Family & Relationships - 15 May 2007

My husband asked me to go with him to a strip club.....hummm not really sure what to think, we have been married 10 yrs so I am assuming he is trying something new.....confused !

2007-05-15 23:59:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I fell for someone out of pity and they abused me in every way they could. I didn't want to see the abuse so I lived in denial.He was treated badly by his mother and was bullied at school and also his employers . This man was so controlling it seemed it must have come from being bullied.So here is the profile of a TARGETTED VICTIM of a Psychopath (and also the dependant personality that allowed his abuse to go on for decades).
I discovered he will abuse me if I cringe or if I stand up to him.I now realise that he will get less pleasure from me if I stand up to him. I have sought advice from the following links which deal with ABUSE either emotional (which is worse) sexual or physical. They are helping me to deal with living with an abuser to stay safe. They run advice courses.
http://www.freedomprogramme.co.uk/site.htm
http://groups.msn.com/PSYCHOPAhttp://groups.msn.com/NarcissismSupportGroupMoralandSpiritualStruggle/waystohealing.msnw See psychopath msn ..

2007-05-15 23:59:13 · 8 answers · asked by dragon 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-15 23:59:09 · 4 answers · asked by psr 1 in Singles & Dating

What is your view on skin colour when it comes to sex? Is there a difference between being white or black in relation to sexual performance?

2007-05-15 23:57:17 · 31 answers · asked by Kiss 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-15 23:54:15 · 10 answers · asked by Adam Antium 4 in Friends

I've been talking to a girl for almost a year but its a long distance relationship well not relationship cuz we're not dating but we both fell for each other seriously and she tells me how she wants to marry me in the future and wants to have children. But things started happening when we was on the phone talking and i hurt her really bad when i found out she was crushing on some guy and she told me she liked me way more than him, next thing u know she starts dating him and then she told me it was because of me. After we put our differences to the side but she still tells me she want to have a future with me even though she's dating this guy and it seems like their close now.

She has a jealousy problem with me because i see random girls and sometimes she gets so jealous that she posts her bf pics on her myspace so that i can see but then after she takes it down when i tell her too and we start talking again, i always ask her to tell me how she feels about me and she switches the topic

2007-05-15 23:52:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend message his bestfriend (whose a girl) like when he messages me, you know stuffs like you'll always be in my life, and I can't live without you. Basically romantic stuff that I guess can pass off as a bestfriend message? Is it appropriate? Should I talk to him about it? Please help. I'm really affected by it, but really need to know if I'm just you know... shouldn't be feeling this way?

2007-05-15 23:48:19 · 9 answers · asked by IamherewhenIhavenothingtodo 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm worried about her.

What should I do?

2007-05-15 23:44:08 · 3 answers · asked by Steve G 1 in Friends

his son has been in state custody due to the mother (ex-wife) neglecting the boy's health care issues, abuse, drugs, etc.... (she has been playing the "good girl" "jumping through their hoops", (which is just an act) and she stands a better than average chance of getting the boy back.
My fiancee has been in emotional pain over the past 4 years for not having any time with his son, now his day in court is comming up. I really want us to seek counseling to avoid the abuse, but at the same time don't want his son to go from the "frying pan straight into the fire" . All the while, I don't know how to approach my fiancee about counseling, and I'm afraid that he won't want to go for fear of loosing his son again should state find out.

2007-05-15 23:42:05 · 21 answers · asked by vixen6029 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter is getting married on July 4 and I want it to be perfect for her. I am doing the recetption myself and I already have pinwheels, mini taco salads, and BBQ meatballs on the menu. Anymore recipes of this type would be appreciated. Thanks

2007-05-15 23:40:36 · 15 answers · asked by computetome 1 in Weddings

2007-05-15 23:40:04 · 15 answers · asked by princess 1 in Friends

hello friends

this might sound little strange but the problem is like this ... my ex and me broke up because her parents didnt agree upon our marriage ... so she was like no more correspondence with u and stuff ... it has been a year since then ... but when we were going great there was a friends of hers ... she used to come online same time so i even used to chat with her ... she works with her

now the problem with friend is she still comes online but chats only when she wishes and not when i say hi ..... but whenever she chats she asks me abt ... wat are the stuff am doing

i feel there are two reasons either she asking for the sake of my ex or else

she might be asking just for heck of it when none of her friends are online ...

now my question is should i chat with her or not ...

2007-05-15 23:37:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok here is my deal I have been with my b/f now 8 years and we thought about marrige, never happened.... anyways I have found myself to have fallen out of love with him and his mental abuse is not helping, I mean heck, calling me fat and dumb and sex is not there. And I am tired of feeling like its all my fault and just want to run away anfd work on myself to get my life and happiness back. I do know that I love him but no longer "in love" with him and I wont lie to say I have not, I have forced myself to try to find the love again. I dont ewant to hu8rt him, even though I klnow I will, I thought about sticking it out until our lease is up in september and then move in with my friend and then get up the nerve to tell him since we will not be living together anymore. I am such a wuss and can't help but be scared, I mean heck that was 8 yrs of my life!!! I thought he was the one even though "the one" was in front of me the whole time!!

2007-05-15 23:31:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am in viskhapatnam men this work doing since to years at hydera bad hah ahaha.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

2007-05-15 23:31:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so here it is, two of my friends got together a little while ago, due to get married in 18 months, she went on holiday for a few weeks she is still on hol. Her bf and i are friends (have been since we where babies) and we have been going around with each other NOT only us, about 5 friends at all times. he started to act really strange a bout a week ago, rubing my back, picking me up, following me. I thought it was just because he was missing his gf, well last night he told me that he broke it of a week ago. He now has just txt and asked if i fancy going out for dinner tonight i have said i am busy, and that is isn't the best idea anyway but what do I do? SORRY IT IS SO LONG.

2007-05-15 23:27:14 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please help me...............am fat what should l take to slim down

2007-05-15 23:19:46 · 9 answers · asked by firstdiamond88 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-15 23:13:03 · 2 answers · asked by medy s 1 in Singles & Dating

Why cant the person you really want, want you? Ok I guess sometimes it happens, but I am still waiting for it to happen for me, what if it never does? As it doesnt with everyone.

He basically said oneday we can think about getting back together ie taking things slowly as we hadnt seen eachother in about 6 months, ( I didnt ask for him to do this, it was his idea). Then I wasnt sure because of the past so the next day, his saying he doesnt want this? Why, it dont make sense?
It really hurts because I was ready to move on, an just because he gave me hope again I didnt and now I am back to where I was.
Why would someone just change there mind like that? His a grown man too, an usually knows his mind.
How can you change your mind in 24 hour's, he knew this would hurt me too.

2007-05-15 23:09:03 · 11 answers · asked by Bonnie B 4 in Singles & Dating

recently, i realised that my gf whom i love soo much tells me lies, plss advice me on what to do.

2007-05-15 23:07:58 · 5 answers · asked by Daniel I 1 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for a woman that likes chocolate and is between the ages of 18 and 80.

Do you like chocolate?

Also, I like to fingerpaint. THE END

P.S. You must also have five fingers on each hand. I have high standards and I don't want the turkeys we draw with our hands to look funny.

2007-05-15 23:02:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi I have been going with my boyfriend for nearly a year and a half on and off. I love him so much and he knows that and I know he loves me. Ive been in relationships before where I have been cheated on and I keep thinking my boyfriend will do the same. He assures me he wont but I still doubt him. My mum thinks the same about my dad and I think everything she says I look for it in my relationship! I lack of confidence and worry what people think all the time. How can I stop feeling like this and just trust him cause he tells me all the time he loves me. The other thing I worry about is one minute he's all over me and the next he wouldn bother. I no he needs his space but im jus worried i am going to lose him! I no his friends has cheated on their girlfriends, would that make him think the same?

2007-05-15 22:51:40 · 5 answers · asked by Jules 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met that friend from a wrong call to my mobile. He was really good to me past days. Bt last week when v were chatting he was telling some bad sexual things like hav u had sex before with somone and some bad thing he is doing when hes alone. I shouted him and ignore all his calls, msgs and all.
Bt nw hes telling he just checked me. I was really dissapointed and cant make that relationship again.

What do u think? Shall i ignore him forever?

2007-05-15 22:50:39 · 9 answers · asked by cutie 3 in Friends

hay im 15 and i got dumpped by my gf she said it was because it was 1 of my mates because he kissed her i saw and i hit him and another guy thats playing weard games but i was talking 2 1 of her mates and she said she just never liked me........what the hell am i ment 2 do now

2007-05-15 22:47:42 · 20 answers · asked by 1 min from heaven 1 in Singles & Dating

not bars, not clubs, and defiantly not the ice cream shop(I was told that’s where everybody goes when they get high). I don't see them in the woods, probably not skydiving or hang gliding, and not on the internet.

2007-05-15 22:47:32 · 17 answers · asked by earthntrees 2 in Singles & Dating

this is about my mom one day i came back from school and i hard something on my moms room i looked throw the keyhole and i saw mom having sex with her boyfreind

2007-05-15 22:46:31 · 17 answers · asked by banosy_eyvo 1 in Family

however i will full take care of whole life, my aim to is to go abroad, i have good educaiton and good personality, i traveled already more than 10 countries

2007-05-15 22:45:28 · 13 answers · asked by musaddiqjanjua 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm on an escalator and the thing broke as I was halfway up it. I've been stuck here for two days and I've been passing out due to the lack of food or water. Also, I am cold.

What do I do? (I called my brother on his cell phone and I told him to type this)

2007-05-15 22:45:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Girls are nice, girls are pretty, girls are sexy. However, girls easily insult their lovers because they think that that is their rights. also girl in quarell may say anything.
from girls I may receive sex and emotions and insults.
Alone I can have my own peace and diginity.
what do you think: is sex so good to sacrifice my dignity and quiet life? My opinion is that I will lost more if I have sex and insults and quarells and gain more if I have my peace and dignity even being alone and without sex.

2007-05-15 22:42:28 · 12 answers · asked by Suchness 5 in Singles & Dating

How hard would it be, to be friends with someone you are in love with, with that person knowing how you feel about them, yet they tell you they only want to be friends.

2007-05-15 22:41:51 · 13 answers · asked by henryskia 2 in Friends

My dad (55) and his brother (62) were always close, both families staying in one house. His brother being older, was always the mean one. Our family was always ill treated, when we were given our allowances it was always half the amount they were given. They said things like we living on charity. All this hurt my mum alot, one day we moved away,my dad was refused even a small percent of shares in the business. But he never complained. The first year was very hard, sometimes not even having enough money to buy a loaf of bread. Im glad to say some how my dad worked night and day and things started getting better. Only to find out that my uncle and them are worse financially, today my dad sends them money for food, clothes, spending. etc. I once thought revenge would be a good feeling, but i dont find any satisfaction, i feel very sad for them. Have you felt this way?

2007-05-15 22:40:16 · 10 answers · asked by Elaina 2 in Family