why r girls like this???

Question

this girl,i love...is mad at me 4 things which r soooo unreasonable...n now,she is ignoring me,4 not smiling n waving her gudbye at the end of our day..wats that 4??i hate it when she does this,but goshhh,i love her too much..help me..is she playing me around??wat should i do to make evrything like it has always been?

Answer 1

well if she stopped talking to you or waving to you wouldnt you wonder a little to? sometimes girls want guys who are so infatuated with them that they want to treat a girl special all the time. If you dont wave or say hi it might cause her to think "why isnt he waving to me, he waved to me yesterday" girls dont get suspicious of guys until they start changing their ways, but it could also just be because she wants you to do those things, by doing those things it gives her confidence that you guys can really exist as a couple, it makes the future for you too seem realistic, if you are not waving to her, it might make her think things might not work out in the future or once that you guys are together you wont do the small things for her that she wants, like call her or open the door for her, small things like that. Sometimes girls just want to be notice and feel special, so everytime you see her you should treat her special if you really care about her you have to care about her feelings, but also she has to care about yours too. If you want to make it up to her, buy her flowers and say youre sorry that you hurted her feelings, just stick to the honest stuff because you know for sure her feelings were kind of hurt, and just tell her you dont know you were doing something wrong. but that youre just not sure because you feel things are already great between you two. And ask for her forgiveness. and just tell her everything you told us, that you really love her, and that it makes you upset shes ignoring you. But also consider her feelings. To really get to her heart you should try filling her locker up with a lot of pictures of you waving to her, that way if u ever dont she can always look at her locker and realize how much you do want to. but you should still try waving to her even if you do that. sometimes its good to know that even when girls get mad at guys we want to see if the guy cares and will come back and fight for us, that shows that he really does care and does want us in their lives.

Answer 2

Some girls ... not ALL by any means ... but some girls like a guy to be almost perfect - say and do all the right things. Obviously, that's a standard that no one can live up to and we're all bound to make mistakes and disappoint someone like that. What you have to do is verbalize that idea to her. Talk with her if you really love her and tell her what you told us - that you care about her so much, want nothing but to make her happy, but that she has to be okay with you making mistakes too. If she loves you back, she'll understand and maybe try to change a bit.

Answer 3

sometimes some of us girls just get mad becuase our boyfriends dont take their time just to say goodbye. but i mean it all just depends on that person. next time just wave back at her or smile or something so she wont be mad with you. if you really love her just do simple little things like that so you can keep having a good relationship between each other but if this continues and you see that this not helping out then you both need time for each other to see if this is going to work out.

also you know both of you can both sit down and talk about how you like to be treated or what can be bothering each other. try that and see what happens. hoped i helped.

Answer 4

let me tell you a little somethin... I had a fiance who I was going to marry in November (I had her 9 days ago, but now she's gone) your situation sounds exactly the same as mine was. I let it always get to me and bother me, and as time went on our relationship got too stressful and she left. YOU DONT WANT TO MAKE IT STRESSFUL! sit down and talk to her, cuz thats all you can do. Also, things will never go back to the way they always were, they never do. so instead of trying to rewind time or make things the way they were, you should try to make things new and exciting. I hope the best for you. ~Ricky~

Answer 5

sometimes girls feel like they have to constantly have that reassurance. It doesn't make much sense for her to ignore you though. I mean, I'm sure you didn't not wave and say goodbye on purpose just to hurt her feelings. Now she is ignoring you on purpose to hurt yours? Thats very unreasonable in my opinion. She needs to get over it.

Answer 6

ummm no girls dont play around like that... what did u do? unless she is just.... scuse me... b i t c h y and moody... most girls have ot be ticked off in order for them to be mad at u. how old are u... how long have u been going out? all of these things matter when trying to find out why she is mad at u. most likely u did something... and even tho it seems unreasonable to u, it may be a big deal for us girls.

Answer 7

try to be sincere of her feelings yeah she might be getting a little ansy over something stupid but something else may be bothering her try talking to her ask her is everything alright with her and find out if she thinks anything in you guys relationship is going wrong which needs to be fixed. talk it out shell be more that happy to talk about it with you after all if you love her so munch i supose she loves you the same so shell do anything that she thinks will help her relaitionship with you

Answer 8

You two are not a good fit. Women try to mold men into what they want. Most men do not do that. This is a short-term relationship and you will get over it.

Answer 9

she`z used 2 getting ur attention so when u didn`t give it 2 her, she got mad and sad. so, to get ur attention back on her, she ignores u so she can get u 2 talk 2 her. yeah girls are complicated - i should kno, im one of `em. it`s just part of girls growing up and figuring out what they want and who they want and how they want it. crazy cycle, but maybe if ur lucky, u`ll get the flow of it and predict it b4 any girl tries to turn their back on u again. hope that helps!

Answer 10

i don't understand... not all women are like that, i'm not. i could be a lot extra in all probability to not say something. If I did say something, it could probable be "i don't understand what to assert, sorry." and that i don't incredibly see something incorrect with you tuning them out, yet they had probable get all indignant which you do not care what colour their hair isn't. : ) No thought why some women are like that, yet attempt and bear in mind that someplace available, there are women who are not strange like that.