This guy came into my work one day and we hit it off pretty well. We've known each other for over 2 weeks now. He came to visit me one day at work, We hung out at the beach until about 3 am, He kissed me, I was shocked. We went back to my house and watched borat till we passed out. He's the one making the moves. He kissed me, he held my hand, he cuddled up to me on the beach, he holds me when we sleep. he's always holding my hand or kissing me. We haven't had sex, we both agree it's too soon. Is that a good sign? He just moved here from Florida, and doesn't really have a stable place to stay since the person he was living with just bailed out on him. I invited him to stay for a few days. Now he's leaving to Utah to visit his "cousin" whom he was speaking to on aim. I, being curious, looked at the last thing she said and it was "in 11 days you'll be sitting next to me" Am I freaking out over nothing?
2007-05-11 08:18:00 · 11 answers · asked by meg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"in 11 days you'll be sitting next to me" is not something a cousin would say. You're definately being played.
2007-05-11 08:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being played but you brought it on yourself. You knew this man for 2 weeks - that's only 14 days - and you are smooching with him and had him over your place then on top of it all you invited him to stay with you for "a few days". Think about it, if he "just" moved there from Florida - how did he get there? And why is he now moving to Utah after only having got to where you are now? Sweetie did it ever occur to you that the reason the other person - I'm assuming it was a woman - "bailed" on him is because he was playing HER too? A"cousin" would not be text him about sitting next to her. You know in your heart that he's off to Utah to be with anther woman and you are just a means to an end. He's wooing you and telling you all the right things so you'll go along with it so he'll have a place to stay until he can get to Utah. How is he getting there? To Utah? If he's asked you for money or hinted about being broke or if you guys are going out and you are paying, then he's definitely using you. You should be freaking out but more than that, you should be getting this stranger out of your house. You don't know that man he could be any body - just because he "tells" you something doesn't make it so. Good luck.
2007-05-11 08:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meg, for years I played the fool and hon sounds to me like you are falling into a nightmare. I don"t know you but these days a person can not be too careful ! Find a local who is totally upfront ,honest and a gentleman !
2007-05-11 08:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your being played. Why would you let a stranger stay in your house. I bet if you ask him to leave you'll never hear from again.
2007-05-11 08:22:24 · answer #4 · answered by THEMURPHSTER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh no girl u must kick himmm out ASAP..its for ur own good..u dont deserve 2 be played like that
p.s. kick him out with another man present soooo he wont try 2 do something smart once u tell himm
2007-05-11 08:27:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's something. seems like he was just using you for a place to camp out after he got kicked out of his place and before he went to visit his "cousin".
just let it go.
2007-05-11 08:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by Garrison G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can really do is talk to him about it, you havent had sex yet so its not like hes fuc'd you and left. if he leaving you for someone else i would chalk it up as a good time and just remember as that.
2007-05-11 08:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by Nessaja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion...if you saw those exact words...he has someone out in Utah and is gonna hook up with her. Not a cousin.
2007-05-11 08:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by angeloncall2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't trust him. He's using you. Let him go to his cousin's. He's hoping you ask him to stay and not go. You'd be a fool if you did. Be careful. lol.
2007-05-11 08:31:15 · answer #9 · answered by larry m♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think you're freaking out over nothing! Send him on his way forever.
2007-05-11 08:23:19 · answer #10 · answered by mich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋