Family & Relationships - 11 May 2007

2007-05-11 04:32:29 · 15 answers · asked by purplevision 1 in Friends

My gf and I are going to have a baby and I love her and want to be with her and we are going to move in together. But I hate having marriage pressured on me as she wants marriage before birth and I will probably go through with it but hate the pressure of steadily being asked. Her mom is also a big influence in her life and I am independent and want to make my own decisions together with her. Her mom is telling her that we need to move faster than we are and we dont have the money to start things together and I disagree. Her mom is also trying to tell her how we should do things and saying we should buy a house when I dont want to right now. I want to start first with an apartment. Her mom wants to give us all sorts of free stuff and furniture but I dont want her to be able to use that to control us saying "Well I helped you out with this so you should do this for me". I have sat down and done my own budgeting and my own planning that I share with my gf.

2007-05-11 04:31:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-11 04:31:45 · 9 answers · asked by DANiiA D 1 in Singles & Dating

will you add me?
i need TONs of friends........

2007-05-11 04:31:01 · 3 answers · asked by grumpy_alexi 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are having a lot of problems and are talking about seperating. We have a 2 year old daughter together and another little girl on the way due in September. He is not on my daughter's birth certificate because at the time she was born he didn't want to be a part of her life and we weren't married at the time. If we'd get seperated could I still get child support from him without him being on her birth certificate? Also, what percent of the father's income is taken out for child support? He makes about $45,000 a year. Any idea how much I'd get for two children? I'm so worried about having to raise two children on my own so every little bit counts! Thank you for your help.

2007-05-11 04:30:32 · 16 answers · asked by BDiPaolo413 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and if yes,where do you come from and where does/did love come from?I come from Czech Republic and had a polish bf..had to spend 8 hours in train to see him...anyone with same kind of exprience?

2007-05-11 04:29:51 · 17 answers · asked by **Diana** 3 in Singles & Dating

same first and last name as me. She used to live here....and now there have been inportant pieces of mail that I have NOT gotten because they were forwarded to here stupid house. We have a post office box that we use (here in PA.......me and my family) but if someone sends something to our PHYSICAL ADDRESS, it doesn't get to me. She should not have changed her last name. That was really stupid. She knows I'm not dating anyone, so I wouldn't be able to get married and change my name like she did. What should I do about this?! I asked her to send me the mail that she got of mine.....its been over 2 weeks.....haven't gotten it. I need to do something better about this!!!

2007-05-11 04:28:31 · 20 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family

How do you convey your interest in a woman if you are attracted to her? Could be at work...anywhere..

2007-05-11 04:26:10 · 8 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2 in Singles & Dating

Our son is 10 months old and my wife says she feels very detached from me. I am a really good husband/dad. She has a busier schedule than I do, so I clean the house and take care of my son a lot. I also try to do nice things for her like buy her flowers and try to make her feel important, but she doesn't want to hold hands or be affectionate. She says after the pregnancy, she has lost most of her feelings for me. She is struggling with these emotions too and doesn't know why she feels them. We are both struggling with this and don't know what to do. Is this common, I hope???

2007-05-11 04:25:53 · 17 answers · asked by kosh200 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Fit older, women with salt and pepper grey hair. Do they attract you?

2007-05-11 04:23:01 · 5 answers · asked by Ann C 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 04:21:28 · 45 answers · asked by KAY KAY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why should a women ask a man to marry her rather than a man ask a women to marry him!!!!!!!!

2007-05-11 04:20:41 · 5 answers · asked by big daddy matt 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 04:20:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 04:19:46 · 5 answers · asked by ♥♥♥Miracle♥♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 04:19:25 · 17 answers · asked by flowerwife 1 in Family

For some reason I always get my heart broken by capricorn men, they always are attracted to me first, pursue me more, then change their mind. Or when i get with a capricorn we fight more than any thing. It's like I can't live with them but when we break up I can't live without them, but they seem to can't stand tauruses. Just curious, are there any capricorns or tauruses out there that can sympathize, please share so that I will feel better. I just got my heart broken by one a month ago.

2007-05-11 04:17:06 · 2 answers · asked by trickortreat 2 in Singles & Dating

Do guys like it when your who-ha down there is bare of hair or with some? Why in the 8o's did nobody do hair removal and now it seems everyone does?

2007-05-11 04:15:40 · 25 answers · asked by debbie v 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i have big boobs and i know how to use them sexually and all that, but i'm thinking if my breast were smaller would i meet a better quality a guys, instead of meeting a big quanity of guys

2007-05-11 04:15:05 · 17 answers · asked by Christina L 1 in Singles & Dating

I finally got the guy i like's msn address, but only because our whole class had to give our address to each other so we could share work. Should i add him? I thought he liked me & he'd pass and say have a good weekend now and again when he'd never talked to me before & he's always looking at me &being loud & shows off around me but I think he thinks its my mate that likes him now because i see him looking at her too but she doesnt like him! What should i do?

2007-05-11 04:14:04 · 4 answers · asked by kaykay 3 in Singles & Dating

I live with my boyfriend, and alot of people say, ''O you went and got married!"

I dont consider us being married, I think we are still somewhat dating. True enough I dont work, and rely on him to fully support which he does!

I still dont considered it married. I love how things are and so does he!

Are you happy just living together?

2007-05-11 04:11:45 · 24 answers · asked by Shooting Star 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, I really like this guy a lot. Yesterday, his best friend told him that I liked him and now he knows. I really want to go out with him, but I'm afraid to ask! I have a big fear of rejection and I would rather him ask me. I really need to know what I should do!!! The formal is nearing and I need a date and I want it to be him. OMG, help! Thanks.

2007-05-11 04:08:25 · 20 answers · asked by stormiRIOT! 3 in Singles & Dating

Let me rephrase my question: I am a cute average woman, do you think a very good looking guy would go for me.. I have a good personality..

2007-05-11 04:06:44 · 1 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2 in Singles & Dating

And can anyone give me an example of how it could be true?

2007-05-11 04:06:05 · 17 answers · asked by Blink-Monkey-Blink 2 in Singles & Dating

do you think i have a chance?

2007-05-11 04:04:31 · 2 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 04:04:24 · 15 answers · asked by shay 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm American and my hasband is from Greece we decided to move back to USA .
My hasband has a good payed job and I have part time job, his salary is 1600$ and mine 400$ monthly, our rent here is 600$ monthly and our food expences are 450$.
The base sallary in Greece is for 10-12 hours work per day and without having the right to have any break at all is
600-700$ monthly.
Obvously we can not afford to buy a house witch will cost us 200.000 $ or a new car costing 15.000$ or having any children considering that the goverment does not help at all.
Our dream will be to buy an appartment , having 1 or2 children and managing all familly costs by a full time job for my hasband and a part time job for me.
How high sould be each of our salaries to live an ordinary life without having wories how to pay at the and of the month: electricity,heat,food?
By the way our last electricity bill was
( for four months 1450$ !!!!!!! )
and we rent an 900 square feet appartment.

2007-05-11 04:03:34 · 4 answers · asked by Valerie N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And I met someone online who emailed me who is very goodlooking and much better shape than me.. I saw his picture yet he has not seen me.. People say I am cute to pretty yet lately I have put on a little weight.l5"5 140 pounds. I am 43.

2007-05-11 04:03:16 · 9 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like a girl and i asked this Question before but no one responded

2007-05-11 04:02:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Before hubby and I were married he told me he was "Not deployable" for the USAF, now we have been married little under a year, and he's signing up for deployment (without telling me; I stumbled upon this information when he left it mistakenly on our desk top). To me this is about the equivilent of an affair...what should I do? I know he realllly wants to go, but he told me before we were married that it would never happen. I'm usually pretty easy about letting him do what he wants, but this is one area I'd really like to draw the line. I mostly worry for our baby, because I grew up without a dad who was active in my life. I know the effects it has on kids, my husband does not. What would you do?

2007-05-11 04:02:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im never scared for my safety, I mean im not scared he'll hit me. He's just always nagging and questoning me, Im happy he cares but how can I make him relax and not always have it in the back of his head that Im doing something wrong?

2007-05-11 04:00:24 · 4 answers · asked by sarah b 1 in Singles & Dating