Family & Relationships - 11 May 2007

My husband tells me he loves me all the time and he expects me to answer with the same...I dont love him and he knows it. Im not being mean but he caused trouble in this relationship which has rendered my feelings null and void towards him, I say it but we both know I dont mean it...should I keep saying it back just to humor him?

2007-05-11 03:06:14 · 30 answers · asked by Sweetheart 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am helping a friend plan her wedding. Our budget is basically non-exsistent. We had planned to gather fresh flowers for the table centerpieces. Now we are having a drought and due to an accident on the bridge to our Island, we have had to stop irrigating! There is very little chance that we will be able to find flowers. Any creative suggestions will be appreciated! The wedding colors and blue and teal. No special theme - just inexpensive (or free would be even better). Thanks.

2007-05-11 03:05:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am not reall asking why or why not you oppose it but if you DO oppose gay marriage....do you oppose divorce? If so do you think that should be voted into the Constitution too? If you are not against divorce, but against gay marriage please explain why.

2007-05-11 03:02:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married this summer at an outdoor ceremony. We want a very summery feel. The colors are cream and sage green and the groom and groomsmen are wearing tan suits rather than tuxes to keep it very summery and light. My future mother-in-law told me that she bought a black dress for the ceremony... is this appropriate. I know that sometimes black is okay, but I just don't want it to look like she's going to a funeral while everyone else is in light, summery colors.

2007-05-11 03:01:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We have been seperated for over a month and he has a new girlfriend

2007-05-11 03:00:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Then our marriages would be splendid and we would never have to find peace (piece) elsewhere.

2007-05-11 02:59:28 · 14 answers · asked by Charpentier 1 in Marriage & Divorce

please help she almost never has free time i need a way to get her back quick any suggestions

i take all the help i can get

2007-05-11 02:57:19 · 11 answers · asked by d the lepricon 2 in Singles & Dating

It was one summer evening about dusk and we went into the petrol garage at the top of the road to get some sweets and the man behind the counter had no trousers on and although we didn't know it at the time he had a big you know what, he asked us if we wanted to touch but we scarpered. We never went near the place again and didn't tell our parents. Has anything similar happened to you. Paedo's know that kids won't tell, it must be happening all the time. I actually feel quite sick thinking about it.

2007-05-11 02:57:12 · 23 answers · asked by georgeygirl 5 in Family

2007-05-11 02:51:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

( you know ) and she is always callin him and wants him bad, and when she get mad she makes a mean comment about his size, but always comes back for more and her actions show she really wants the guy. would the guuy know that his size isnt realy the issue?

2007-05-11 02:49:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have no idea what to do for party favors. anyone got creative ideas? they want to have paintbrushes incorporated into everything if possible. any ideas at all would be helpful.

2007-05-11 02:47:39 · 10 answers · asked by ss 3 in Weddings

how does a wife know that her husband loves her...also...how does a husband show his love to his wife?
what if a wife doesnt feel that her husband loves her but he always says so ...what will she believe words or actions?

2007-05-11 02:36:42 · 23 answers · asked by caramella 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont have cold feet, I want to marry this woman. It's just bizarre to think about how long life is, and that i'll be with this woman for it all. I'm scared, nervous, excited, etc. Any thoughts?

2007-05-11 02:35:33 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i would love to take her some where nice ,only i am not working at the moment because i am still recovering from illness[heart problems]anyway looking for some where not to exspensive any ideas.silver fox.

2007-05-11 02:33:51 · 19 answers · asked by aidanj 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-11 02:32:19 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance, well i dont know what he is now, is always getting mad about such little things. For example, I didn't send him any text messages because I was swamped at school. He often complains about the same things I used to complain about when we first started dating: Not spending enough time together, not telling eachother everything. I got used to the fact that I wouldnt see him as much as I wanted to, but now he is complaining about it, when he even said it himself when I was complaining we are both busy people. It just really irritates me becuase he gets mad about there stupid little things and just goes off on my, putting me down and calling me names. I love him to death and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I know he won't change. I just want to be able to do the things I want without him getting mad because I forgot to send him a text message. I know he is busy all the time at work and I send him a message when ever I can. Help what should I do?

2007-05-11 02:31:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have got a text from my ex saying that he was thinking about the fun times we had, and then he said I know you probably met someone new already and I hope you are happy, then I text him back to let him know that I was thinking the samething and that I did not meet anyone else. then he text me back say that was wierd that I was thinking it too. Then I did not hear from him again. why is he doing this to me?

2007-05-11 02:28:43 · 15 answers · asked by strongfemale 1 in Singles & Dating

I truly love a girl and have told her my feeling last year, but she said she just wanna be friends. Since then we are still friends and I recall sometimes I would approach and talk to her, make her birthday card,.. But it worsens now.. I don't dare to talk to her at all and I seem to be cold in front of her. Whenever she passes by, I do not greet her or smile at her. And there is another boy who also likes her and he keeps trying to talk to her smiling.

Today I saw her talking to him (only one before class) and I don't know who starts it. But, after school, she saw him and she was going home and she said, "Bye" to him. Well, he said that to me and my pals too, before she left the class. But, I was also at the gate and I saw her saying Bye to him. She turned around and looked at me and immediately went away, and the boy was trying to call her friend, but she didn't turn back to see him. She hates me?
Then another occasion, a friend was teasing her about that boy and she says, “Iewww!” then gets away. Does she like him? She smiles every time she talks to him because he smiles too. Meanwhile, I am rather shy, but I have never done bad things to her.

Idk but I think she talks less in front of me, and she is like angry with me. I don't know why! Should I ask her friend today about her and that boy? This friend knows my feeling and I will like ask, “Hey, that boy likes her, is it?”
Will it work? Will it tarnish my name?

2007-05-11 02:12:46 · 2 answers · asked by En Route 1 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes i feel i may be overreacting, but correct me if i'm wrong. Why do i feel as if our relationship revolves around his son? He has a five year old and a sixteen year old daughter. He grew apart from his daughter because - to cut the long story short, he was young when they had her, they both (him/baby'smom) gave up custody to the bbymom's parents. So they grew apart. However, they're now trying to rebuild their relationship.But my major concern is, my fiance's almost obsession with his son. I love the kid - he's adorable, and i get on swell with him. But its just that the kid removed from the equation, my fiance changes and becomes disinterested in doing stuff together. I may be reading the signals wrong, but it seems scarry at times. Left alone just the two of us, he spends 95% of his time on his laptop, suggestions to do outdoor things or any other fun stuff is met with, i'm not feeling well or i'm too tired. He has slight sleep apnea, i understand but can't he at least try?

2007-05-11 02:04:58 · 8 answers · asked by wrkoutchick 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 22and he is 32.. he is a great guy. any advice for me

2007-05-11 02:03:20 · 13 answers · asked by Babybear 2 in Marriage & Divorce

the words that me and my bf would have to pronounce for the love promises of our Cristian marriage in the church (if we'll ever get married).. I mean, of course I know the words in Italian, but I don't know them exactly in English! ^^

2007-05-11 01:49:35 · 6 answers · asked by Cipster87 2 in Weddings

2007-05-11 01:42:32 · 20 answers · asked by casey308 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I Am 23 yrs old and i hav fallan in love wit a gal who is 17 yrs old,exactly to say the diff is 6 yrs and 2 month,,whether dis age gap is very abnormal in India.But v both lik each other.But my prob is whether dis is a big age gap for relationship ????? Help me out !!!!

2007-05-11 01:39:35 · 37 answers · asked by Chronics 1 in Singles & Dating

...If you met some one when you were 19 and they were 32. You had so much in common. brilliant fun, fantastic sex you loved every minute of being together.... Then you split up! The older person says its because they want to settle down start a family etc etc. And they understand that you are young and need to experience more in your life before you can make that choice. You go your separate ways. occasionally seeing each other from a far. Then one day 10+ years later you some how get in contact with each other. You are both now married and have children (ironically the same age). The sparks are still there, you are both unhappy in your marriages. the conversations between you are intense and loving.... What do you do next?

Personally I think run, run as fast as you can, as far as you can. Is it fair that I give this advice or should I say follow your heart?

2007-05-11 01:39:11 · 16 answers · asked by Psycho Chicken! 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My guy lied about going to the strippers and we worked it out. So I asked him if he got a lap dance and he said they don't do lap dances at any of the clubs in our city, he has never seen anyone get one or ever had one.

The reason I know this is BS is because I have gone to the strippers and seen the girls giving lap dances at many clubs to many patrons. Why would he try a bull s*&% me on this one?

Note: He does not realize I have ever been to a men's strip club.

Thanks for your help.

2007-05-11 01:35:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It's really frustrating.
I'm 16 years old and she he keeps reading my diary and my texts on my phone. She even reads my e-mails on the computer if I leave the room to get something.
I know some people are gonna say "She's your mother, she's worried about you" but I really don't like her doing this. I'm the type of person who keeps things to myself and don't get other people wrapped up in my problems... I don't like her reading my diary because I feel really powerless and intruded because all of my deepest thoughts and feelings are in there. (I've stopped writing in it now because of this).
She uses the things she's read against me too and she tells my siblings about it too.
I really don't know what I'm supposed to do anymore.
Any ideas?

2007-05-11 01:34:13 · 29 answers · asked by Hitomi 2 in Family

i know i know i must not be human but here me out.first of all you may talk of people who have been married for a lifetime and say that their love keeps them together but then again it could just be the fact that they tolerate each other and just get along.and then theres this whole romantic dating business where a guy tells you he loves you after you kiss in the rain while the stars are shining on you and you say you love him back; a week later you find he's cheating on you and you dont love him anymore,right.But one problem isnt love FOREVER. which means you lied when saying you love him in the first place.and then there are the guys who claim they are soooo in love with two or more girls at one time now that cant be possible coz you're probably saying to each girl "my heart belongs to you" of course in order to say this to more than one girl you got to have more than one heart,impossible! so is love just the hope that theres someone out there who really gets you or is it real?

2007-05-11 01:30:02 · 5 answers · asked by tania 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-11 01:27:40 · 25 answers · asked by TJ 3 in Singles & Dating

or does he want me back

2007-05-11 01:22:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its much depressing that whenever a man in India sets out to search his bride he searches for a fair skinned lady . if he cant find her with enough wealth he then compensates with a wealthy but dark girl. even after marriage too he and his relatives insults her of being dark. is it not dark skin the color of Indians especially it happens mostly in south India. why this men are forcing us towards a lot of whitening creams and driving us heartbroken. most of the men and their relatives use this colorism to prejudice a woman even though they are also of the same color.
when will these people realize dark skinned girls also have feelings and life? i'm sure we are not non living beings like a table or chair.
tell me how to change this attitude of men or husbands.

2007-05-11 01:22:07 · 18 answers · asked by ice 2 in Singles & Dating