If your not sexaully satisfied in a relationship, but you love the person would you leave?
2007-05-11 03:49:01 · 9 answers · asked by krissy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I always say that I'd leave if I was in a relationship and the sex was bad...
But when I was in the situation... with a girl I really loved, who was awful in the sack... I had no desire to leave. I wanted to marry her.
So I guess my hipocrissy only goes so far.
2007-05-11 05:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say that sex is only 10 percent of a marriage. But when you are not satisfied than it makes up 90 percent of your stress. Whether or not the sex is regular or just not "getting off" I would talk to my partner about what really turns me on and satisfies me. Then help each other develop that hot sexual life - because cheating is not the answer.
2007-05-11 10:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by Tony S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your priorities...
Decide what is missing and maybe talk it over with this person you love so much. If he's so darn wonderful he should certainly listen to you and try to do better.
You may find he's just too much a boy, in which case I suggest you find a real man like me. Discuss it with him first, and if he keeps shooting off the fireworks before the big finale, you may be in the wrong trailer.
2007-05-11 10:56:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try 2 help the partner out. Have the person be more freaky and adventurous in bed. Tell them that you need to be thrilled with the sex because you don't want 2 leave them. Recommend VIAGRA, try anything. Tell them you enjoy hearing them talk dirty 2u....pulling your hair a bit. Eating you out. Having them ask you how it feels and what can they do 2 make it feel better. KNOWLEDGE IS POWER!
2007-05-11 10:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by start_ur_ngin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can work through the sex with honest talk and/or counseling. Good sex is easier than a great long-term relationship. So keep the relationship, and work on the sex.
2007-05-11 10:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it there not enough sex in the marriage but you love him why not stay married and get some on the side. Or get some toys and when he's not there use them. Or just IM me anytime and we can chat about it.
2007-05-11 11:05:22 · answer #6 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course not its only a small part of a whole relationship .. basing a relationship just on sex you might as well just send out for it when your in need and forget relationships entirely.
2007-05-11 10:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I would talk to them about it, see if you could try new things to spice it up etc. Sex does not equal love.
2007-05-11 10:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not all about sex, and remember good lovers are not born they are made; so become a good teacher.
2007-05-11 10:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by alwayintosomething 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋