Family & Relationships - 11 May 2007

i cant seem to figure out WHY the guy i had a sexual relationship with(from his side),tells me he loves me and then doesnt wanna c me..Last time this happened i was just texting him once in a while and told him to be friends...then he calls and speeks for 20 minutes about how i am the most important woman in his life,that im a part of his life,that he didnt get close to me cos he would wanna marry me and hes scared,that he could imagine spending his life with me, and so many other things..so ask so..do you want us to be together?and he says,lets take a step at a time and next day he avoids me!!!!!!!!!!why why why???its not like he wants to use me for sex cos he doesnt even do that!so why is he messing uo my life and then disappears???

2007-05-11 03:56:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-11 03:56:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies, if you were a dominatrix and had a male slave, what would u make him do?

and how would you punish him if he displeases you?

2007-05-11 03:55:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am happily married and couldn't care less about a cross racial, same sex or unmarried couples. I have enough with attending to my own relationship.

2007-05-11 03:52:07 · 15 answers · asked by AliBaba 6 in Marriage & Divorce

If your not sexaully satisfied in a relationship, but you love the person would you leave?

2007-05-11 03:49:01 · 9 answers · asked by krissy 5 in Singles & Dating

this girl,i love...is mad at me 4 things which r soooo unreasonable...n now,she is ignoring me,4 not smiling n waving her gudbye at the end of our day..wats that 4??i hate it when she does this,but goshhh,i love her too much..help me..is she playing me around??wat should i do to make evrything like it has always been?

2007-05-11 03:48:33 · 29 answers · asked by pRinCe aNGsaNa 1 in Friends

I hear and read comments to the effect that money doesn't affect happiness. I just pretend that who ever made such a remark made it based on either some kind of happiness, or is limiting the scope of happiness to a certain philosophy/standard of some type.

To me, money does affect happiness. Therefore, money, just like education, or a complete healthy physical body, or any great asset we can obtain to enrich our lives, can bring happiness. So, who is it that says money can't bring happiness? What are they really saying in, obviously, not enough words?

Recently I read a statement that seems to me to be reasonable, explaining why "researchers" think some married couples stay together more than others. It said, "Families with two earners with good jobs have seen an improvement in their standard of living, which leads to less tension at home and lower probability of divorce."

2007-05-11 03:45:38 · 25 answers · asked by Atom 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am married and have a daugher.lately i've been quarelling with my husband about stupid things i.e works, pc n his family problem. he pushed me the last time we're quarelling n i just cant take it anymore. i want to stay away from him but im thinking about my daughter n im afraid of living alone.but i just cant look at his face anymore afraid that i'll hate him more or i'll be soft with him.i cant even talk to him nicely again like before.i m just to frustrated with him.should i pretend like its a normal thing in marriege or should i leave him?

2007-05-11 03:44:09 · 14 answers · asked by bumblebee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a guy through a chatroom, seemed like we had many things in common, started talking on the phone and he was awesome, he told me that he was looking for a serious relationship, just like me...he would text and call me constantly. We eventually met, he told me that he was very interested in me, he said that we needed to go out. Well, he didn't call me the next day after we met. I decided to call him, because I was worried something had happened to him, because he never spends so much time without contacting me. He didn't answer my text or my phone call. I wonder what happened. Everything had been good. Just wondering why he stopped calling...

2007-05-11 03:41:50 · 19 answers · asked by Single_Cute22 1 in Singles & Dating

Our relationship is really strong and in June we are moving to Florida to live with her mom for a month. After that we are getting our own place and going to college together. We have been together for 7 months to this date but have known eachother longer. She had a lot of trouble with her x who she was going to marry but when he bought her a promise ring ( he called it her engagment ring a total of $89.99 for two ) he thought she was hers. So she dumped him and then we started dating. We have been threw a lot together and I was just wondering if it was to early to move in together. It feels right but I just want some opionions on it. And today im going out to buy her a promise ring.

2007-05-11 03:40:26 · 19 answers · asked by kyle w 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 03:38:49 · 15 answers · asked by Rob S 1 in Family

Ok, when i was a kid about 5-6 years old I remember that I use to go to this store, and there was this teenage guy who touched me inappropriately. he use to touch me "down there". i was too young to know anything, so i never said it. I never told my parents. Now i am in my late 20s and i asked my mom who was that guy that worked in that store, she shocked me it turned out he was my COUSIN!!! he's now married and has two kids, and to top it i use to babysit one of his daugherts! at that time i didn't know it was him that harrassed me. Should I even say anything?? eveyrone sees him as this great quiet simple guy. i havent' seen him in years either, and i heard he's really ill.
????

2007-05-11 03:37:23 · 7 answers · asked by A_Latina 3 in Family

I'm sick right now (having a contagious summer skin disease; needs to be isolated) and i can't be back to school until 2 weeks or more. We're classmates (the girl i like & i), and she doesn't know until now that i'll be absent 4 so long coz i haven't told her yet..would she miss me? Yesterday, we we're 2gether (i really meant it coz i know that it'll be my last day) I accompanied her until she went home& it was memorable for me! i'm absent 4 this day, & i thought that she'd miss me. So when i opened my YM, i was so excited coz i thought that she'll PM me to ask if i'm ok or wat happened to me, but she did not!=(..do you think she's just hiding it?doesn't even care? or maybe she thought that i'll be absent just 4 dis day and be back 2morrow? how would i make her miss me so much? i wont go online?? please help..my body is aching! and my heart too! haha!

2007-05-11 03:36:45 · 3 answers · asked by 'd campus Hearthrob 1 in Singles & Dating

We both work. I make more and pay more on our living expences but the 2 kids are mine. He works more hrs and my job allows me to do alot of my work at home. So who does the laundry on a regular basis in you working family? This has become quit the disussion with us!

2007-05-11 03:36:42 · 33 answers · asked by openminded 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I want him caught. He comes to get her every other weekend and I don't have a problem with that. But I don't want him to get arrested in front of her. What should I do?

2007-05-11 03:35:17 · 6 answers · asked by TandE 1 in Family

im a girl, not a guy, it's usually the guys always thinking about sex. I fee like a sexaholic. I need it and want it everyday and my boyfriend doesn't have the same sexual appetite as i do, which is fine but sometimes i just NEED it. i wanna be wild and crazy and do all these nasty things.....someone help!!!

2007-05-11 03:35:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 03:35:16 · 7 answers · asked by tony d 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well i have this guy friend josh, and he is a year older than me, and he calls me everynight to talk, we talk four about a hour to 30 min, does this mean anything

2007-05-11 03:32:29 · 16 answers · asked by peaches and cream 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 03:31:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 03:29:57 · 22 answers · asked by olivia_brauner 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy has been flirting with me for a while now. He's older nad I like him, I want him to desire me, but I wanna use other assets besides my good looks. How do I go about that?

2007-05-11 03:24:03 · 5 answers · asked by Drivenbydesire 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl called me a spoiled daddy's girl because my dad pays for my car payment, my car insurance, my cell phone bill and if i need money, know matter how much it is he will give it to me. Do you think i am spoiled????????/

2007-05-11 03:18:06 · 28 answers · asked by steph 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a 9 month old son and his father is a complete loser. He SAYS he works at a fast food restaurant and has stopped all his drugs and partying but I dont think he has. I want him out of my life and my sons life. He said before that he was going to sign his rights over. I was wondering if anyone knew if I had to find anyone to adopt my son in his place. His father is NOT on the birth certificate. Does anyone know what I could do?

2007-05-11 03:16:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have fever and a sore throat right now. My dad told me to go practise golf and I told him I couldn't cause I feel sick. He actually got mad at me and said that I'm pathetic that I never practise golf. (I practised 2 days ago and I work out every day). He says that he's going to kick me out of my girls golf group as well as all the other girls (because we don't practise every single day). And now he's mad and taking it out on Fuzzy, my dog- cutting all his nails too short. I hate it when he does that but I can't do anything about it.
I hate how my mom acts sometime too. My dad hit me sometimes when I was small, and a couple of months ago he and i were having a pillow fight and I "hit" him on the neck with a pillow. He strained his neck and took it out on me. I didn't start crying until he went out of my room and closed the door. I hate it when he sees me cry because of him.
Whenever I talk to my mom she always turns my words against me. I don't know how to handle this.

2007-05-11 03:16:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So I've been with my bf for over two years now and I have a feeling that he's going to propose to me in the next few months. I know that I love him more than anyone I've ever dated before and I want to marry him, but I am the only person he has ever been with and I am afraid that he might regret this decision later. How do I know for sure that we are meant to be together?

2007-05-11 03:15:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Every once in a while you read in the media about how Hollywood women let their guys wear their panties on occasion. I've heard that its since become a bit more acceptable for women to get their hubby/bf to do this once in a while as a fun way to spice things up a bit. I'm pretty open minded about it and I was thinking of asking my hubby to give it a try, but I wanted to get some feedback from some of the other women out there on this first about it and to get some ideas on how I can go about asking him to give it a try.

2007-05-11 03:14:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

messages sent to some girl and over 550 recieved from that same girl on one month on his cell bill.... and the texts were all days of the week and all hours of the night and day... including midnight to 2am and then started back up first thing in the morning??? What would you thoughts be and what would you do?? He says it is helping her study (I don't buy it)...

2007-05-11 03:13:10 · 38 answers · asked by JC 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Seems like most english girls just wana get drunk and then scream at people!

Anyone still like being wined and dined?

2007-05-11 03:09:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've known some women who complained that their husbands didn't want to have sex enough for them. This is contrary to everything we normally hear, which is that the men are begging for it, and the women have "headaches."

How prevalent is it for the roles to be reversed?

2007-05-11 03:07:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend goes to a tavern every afternoon. He goes 3 days a wk. to play cards. The other 4 days, he just goes (for 2-4 hrs.)
there to socialize, but does not always drink, he may sometimes have 7-up. He'll play machines, cribbage or just yak. He is retired, can afford it & has no interest in other avenues. But it is everyday without exception, and he wants to go alone. It kind of a "good ole boys" thing. Should this be acceptable?

2007-05-11 03:07:15 · 9 answers · asked by slippery slope 1 in Other - Family & Relationships