Family & Relationships - 11 May 2007

I feel kinda mad and hurt at my friend but maybe it's just me. He is the nicest guy in the world 95% of the time but he does have a few big personal flaws. One reason he has stopped hanging out at my house because I told him he couldn't dip here anymore (he left his dip cup out all the time). I introduced him to a couple friends of mine. I mentioned to him that these people are real nice but I just don't enjoy hanging with them. He now is best friends with all of them and I feel left out. When he started hanging out with me he told me some really personal private stuff that his last friends had told him. I fear he has told this new group that I don't like them. We have been friends for years and then all of a sudden he wants to hang out with a group I don't like, more than he wants to hang out with me. I don't know if I can talk to him about it because he says what he thinks you want to hear and BS's (lies) a lot to get out of trouble. When he became my friend he was all of a sudden doing everything with me. He has changed totally and is doing that with this new group (chameleon). All of his friends in the old group are angry with him for some reason or another. The new group just loves him. He used to come over to my house everyday. Now he just comes over every couple days when he feels like playing XBox or whatever. He has done this before: spent everyday with me, dropped me TOTALLY when he dated a girl, ran back to me when they broke up.

2007-05-11 05:41:59 · 29 answers · asked by lend322 4 in Friends

ok this is kinda a ...i dont know...innapropraite question but i want to know if any of you girls out there know of any...deep throating tips......i want to drive my guy crazy and i know that if i pull this special trick outta no where he'll just explode.....i heard that you can use a throat numbing spray but wouldnt that numb my guy as well?? any ideas?

2007-05-11 05:41:46 · 9 answers · asked by Jessi G 1 in Singles & Dating

THIS ONE IS FOR YOU WOMEN. I just have a problem and i have to know. I am a very romantic man when it comes to sex, and i do take charge when it comes to pleasing the woman. But i usually use pleasure with my tongue, and am not sure if my penis gets the job done. I am 7 inches, and i really have some insecurities alot of the time about if it is big enough. I can get the job done and i know how to use my penis just right, but the question is it big enough. And i really do know theres women that say its all about how you use it, and some women say its about the size, but i want to be able to please with everything i got. And some times i think its just me using my lips and tongue in the right places, but please ladys dont be afraid to give me your opinions. Id really appreciate it, thank you.

2007-05-11 05:41:32 · 8 answers · asked by snoopy 1 in Singles & Dating

Could soulmates hurt each other?
what can u do if u cant stop hurting but cant let go?

2007-05-11 05:37:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I grew up very differently. I grew up in the city in a single parent home eating mostly cereal, sandwiches and frozen dinners. My dad did not cook. My husband grew up on a farm with his grandparents which cooked large meals at the same time every night. All of there meals were from scratch.

Most of the things that he likes, I have never even heard of. I have tried to cook from recipes, but every time I do he says I ruin it. We have been married for 2 years now and this is getting old. Some advise would be appreciated.

2007-05-11 05:36:59 · 22 answers · asked by Candice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf and I have abstained from sex for a two years of our three year relationship, and we have lived together, but its not a priority on our minds. Has anyone experienced this?

2007-05-11 05:35:45 · 11 answers · asked by I am a HEATHER 2 in Singles & Dating

what does it mean when a guy says "I'm secure in my marriage" yet he wants to have an affair? To me that is really low and degrading. I got into a argument with a married guy who said that. I told him what he is thinking and wanting to do is so wrong and his wife needs to know that. He apparently cheats on her ALL the time. Is his wife that dumb not to notice all the signs....he brags about it and all and is obvious not to mention a low life scum bag. I feel sorry for his wife.

2007-05-11 05:33:00 · 14 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We had plans for dinner tonight. He randomly comes up to me in the middle of the day and says "I'll be at my dad's tonight..."

Should I be mad?

2007-05-11 05:30:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 and my boyfriend is almost 16. Would it be embarrassing for him to be engaged/married in high school?

Also, we were caught "messing around". He seems alittle distant. Could it be anger towards me? Or do you think it's just alittle bit of shame? I'm wondering. He seems mad.

2007-05-11 05:28:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 05:28:01 · 20 answers · asked by Angad 4 in Family

Hi! I'm 33 & my BF is 21yrs. old we have been 2gether for over 17mths & we do live together. I got so pissed last night at him becuz He lost his job on Wed.05/9/07. & he goes and get's cable w/out telling me & he didn't even tell me he had lost his job till last night he says am making a big deal about the cable but, I don't think am..Hell! How can u lose ur job and go get cable I wanna end it with him becuz I feel am more like his mother then anything & to top it off I found out last week am Pregnant. Please help what should I do? "Forgot to mention I do have a good paying job."

2007-05-11 05:27:58 · 16 answers · asked by kumo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 05:18:18 · 25 answers · asked by Chic 6 in Friends

Married 18yrs. 6 out of 12 people are women as friends. 1 shows her *** wants a bf, other from nyc 28yrs old, hes 44. Lied about the town hes from. Made comments like, sexy,cutie, you're teasing me with that pix of yr tongue out. 1 made comment to him about their 7yr anniv on 2/14. These are vendors from other companies. He said he never met them. Anniversary is 7yrs talking. (My ***) Day after confronting him 7 yr girl made profile private. Email sent to work, phone locked in car always. Has snapfish acct too. Had aol yrs ago too with female buddies, 1 he blocked said it was his friends friend. 2 girls have been deleted -he said they were ads. Used to be online all day, now since I caught him hardly ever. I found a calling card yrs ago to, it was used 11/15/01 to 11/30/01 when he went hunting. Insults me, picks on everything. 7yr girl said she can trust him with anything, how can you trust someone you never met??He cheated before we got married. Heard tried to pick up girls at reunion

2007-05-11 05:16:54 · 34 answers · asked by Angelina N 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-11 05:13:38 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am meeting this guy for the first time. i met him online. we want to hang out tonight but i dont know what we should do. a concert? a drink? i dont want it to be awkward if we end up not being able to talk but i dont want it to be too noisy so that we cant talk. what are your ideas?

2007-05-11 05:04:20 · 5 answers · asked by Am 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 05:03:41 · 11 answers · asked by Nikki S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...and found a guy worthy of her company - he's got money, homes, cars - great (boring) job - pays well though, and she shows herself bright and cheery around him - but at home she is anything but that according to my son - and she is THE exact opposite with me i.e. vicious, disrespectful, revengeful, vindictive, abusive, neglecting, forgetful, I don't give a shi^" attitude, uncaring, the world revolves around her (VERY narcisstic) - with all the thinigs to look forward to with her new guy, WHY is she acting so unhappy and trying make me her whipping pole and being abusive to our son? Has she not let go, moved on yet even though she has someone else? I woud think with all she has going for her, she would be happy and act happy. There was no domestic violence, no cheating (on my part) I have loved her beyond the mistreatment I was subjected to for years, there was no abuse (on my part - really and I am a guy - sorry ladies). So why, as she purports to care so much for our son,

2007-05-11 05:02:53 · 6 answers · asked by RealEYES 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Or if you even thought that person was not that good looking at all, but they had the best of everything else.

2007-05-11 05:02:09 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

could this possbily be the reason why i have dysfunctional relationships outside of home?

2007-05-11 04:57:39 · 4 answers · asked by valley girl 1 in Family

My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 10 months and we are going to Greece for 2 1/2 weeks.

Everyone keeps telling us "if you make it through this, you'll be together forever" sort of thing. I feel like this is putting pressure on me and making me nervous. I don't want to think of this trip as a test of whether or not we are "meant to be". I am really happy and excited to go but anxious, too!

Has anyone been here before? Any suggestions/advice? Obviously, I am going to do my best to relax, enjoy and have a great time (that's probably the best advice I can give myself). :)

2007-05-11 04:56:35 · 6 answers · asked by Confid321 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-11 04:53:39 · 2 answers · asked by satin slave 1 in Marriage & Divorce

His dad asked me to make him a cd to play at the funeral of my 23yo cousin who's passed. Do you have any suggestions?

2007-05-11 04:53:27 · 18 answers · asked by chris a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend told me that i have bad luck with that car for six months...

2007-05-11 04:51:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What procedure should I follow in order to obtain a spouse visa.... especially if I am the one getting married to a foreigner and preparing to leave the country..... how do I go about it?

2007-05-11 04:49:51 · 7 answers · asked by LOCUTUS2007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Or do you think this is just a fairytale?

2007-05-11 04:49:37 · 28 answers · asked by possessed Regan 4 in Singles & Dating

I met my girlfriend when I studied aboard one and a half-year ago, we stayed together for two months, it was our most enjoyable and unforgettable 2 months we ever had. She came back to her countries in Feb 2006. After we dismissed, we still keep our long distance relationship until now. In last 5 months, due to her graduation thesis and new job in her home country, we have less chance to talk to each other. She told me she has less feeling on me after she started to work. She even told me clearly that her thinking and feeling on our relationship has changed. It was out of my expectation that I feel nothing at all when I heard about it. I believe that our feeling towards each other has declined due to the problem of distance and time.

Does anyone think that we still love each other? Is there any solution to our current situation? I am very confused now; she is the same as me. I feel that she is looking for my response?

2007-05-11 04:46:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well me and this boy go together and i can't tell if its real love.

2007-05-11 04:45:02 · 7 answers · asked by Shan 1 in Singles & Dating

Last time no one answered my question properly.
I know you should do what best for you blah blah age this
But i just want 1 to 10. 1 being the first date and what you should do on these dates. if you cant do that dont anwer!

2007-05-11 04:42:00 · 9 answers · asked by Zalia 1 in Singles & Dating

(one of my fav poems that I have written)

Our love is like a lump of gold
hard to get and hard to hold
I do believe that God above
created you for me to love
He picked you out from all the rest
cause he knew I loved you best
If Im in heaven and your not there
I'll wait for you on the golden stair
If your not there on judgment day
I know you'v gone the other way
So I'll return my harms and other things
to go to HELL to be with you...

2007-05-11 04:41:49 · 21 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

If you think a woman is attractive.. will you look at her in the eyes....does that convey your interest...I have men do that to me and I am not sure what that conveys.. maybe nothing!

2007-05-11 04:38:29 · 20 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2 in Singles & Dating