2007-05-11 02:51:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would go with a decision... Because if you really think about it. We all look for a person. For example. I was set up on a blind date. And when I heard about him I was like oh wow, hes going to University of Miami, and hes a teacher at Kaiser College.. I thougth,..Damn,..He has it going on.. However, when I met him.. I wasn't impressed with his looks. I know I may be shallow. And that's what stopped me from getting to know a good guy. But it was my decision to get to know him or not.
2007-05-11 02:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by gurl20073 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the kind of love you speak, but I believe that in human terms, love is both a decision and a feeling. You choose to make yourself vulnerable and wide open for someone else. You choose to say, "I am going to commit myself to you-I am going to try to care for you and forgive you and be there for you at all times." You choose to stay with someone. But once that decision is made, Love is a great, complicated feeling...of passion and patience, kindness and wonder, and even frustration and struggle.
It's a very good question. Well-asked.
2007-05-11 10:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by Constellation 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a feeling you have absolutely no control over love in no way is it a decision.
2007-05-11 09:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by yamsweetpotato22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a decision
2007-05-11 09:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by Martin T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely a feeling.
You cannot choose who you love.
If we had that kind of control we would choose to love mister right instead of the bad boy that will never treat us the way we want to be treated.
I think if your mature you can choose to turn away from bad choices and learn to love the good choices, but it will never be an intense love.
That intense love comes from your heart and not your head.
2007-05-11 10:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by english_sweetie2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is a feling. For love is not ours to command, so you can not direct it. Or decide what to do with it, so it is not a decision.
2007-05-11 09:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A feeling baby grow up
2007-05-11 09:56:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
feeling
2007-05-11 09:56:00 · answer #8 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling
Can you decide not to feel?
2007-05-11 11:11:53 · answer #9 · answered by whymewhynow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling, intensly. Can you describe it. Then why do you ask this question.
2007-05-11 09:54:59 · answer #10 · answered by TJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋