how does a wife know that her husband loves her...also...how does a husband show his love to his wife?
what if a wife doesnt feel that her husband loves her but he always says so ...what will she believe words or actions?
2007-05-11 02:36:42 · 23 answers · asked by caramella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
actions ALWAYS speak louder than words!
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2007-05-11 02:39:26 · answer #1 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Action
2007-05-11 02:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by hot chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions always speak louder, and more honestly, than words. Why not ask her how she would like you to show her you love her? Showing love can be many different things: being there when she needs you, doing little things that make her smile, taking over some of the chores so she can go out with the girls, make her breakfast in bed. Different things are meaningful for different people. And find out why she doesn't feel he doesn't love her?
2007-05-11 02:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by Wiz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is patient, love is kind, it is not self-seeking. Love is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrong.
Love is an ACTION not a feeling. Feelings are nice, but they will NOT always be hot or even warm and fuzzy. Just like with a baby, you always love the baby even when it is crying and screaming and you kind of wish it would just go away. But yet you feed it, hug it, and change it......those are actions.
If you want feelings to match the actions, it takes work and time. Spend time talking, enjoying each other, etcetera and feelings will also be more often warm.
2007-05-11 02:44:17 · answer #4 · answered by greengo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words!!! Look at it this way, a friend calls and asks you to do a favor for them. You say "Of course I'll do it, I don't mind at all and I would love to do that for you." Meanwhile, you really don't want to do it, and you are kind of annoyed that she asked you, but what you said to her is not how you really felt. In other words, anyone can say anything, but showing it has to come from the heart.
2007-05-11 02:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always say actions speak louder than words and of course i never get that, my husband tells me he loves me but he never acts like it...I feel so unloved so I wish he would show some action like he actually means it!
2007-05-11 02:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by Girl K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you and your husband need to talk. Tell him how you feel without accusing him of anything ("I feel" ... not "You make me feel...". If he gets defensive don't get upset.
As far as what do my husband and I do for each other to show we care : we are each others best friends and biggest supporters. We tell our problems to each other. We are always there to listen to each other. We tell each other we love the other person all the time (when we leave each other or get off the phone, etc) We don't really "Do" anything for each other. Flowers and chocolates are nice but can't compare to a friendly ear.
2007-05-11 03:03:27 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions always speak louder than words.
Women also need to understand that men show love differently than women do.
2007-05-11 02:40:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i prefer actions. my husband doesnt say it much, so its really meaningful when he does! the little things a man does for his woman show his love more than words! but its also nice to hear it every once in a while!
2007-05-11 02:40:12 · answer #9 · answered by crystal k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a scene in the movie "Hope Floats" where the Dad is telling his daughter over and over "I love you honey" and then zooms off in the car leaving his wife and daughter humiliated while he has a fling. I have never forgotten this because it shows how easily we may lie, even to ourselves, but still do the wrong thing.
Love in action is sacrifice. That's the hardest thing to understand. It's being there, doing for, and willingly taking the lead in loving, without expecting return. You love your children by feeding them, buying them clothes instead of a sportcar for yourself, and sending them to school instead of ignoring them. You love your spouse by doing loving things.
2007-05-11 02:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by mymacman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First rule is that all people show love in different ways. Second rule is that all people can feel love in different ways. For some all you have to do is say "I love you" and it's enough. For others you need to buy them things for them to feel loved. For other it's a touch in just the right way. Don't misunderstand me, people will like all of these but, there will be one that makes them feel truly loved where the others are kind of like compliments. Do you understand what i'm saying? Now If your not getting that true "oh my god I know he loves me" feeling you need to give him what you want. Consistently!!! you need to give him what you want from him always. It will come back to you if you persist. I know from experience. That means putting your very best foot forward consistently. no matter what. He will reciprocate what your doing. Don't expect in one day to get what you want. You would not go to the gym for one day and say "alright now I have a great body" it take patience and determination and you will get what you want, I guarantee it.
2007-05-11 02:51:16 · answer #11 · answered by Rocky 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋