I fell for someone out of pity and they abused me in every way they could. I didn't want to see the abuse so I lived in denial.He was treated badly by his mother and was bullied at school and also his employers . This man was so controlling it seemed it must have come from being bullied.So here is the profile of a TARGETTED VICTIM of a Psychopath (and also the dependant personality that allowed his abuse to go on for decades).
I discovered he will abuse me if I cringe or if I stand up to him.I now realise that he will get less pleasure from me if I stand up to him. I have sought advice from the following links which deal with ABUSE either emotional (which is worse) sexual or physical. They are helping me to deal with living with an abuser to stay safe. They run advice courses.
http://www.freedomprogramme.co.uk/site.htm
http://groups.msn.com/PSYCHOPAhttp://groups.msn.com/NarcissismSupportGroupMoralandSpiritualStruggle/waystohealing.msnw See psychopath msn ..
2007-05-15 23:59:13 · 8 answers · asked by dragon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't live with abuse. Seek help in getting away. Now. Today.
2007-05-16 00:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have three questions for you they are as follows:
WHY?
WHY?
WHY?
You must be one sick puppy yourself if you choose to stay in a relationship where you are abused. Evidently you feel like you are so worthless that you need to be abused all the time.
It is nothing but STUPID for you to stay in this relationship.
You are not responsible for him being the way he is and you have no reason to say "Oh you poor thing, abuse me so you will feel better."
All these help groups you are messing with are doing is leading you down the primrose path to self destruction. Get a dose of real life. Go to a battered women's shelter and listen to the stories and see other women like yourself. Your situation is not going to get better.
The choice is yours. If you like the abuse and it turns you on and you need it to feel satisfied then stay and enjoy it. If you don't like being abused then get the h*ll out of the relationship.
2007-05-16 00:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would really like to know why you would want to continue a relationship that you suffer in and why go to all the trouble of seeking help? Surely your best path is get out of there ASAP.
Please email me and explain if you wish. But I think you need to cut your losses here and get right out of it. You are at risk - seriously.
2007-05-16 00:05:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to live in hell. Your husbands past is no excuse for him to be abusing you. You do not deserve that. You should just leave him and move on with your life. Find someone that will treat you right don't waste your life on that jerk.
2007-05-16 00:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by brat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good and at the final stage just walk away if he beats you. If you love him then handle it but if he treats you like dirt then just file a complaint, walk out and move to a safe place. Good girl
2007-05-16 00:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are usually battered women's groups in every community. I suggest that you call your local police dept and find how where it is located. They will help you to get away from him and get back on your feet.
2007-05-16 00:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why not just leave him.
if he was push around that mean that he is a wimp, and if he trieds to hit you have something around to kick his ***
I think that you still like him and want to be around him
2007-05-16 00:49:38 · answer #7 · answered by bkbarile 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is the question...?
2007-05-16 00:03:04 · answer #8 · answered by ronniejacob 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋