Help! My reputation - will it be harmed if I ask her?

Question

I truly love a girl and have told her my feeling last year, but she said she just wanna be friends. Since then we are still friends and I recall sometimes I would approach and talk to her, make her birthday card,.. But it worsens now.. I don't dare to talk to her at all and I seem to be cold in front of her. Whenever she passes by, I do not greet her or smile at her. And there is another boy who also likes her and he keeps trying to talk to her smiling.

Today I saw her talking to him (only one before class) and I don't know who starts it. But, after school, she saw him and she was going home and she said, "Bye" to him. Well, he said that to me and my pals too, before she left the class. But, I was also at the gate and I saw her saying Bye to him. She turned around and looked at me and immediately went away, and the boy was trying to call her friend, but she didn't turn back to see him. She hates me?
Then another occasion, a friend was teasing her about that boy and she says, “Iewww!” then gets away. Does she like him? She smiles every time she talks to him because he smiles too. Meanwhile, I am rather shy, but I have never done bad things to her.

Idk but I think she talks less in front of me, and she is like angry with me. I don't know why! Should I ask her friend today about her and that boy? This friend knows my feeling and I will like ask, “Hey, that boy likes her, is it?”
Will it work? Will it tarnish my name?

Answer 1

WELL TO BEGIN WITH YOU NEED NOT BE SHY.
BEING SHY WILL NOT GET YOU ANYWHERE.
WOULD YOU LIKE TO STAND HERE ONE DAY
AND SAY WELL I SHOULD HAVE, OR I COULD
HAVE? YOU NEVER WANT TO LOOK BACK AND
WONDER. MAKE YOUR MOVE; WHAT DO YOU
HAVE TO LOOSE? A GIRL YOU REALLY LIKE?
DOES SHE EVEN KNOW U LIKE HER? WELL
IF YOU DO NOT SPEAK UP SHE WILL NEVER
KNOW...... NO YOUR NAME WILL NOT BE
TARNISHED.................. WHAT ARE U WAITING
FOR?????????????? GOOD LUCK...........

Answer 2

You do too much thinking.. even by posting your question here. If you take too long time to think, that girl will be "gone" by the time you've made your decision