My boyfriend message his bestfriend (whose a girl) like when he messages me, you know stuffs like you'll always be in my life, and I can't live without you. Basically romantic stuff that I guess can pass off as a bestfriend message? Is it appropriate? Should I talk to him about it? Please help. I'm really affected by it, but really need to know if I'm just you know... shouldn't be feeling this way?
2007-05-15 23:48:19 · 9 answers · asked by IamherewhenIhavenothingtodo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I went through the same thing, sorta! My husbands ex-lover/good friend, went to far with that kind of talk that your boyfriend says to his bestfriend. I said if she does not stop talking to you like that, then she is no longer your friend.
If he values your relationship, he should value your emotions, and understand why you feel the way you do.
I used my ex-lover for an example. I asked my husband if he would like it if my ex-lover/great friend, said those things to me. He said he would punch his face off. So maybe if he dosent understand, then ask him how he would feel, and if he remains emotionless, then honey you need to move on. He obviously is not that interested in you. And saying I cant live without you, is very inappropriate...
2007-05-15 23:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by src8784 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you really feel uncomfortable about it, sit down and talk it over with him. Be calm, be nice, and tell him it upsets you a little, but also be open to his side too, and let him know that. It's nice for best friends to be encouraging with one another, and I don't think you should be too worried, just take a gentle approach.
2007-05-16 06:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by Rori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are best friends. Let it go. If you say anything, you are coming off as being jealous, and you don't want to do that. Many guys have girls that are close friends. It's not a big deal. He's with you isn't he??? Try to relax about it.
2007-05-16 07:01:42 · answer #3 · answered by bostonchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds a little romantic to me.
i have many close guy friends, but we don't talk like that to each other. we give each other advice on our different relationships. we never talk like that.
i would question him, if i were you.
2007-05-16 06:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Charmed One♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well deres actually nothin like shdnt b feelin dat wary thing in a relationship................jus tel him its botherin u ......if uhe really luvs u hell offer u an exp.....or ddo sumthin 2 make u feel comfortsable...........dont worry deres nothin wirerd or unusual bout dis
2007-05-16 06:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by mj:livin le vida loca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
notin really big about that.
be calm cos the guy mean no harm
RELAX!
2007-05-16 11:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by rubies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His broke them. If he can't be honest why trust him any further?
2007-05-16 06:56:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there juz friends and thats all, it shouldnt matter. as long as you trust him.
2007-05-16 06:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by otiscosy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are none.
best wishes
2007-05-16 06:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by bob_omaly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋