Rules for dating?

Question

Last time no one answered my question properly.
I know you should do what best for you blah blah age this
But i just want 1 to 10. 1 being the first date and what you should do on these dates. if you cant do that dont anwer!

Answer 1

Dinner and I guess a movie- That's what they say, but I'm able to get to know him at dinner but in the movies you cant talk or see each others face clear. So I usually do the whole dinner thing then will go back to a place to talk and get to know each other.

Answer 2

1) Never date a married or unavailable man. This makes him a liar, good relationships are never based on lies. Nothing good will come of it period.

2)Be safe, always tell somebody when you are going, and what time you will be home. Get there safely and come home safely.

3)Meet somewhere public and mutually agreeable where you have an opportunity at some point to talk to eachother in a comfortable way. You will not get to know him any better if you can't hear him over the music.

4)Do not get blind drunk, no matter how generous he is or how nervous you may be, your judgement will be impaired if you do this and also you might behave in a way that you may live to seriously regret.

5) Be prepared to pay your share, if he won't accept this at least buy him a drink. If you let him pay for everything you may feel as though you owe him something and that's not a good way to begin.

6) Be punctual, arrive on time and be polite. This is basic courtesy and there is never an excuse for being rude. If he's not to your liking you can always apologise, cut it short and go home.

7) Dress in an appropriate way for wheever it is that you're going. It may be tempting to put all of your wares on show but first impressions last and you may be giving an inaccurate one of yourself by choosing to wear something inappropriate or too revealing.

8)Keep your talk light hearted, I promise you, he doesn't want to hear about how horrendously your last break up scarred you if you just met. Talking about your ex is just not fun, and will make him want to flee in terror.

9) Do not offer him sex, it's manipulative. If he is a nice guy- he's probably been hurt in the past and will be wary of this kind of manipulation. If he's not so nice he will sleep with you and get what he wants and you will be lucky to see him again. Sex is not a lure or a weapon, do not use it as one.

10) Remember dating is about fun and getting to know somebody. Relax and enjoy yourself!

Answer 3

Kind of old fashion, but light kiss on the first day (so that he comes back), second date Open mouth kiss (first base), third date (keep him at bay with just open mouth kiss)... Trust me, get to know him first before going all the way. 1 year used to be the (going all the way rule) rule, because by then you met his friends and family (in addition to any Skeletons he is hidding) don't want any babydaddy/mommy problems.

Oh, and promise rings don't mean a thing. Just keeps you unavailable to other guys while he is free to do what ever he wants.

Answer 4

Well not everyone is going to have the same answer,obviously.But you are telling them to answer with this whole one to ten thing.But the problem with that is that some people reach ten on the first date,and some people never reach ten on any date so far.So if you understand what im trying to say then my answer will make sense to you.And by the way,no matter what date you go on,if its your first or 30th,you should do only what you want to.And dont let anyone make you do stuff you dont want to,move at your own pace.Nobody knows you better than you.

Answer 5

1.I'd say play it by ear and be open without being too forward.
2.Don't get wasted.
3.Be yourself but don't talk about yourself TOO much.
4.Unless his behaviour is extreme, try to remain polite (but firm, if it comes to that).
5.Don't yap on cell phone.
6.Be honest (but tactful) about serious topics - lots of misunderstandings and misinterpretations can be avoided.
7.Don't flirt with/ eye out other guys.
8.Humour is a great ice-breaker.
9.Look nice (but don't sell out your individual style)
10.Don't order the most expensive drinks/food and offer to at least pay half/what you ordered unless he insists - but just in case you need to get outta there (because he's a jerk, boring, weird, have your cab fare)
*This is no particular order, but I hoped it helped*
:-)

Answer 6

First date...drinks. appetizer...just to get a feel for each other.. If you are really attracted ... a kiss is fine! I am 43 ...man you can KISS on the first date!

Answer 7

there are NO rules --- hold hands kiss have sex on the first second third date on your wedding night --- it does not matter as long as you both feel comfortable with what you are doing

Answer 8

I had my heart broken by someone called Joanna once, she really hurt me. It was that bad that I took up sewing.

Answer 9

Just be yourself and no sex or no kiss even.