Our relationship is really strong and in June we are moving to Florida to live with her mom for a month. After that we are getting our own place and going to college together. We have been together for 7 months to this date but have known eachother longer. She had a lot of trouble with her x who she was going to marry but when he bought her a promise ring ( he called it her engagment ring a total of $89.99 for two ) he thought she was hers. So she dumped him and then we started dating. We have been threw a lot together and I was just wondering if it was to early to move in together. It feels right but I just want some opionions on it. And today im going out to buy her a promise ring.
2007-05-11 03:40:26 · 19 answers · asked by kyle w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, ill say this, i moved in with my gf after 3 months, within 6 months, i proposed to her and shortly after a year, we were married.
so go for it
2007-05-11 03:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I will comment on the Promise Ring.
Why buy the promise ring...you are moving to another state with her. Isn't that promise enough. You also made the fact that her ex bought one sound cheesy. Plus you will need the money for the move and college.
Other then that...yes move with her ,no it's not to early. You will find out one way or the other if you were meant to be together. Let destiny take it where it should go. I also believe that moving is good for the soul and the mind.
2007-05-11 04:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by jebby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can make that decision, and obviously you are having some doubts about it otherwise why the question. Follow your gut not your head, it may feel right but there is a whole big world out there. DO NOT buy the promise ring, if you want to give her a ring to say I love you do that but do not promise her marriage.
As for moving in with her go for it my husband and I moved in together after knowing each other for a couple of years and lived together for four years before getting married. Regrets yes and no, but you have to make all the decisions yourself. But please wait on the promise ring you won't regret it.
Good luck with whatever you choose to do
2007-05-11 03:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is too soon for a promise ring. Too soon to move in together, let alone out of state, I guess. You need to stay separate and keep your mind on school, in my opinion. This relationship is not likely to last, if you look at the odds, so make the break up simpler by not living together.
2007-05-11 03:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I moved to his home state after 9 months. We lived together for 5 of those months. We've been married for almost 16 years now. It can work. PS. Make sure your ring is much nicer ;) good luck
2007-05-11 03:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not, trust me. I'm in a situation with my boyfriend too. He proposed to me. You guys should go ahead, get to feel how it's like together..living together. You're lucky you're going to the same college with her. My boyfriend got a basketball scholarship at Duke, which is miles away from where I wanna go. That's why I'm not sure if our relationship is gonna work out..
I'm sorry, I'm supposed to be answering your question, but instead I poured out my problems. It's just that our situation is sorta similar..I kinda know how you feel when you're in love and still in high school.
2007-05-11 03:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by Jayden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so I have moved n with a boyfriend a week after we met and we were together for 4 years, I beleive you just know when something is right....
Good luck to you both
2007-05-11 03:43:22 · answer #7 · answered by liddo1004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend more than $89.99 on the ring and she will be all yours. But be careful, sounds to me like she is looking for a sugar daddy.
2007-05-11 03:45:13 · answer #8 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, never, never move in as a couple with somebody's MOM, for crying out loud. That just screams, "Hey, I'm too pathetic to live on my own! I'm a baby living with her mommy!"
Be a man and get your own place. Don't live together until you are 100% permanently committed, ie; not just a cheap "promise" ring. Look what happened to her ex, she dumped him
2007-05-11 03:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by greengo 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think it is way to early & months isnt all that long my now husband and I dated for like a year and half before we even talked about moving into togeather I think you are both young and should slow down
2007-05-11 03:43:57 · answer #10 · answered by weeping_spirit 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋