i been with my boyfriend for 3 weeks now. then last night my ex boyfriend called me tellin me he wants me back.the reason we broke up was b/c he was mean to me. i really like my boyfriend but my ex is the first person i evered cared about.i dont want to be with my ex but i still care bout him a little. i need advice
2007-05-11 07:50:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
TO BEGIN WITH YOU SHOULD NOT BE WITH ANY-
ONE WHO DOES NOT TREAT YOU RIGHT. I'M SURE
YOU ARE YOUNG AND HAVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE
AHEAD OF YOU AND ARE ABLE TO FIND SOME-
ONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU THE WAY YOU SHOULD
BE TREATED. I ONLY WISH THE BEST FOR YOU
AND HOPE YOU MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE.......
2007-05-11 07:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think 3 weeks is enough time for him to have had a complete metamorphisis? What makes you think he wouldn't be mean to you again? And you are so seriously involved with another boyfriend of only 3 weeks? You don't find anything wrong with that? Take some time, be on your own for a while. When you become confident in yourself and your ability to take care of yourself, then you can pursue a relationship where things are taken slowly, for one. And for another, the person will treat you with the respect you deserve and not be mean to you.
2007-05-11 15:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by foodieNY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you feel towards each guy. Your ex obviously cares a lot about you to ask for you back. Otherwise he would move on by now. He might have been mean at the time of the breakup but usually after things like that, they won't take you for granted again. It depends on your feelings. Good luck!!
2007-05-11 15:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by D4HWM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u think u n ya current boyfirend is doinggood them leave ur x alone..its a reason why he's called ur X and not ur boyfriend...theres nothin wrong with caring just dont be stupid while doing it
2007-05-11 14:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by Wanette..Bytch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex did the same thing to me 2 days ago, girl I think you should do what you feel, I mean think about it though he was mean to you, (my ex was mean to me too and boy did I love him ), anyways, dont put yourself in a postion to be hurt or disrespected, if you do take him back tell him some changes are going to be mad, you be mean to him or something, just know you deserve THE BEST, so pick THE BEST
2007-05-11 14:57:38 · answer #5 · answered by cleanheart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an ex for a reason, life is probably not that great out there as he thought it would be..Tell him to get lost..Life is too short to stay with someone that does not treat you right..
2007-05-11 14:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy was mean to you, you got to think about if it will happen again. But it would be cruel to dump your bf for your ex. Noone can make a dission like this except for you so think about it carefully.
2007-05-11 14:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by The Devil's Spawn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have a new bf, funnily enough i was in the same situation, although i left my bfbcos he cheated and was very vilent and controlling but i still considered going back with him ... im glad i didnt bcos a month ago h smashed a pint glass over his new girl friends face, i had alucky escape, maybe you should thank your lucky stars uve found someone new :)
2007-05-11 15:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by darrens-girl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-20 11:47:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with the guy you are with. your ex was mean to you. Stay with the guy are are with, he deserves you and you dreserve him. Don't get yourself into any trouble. You r ex needs to move on.
2007-05-11 14:55:03 · answer #10 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋