Me & this boy are great friends! We tell each other almost everything and can talk about anything and hang out. One night recently we went out with a bunch of friends and got drunk etc
I usually stay at his place cause to get back home is a travel...So i stayed over BUT we ended up hooking up (ive stayed with him be4 & nothing has happened) Now my thing is the next day we got up, didn't say anything about it and just acted normal whatever... Its been almost a week and he hasn't talked to me or responded to any of my msgs.... This worries me cause I dont want things to be awkward or our friendship ruined..He's a more sensitive guy and I would just move on and pretend like nothing happened, but i think he's dealing with it differently.. I don't know if i should just talk to him straight out or let him be. I don't want to lose him or his friendship!! I've had friends say its cause he has feelings or its cause we had a close friendship and now he doesn't know what to do.
2007-05-11 08:39:41 · 9 answers · asked by Nana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think you have a chance of going back. It's over, move on.
2007-05-11 08:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if he hasn't spoken to you or answered any of your text messages I'd suggest maybe you were either such a lousy lay he's totally ashamed he ever touched you, and wants to forget it and get on with his life....... or on the other hand......
...maybe he is feeling guilty and is not really mature enough to handle the situation.
If you want to continue shacking up with him tell him outright. Say, "Hey man, there's plenty more where that last helping came from, and I'm keeping it warm for you."
Or if it didn't exactly push you into multi-orgasms, then say something like, "The other night when we had a few drinks..... well how about putting that on hold for the momement, and us getting back to being good friends again?"
Make your mind up quick - then meet him face to face and let him know your feelings. If you leave it then it will only get harder to sort and will probably have a less satisfactory outcome.
2007-05-11 08:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by lulu a 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would talk to him and let him know this the first and last time you will ever bring up the subject and just tell him that it was just a one time thing and that there is no reason for this to ruin the friendship.
2007-05-11 08:44:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should approch him in person if you cannot get him on the phone, and just say exactly how you feel. Hopefully nothing was harmed with this one time hookup.
2007-05-11 08:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, Just be upfront and honest ! I too am a sensitive guy and for me this would be huge ! We are talking eternal emotions. All you can do is be totally upfront and honest !
2007-05-11 08:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go and wait 4 him to call u...if u call him he is going to b overrwhelmed and think somethin might come out of this...but if he realizes everything is cool, then he will come back..let him think it out...hes prolly confused cause he doesnt know what to do, give him some time
2007-05-11 08:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by prettyinpink i 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to him about and it and see wats bothering him cause if you dont and he stays like that then yall could lose yalls friendship all at once so i would suggest you talk to him but , you do wat you think is right.
2007-05-11 08:46:44 · answer #7 · answered by beautifo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just focus on the now and don't jump to conclusions
i hope this helps
2007-05-11 09:13:21 · answer #8 · answered by loverharrypotter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people think that if girls and boys are freinds they like each other.why cant u just be freinds??
2007-05-11 08:43:14 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋