you were talking to a friends boyfriend and he asked for a back rub cuz his shoulder hurt and you did and he got hard and you told another friend in writing the next day and the guys girlfriend confronts you about it that day............ you TRUSTED this friend and they betrayed you!!!!!!!!!!!!!! would you forgive her, no matter how much she appollogized?

2007-05-11 08:58:54 · 19 answers · asked by da bella italiana angela 1 in Friends

I have two children who are 16 and 10. He doesn't have any biological. He would like to adopt my children since they do not see their own father. Should we have another child and start the baby days over again? Would we regret not having a child when we get older? Hoping to hear especially from couples who had similar situation.

2007-05-11 08:55:09 · 20 answers · asked by kim 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we dated 4 years ago. recently got back in contacnt. he is now in a relationship with someone else and is very interested in meeting up with me. i think he wants sex . but also he lieks to talk for hours to me and says he loves me and misses me. he says if he could do it again he would have picked me and not the one he is with now . but then he also says " Oh i have to stay becusae i have a house with her adn ill have to pay alimony " do u think he really lvoes her & wants a fling or do u think he is sincere and theres a chacne that he could leave her for me ?

2007-05-11 08:54:14 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a totally normal and attractive girl but I think I am just too picky. I keep almost lowering my standards and just hooking up with someone to get a confidence boost, but I never do. So I blatantly lie about having serious relationships because people generally assume you must be weird deep down, or socially awkward if you haven’t had any real serious relationships by my age. I am just so fed up and I want the right guy to come along, and even though its not a confidence problem its definitely starting to affect my confidence. More than ever, recently its been getting me depressed and angry, and its almost like I’m getting kind of a negative outlook that ruins my chances with the good guys. I don’t even talk about this with people close to me because I have actually fooled them all into thinking I have been in serious relationships too. I don’t know what answer I could possibly be looking for here, but it feels good to express it.

2007-05-11 08:54:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 08:48:16 · 26 answers · asked by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 in Friends

I am so pissed at my boyfriend. He kind of cheated on me. I went to the mall and was so tired that I decided to just leave and go check up on him. I heard noises in the front so I went out to the backyard to see what was going on. Luckily, the back door was not locked and I walked in and saw a skank on top of him and giving him a lapdance. She started to put her clothes on and I smacked the hell outta that chick. He was saying that he was sorry and he was just playin and havin fun and that I was the one who told him to have fun. I left and went home. He wants a third chance. Not second, something like this has happened before and I took him back. A third chance he wants. Should we break up or should I take him back?

2007-05-11 08:45:55 · 40 answers · asked by Maria 1 in Singles & Dating

Me & this boy are great friends! We tell each other almost everything and can talk about anything and hang out. One night recently we went out with a bunch of friends and got drunk etc
I usually stay at his place cause to get back home is a travel...So i stayed over BUT we ended up hooking up (ive stayed with him be4 & nothing has happened) Now my thing is the next day we got up, didn't say anything about it and just acted normal whatever... Its been almost a week and he hasn't talked to me or responded to any of my msgs.... This worries me cause I dont want things to be awkward or our friendship ruined..He's a more sensitive guy and I would just move on and pretend like nothing happened, but i think he's dealing with it differently.. I don't know if i should just talk to him straight out or let him be. I don't want to lose him or his friendship!! I've had friends say its cause he has feelings or its cause we had a close friendship and now he doesn't know what to do.

2007-05-11 08:39:41 · 9 answers · asked by Nana 1 in Friends

Uhm, I'm wondering if, in your eyes, my mom is an alcoholic or not. I'm 13, and she's like, what? 39? Well, anyway, she drinks things like sake(japanese drink) and margaritas all the time-- and usually sneaks them into mugs or hides the bottles in places(not from me, usually just my dad, who already knows that she's drinking). And, well, she's not an "angry" person when she's drunk- but it's just like, she's not as sharp, and she can't hear well, and her moods get all up and changing like a roller coaster, and she doesn't pay attention to me or answer me a lot of the times. This happens a lot, to the point where I can't always tell if she's drunk or not anymore, because it just seems like... she's always drinking, watching soap operas, or sleeping. And as much as I love my mom, I want to get her off the alcohol, because I kind of feel like I've lost her. I mean, she feeds me and takes care of me, but I feel like, emotionally, she's not there for me, or interested in me, really.

2007-05-11 08:37:11 · 13 answers · asked by dsfsd 3 in Family

If a guy says he's with his current girlfriend cuz she likes him, what does that mean? Does he like her?

2007-05-11 08:35:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. Things have been on and off. He had a drinking problem for a while, and I helped him get sober. He's now clean, and the past few months have been great. A few weeks ago I noticed he was not as affectionate and does not seem interested in sex. For the past week he has been saying he feels our relationship has hit a dead end. I told him long ago that if it ever came to this I could not be his friend. I need time to heal after a relationship ends, especially with somone I care about as much as him. He is very upset that I do not want to be friends, that he wants to be "civil" I won't do it - I just can't. I need closure. He still wants to be able to talk to me every night. I think this is heartless of him. Please let me know your thoughts.

2007-05-11 08:25:08 · 16 answers · asked by Dee 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 08:21:37 · 10 answers · asked by ssc23b9d 1 in Singles & Dating

How can I keep this secret if my parents have to pay for my medical insurance? What about my taxes can they still cliam me? I need help I am scared. My husband and I want to hurry getting married because he is in the Army and we are too afraid of deployments and we want him to be able to come home if something happened to me. Please help.

2007-05-11 08:19:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This guy came into my work one day and we hit it off pretty well. We've known each other for over 2 weeks now. He came to visit me one day at work, We hung out at the beach until about 3 am, He kissed me, I was shocked. We went back to my house and watched borat till we passed out. He's the one making the moves. He kissed me, he held my hand, he cuddled up to me on the beach, he holds me when we sleep. he's always holding my hand or kissing me. We haven't had sex, we both agree it's too soon. Is that a good sign? He just moved here from Florida, and doesn't really have a stable place to stay since the person he was living with just bailed out on him. I invited him to stay for a few days. Now he's leaving to Utah to visit his "cousin" whom he was speaking to on aim. I, being curious, looked at the last thing she said and it was "in 11 days you'll be sitting next to me" Am I freaking out over nothing?

2007-05-11 08:18:00 · 11 answers · asked by meg 1 in Singles & Dating

I previously posted a question about my husband getting a new job that made him gone all day. I brought it up to him about quitting and I even offered to help by getting a job myself just so that he could spend more time with us. At the begining, he was okay with the idea, now out of the blue, hes refusing to quit! I have a VERY low self esteem to start with, and its making me think that maybe there is a love interest? Why else would he not want to quit if this job is getting in the way of family time??

2007-05-11 08:16:12 · 27 answers · asked by Blue 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I like girls, but I think the vagina is ugly, unless the lips are perfect and not floppy skin. Is this normal? I love their body and legs and butt, and face, but the vahina is ugly. Is this normal for a guy?

2007-05-11 08:12:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

people in prison for only four years why not longer i mean look what they did to their own kid it should be longer don't u think is their a website is their a place where u can get info on child abuse and to voice your opinon

2007-05-11 08:10:19 · 7 answers · asked by redhot_911 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife left me a little over a month ago and moved back to the US from Canada. She took our 5 yr old daughter with her and informed me to throw out all her stuff and I can only call before 9pm if i want to talk to my daughter.
We've been married for just over a year but have been together for 12. I know I did alot of things wrong but at the same time she says she did nothing wrong and it's all on me. It was a whole bunch of issues and it was all equal. Now here I am working, having my friends come over and enjoying my tme but now she wants to return. The way I see it is that she doen't like living at her Moms and being a single parent. She has my sister and sister in law watching me,(I met a nice girl who is just a friend but she knows all the details) telling me who and where I've been and that she cannot believe I am acting as if I am not married. She walked out on me. It broke my heart but I said I will not let it destroy me. Should I trust her again and let her come home?

2007-05-11 08:07:27 · 22 answers · asked by stalkingwolf35 1 in Marriage & Divorce

basically 5 months ago at work there was this chick who i saw for the first time, she stared at me quite alot, but we didn't talk.
anyway over the past few months i have to developed feelings for her and i was staring at her all the time and she was looking back on most occasions, but i didn't approach her. anyway the last month or so, she has been coming to work all dressed up and i can tell for sure she want me to come and talk to her but i dont have the guts to. she is too cute and really beautiful. Sometimes i think is she desperate to be interested in me. i dont want to ignore her or hurt her feelings so what excuse can i make not to ask her out ?

2007-05-11 08:07:11 · 10 answers · asked by rocky 3 in Singles & Dating

It's a long distance relationship, and he hasn't been answering his phone lately. I want to be able to trust him. But sometimes I am in doubt. And my friends all say that it's very possible that he is. And I asked him once and he said that he would never do that. But people say alot of things that thy don't mean.

2007-05-11 08:06:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 08:02:03 · 16 answers · asked by kitcatss 2 in Family

I'm friends with these two girls whom I never see anymore since one of the friends has a boyfriend now. The girl that has the boyfriend used to text me almost everyday to hang out. Now that she has a boyfriend I never see them anymore and they aren't texting me anymore. I really liked hanging out with them and we always had a good time. The friend that has a boyfriend was just in a relationship not too long ago but it didn't work out. Do you think her current boyfriend and her will last, as much as I want to see her happy, I also kind of for my own selfish reason I hope it dosen't last, because I never see them anymore!. I really like the other girl A LOT! but we were in a argument that might have ended our friendship. I said sorry soo many times. Thats another reason why I hope thier relationship won't last, because I want to show that other girl that I like A LOT that I have changed and that I'm done arguing with her. BTW they are 17 years old, and I'm 18 years old.

thanks

2007-05-11 08:00:53 · 1 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont make enough money for my own apartment,and I have no family in the state we live in. I want to move out really bad along w/ our son. What can I do?

2007-05-11 08:00:12 · 7 answers · asked by Ms. Southern Belle 2 in Family

2007-05-11 07:58:39 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a soldier in Iraq and recently received a red cross messafe that my mother had committed suicide. I went home and took care of all the details, being the next of kin, I didn't have much of a choice. I viewed her decomposed body, the pictures from the detectives of her hanging. All the while not shedding a tear, I was there but some how so detached from everything that was going on. My mother had suffered from mental illness, due to abuse in her childhood, and had attempted suicide before. Somehow though it was still a shock that she actually did it, she always reached out for help. Well I had to come back to finish my tour in Iraq, and that is when all emotions finally hit. I cried for days, have horrible nightmares(I had these at home too), sad as could be. I tried to go home but the doc here says I am fit for duty. So I suck it up and soldier on. Now I am so angry at everyone myself, my aunt's, my father, my husband. But not her, was when I first found out, it's not her fault!

2007-05-11 07:58:34 · 15 answers · asked by mrsjjeffords 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just let my soulmate go!! I know it in my heart were meant for each other..I know it in the way he looks at me,hold me,kisses me ,and even says my name..It was a very bumby road we went through..And while we never made our relationship offical I know he loved me.He never told me but he told other who told me.he said he just couldnt say what he wanted..I chased him for 11 yrs im 24 now.Hes 29...I showed him how i was in love with him i told him in everyway..The past 2 months has been crazy..I found out he slept w/someone else and she's preg. may or may not be his, alot of other stuff happened..and this past week i had a miscarriage with his child ..hes the only one i been with for 3 yrs...After all this I was soo tired of trying to prove i loved him and i thought its best to let him go.hes 3hrs from me and in school and works..how could anything work out! I thought in telling him its time to let go he'd beg me not to leave and tell me he loved me..CONT....

2007-05-11 07:55:40 · 17 answers · asked by n_a_n_a_63 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm going to the bar tonight need something to start a conversation with the women there that are giving me the eye.

I do great if I can get a conversation going but I usually draw blanks on how to start the convo.

2007-05-11 07:53:20 · 5 answers · asked by icpooreman 6 in Singles & Dating

Is it something your parents taught you?If you didn't live in this era and live through it,you don't have a clue what you are talking about.Thank you Jane,and if we had more like you we would be out of this hell in Iraq.Jane Fonda was nothing more than a scapegoat for the media propelled by the right wingers who wanted us to stay in an unwinable war!Grow up or shut up!

2007-05-11 07:51:20 · 11 answers · asked by catbird 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husbands family is totally stuck on this one girl that my husband just dated in high school they act like they were marriad had three kids two dogs and a big house to divide after the break up. When we go to his parents house there are pics everywhere of her and her new baby we have been married for a year and together for 3 dont you think that that is rude and disrespectful to me. That family has no reason to keep in touch so much she isnt that great what do i do?

2007-05-11 07:50:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i been with my boyfriend for 3 weeks now. then last night my ex boyfriend called me tellin me he wants me back.the reason we broke up was b/c he was mean to me. i really like my boyfriend but my ex is the first person i evered cared about.i dont want to be with my ex but i still care bout him a little. i need advice

2007-05-11 07:50:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating