Sex and when?

Question

How do u have sex what do u do,how do u knwo its the right time,what age do u think is best is there an age to early.What positon is the best and how do i do it,what does sex feel like.what happens afterwards.if u can only answer one or a few thats fine just plz answer

Answer 1

Well, I can tell you that since you are asking these questions you are DEFINITELY too young.

You really should wait until you are in love and I'm not talking
high school love......I'm talking mature.....know what I am really getting myself into LOVE.

If you had sex and became pregnant what would you do??
What do you think the boy would do??
Do you have any idea what its like to raise a baby??
Do you want to have to stay home on weekends because
you cant find or afford a babysitter?? Do you want to have
to PLAN every minute of every day because you no longer
have only yourself to think of?? These are all VERY REAL
things that you must think about when you are having sex.

Also, I promise that giving yourself before you are truly ready
will ONLY cause you more headache and heartache then you want or deserve.

If a boy REALLY LOVES YOU then he will understand and stick by you............usually they move on even if you do give up sex!!

Oh yah.....to answer a couple questions.....sex hurts the first few times, any age before marriage is really "too early", but best case wait til you're in college......dont worry about positions......oh and MOST IMPORTANT "what happens afterwards?"...... he gets up and goes home or goes to sleep and you lay there feeling alone and sad and wishing that you had waited!!!

Answer 2

Okay.....How do you have sex? Well there are many positions, it depends on the couple which they prefer....The simple explanation is.... a male puts his p e n i s (can I say that here?) inside a womans v a g i n a. But there is so much more than that. There is lots of foreplay, kissing, caressing, cuddling, oral.....that you can do.
I started having sex when I was 17....a lot of girls start earlier. I would encourage you to wait until at least 17. Early sex is not what it is cracked up to be....sure it is exciting the first few times you think about it or almost get to it. But sex in my teens, even into my early twenties, was never as wonderful as I dreamt it would be. The first time hurt like any thing and you will most probably bleed. There is always the risk of diseases and pregnancy. Plus, sex with just any guy, isnt that good either. YOung guys, I am sorry to say, are usually more interested in getting themselves off, than you.
My advice would be for you to invest in a good book, such as "Everywoman" That will give you a good idea of the mechanics of sex and being a woman, what is involved etc. And I would wait until the right guy comes along.....even if it means waiting until you are a bit older. Sex between two people who really love each other is amazing.....and a guy that really cares will wait for you, and when the time comes will take his time making sure you are turned on properly, relaxed, so it doesnt hurt too much. Dont rush into sex just for the sake of having sex, you will be disappointed. Sex without love......is nothing compared to making love. Hope this helps....now I might go have this conversation with my 14 year old.

Answer 3

Whoa...Take a deep breath...
This is something you should be able to talk with your mom about.
First off...Age is the least of the issues. I've known 20 year olds that shouldn't be doing it. There is no magic knowledge that happens at 18 which is the age most will tell you when it's ok.
ALL of those questions actually depend on WHO you are with. You are ready when YOU feel that you are. If some guy has to talk you into it, you are NOT ready.
Best is to wait. You have to be ready for the consequences like...What if you got pregnant? (BTW...Yes, it can happen on the first time) What if you caught an STD?
Be patient. You have all the time in the world.

Answer 4

I'll answer the most important question first. You know it's the right time to have sex when you don't even have to ask yourself if it's the right time. Personally, I think any teenage year is too young to have sex. I know I was not mature enough as a teen to take on the responsibility of sex and everything that comes with it.
As far as best position, the best position is the one you're comfortable in and gives you pleasure. Sex can be an amazing, very intimate experience, but only if you're completely ready for it & are truly in love with the person you with whom you share it.

Answer 5

Well the right time is when you know your deffenetaly in love with that person and want to be with them forever. Dont just have sex to have it.
The best age is around like 18 or 20ish.
Sex has a plasuerable feeling. It might hurt a lil at first but then it will feel good.
Afterword the male normally has to use the restroom and then you will either make out or talk.

I hope that helps

Answer 6

i had sex at a young age of 15
i think that is young maybe 17 or 18 is good if you go over 28 then that wouldnt be good no more so i think between the ages of 17-23 are good
sex is only good when there is a feeling of love between the two people(well if its your first time) -
if its not your first time sex is great if the attraction is good and if you know what you are doing as well as the partner
the position can vary. the best position for two people who love each other is missionary- man on top woman on the bottom face to face
for two people that just want the satisfaction - doggie style ??? well it depends not everyone likes that same stuff
well after i had sex the first time i felt --- ummmm excited? it was a mixed feeling of excitement that i had sex and of guilt- i was young.
now after having sex i feel tired- its like working out
sometimes :-) :-) but not all the time sometimes it feels like
DUDE GET OFF OF ME NOW!! lol
those are times when that guy is not sexing me right

Answer 7

I don't know your age but you sound very young. Sex is something that should only happen between people who are committed to each other preferably by marriage. When the time comes you will know the answer to all of your questions. Just remember three things NEVER sleep with anyone you don't what to be your babies father, virginity is a gift that can be given only once and AIDS is FOREVER. Just wait

Answer 8

Sex is a personal thing between a couple, and you will know when the time is right yourself not when other people tell you, and its up to the pair of you what happens, you should'nt be having sex before the age of 18, and if your having sex before this age, you are in trouble, you will know the best position yourself, dont take advice off the net, its not the done thing.

Answer 9

you know your ready to have sex when you find that person you really want to be with and will not regret giving yourself to because it's something special you only have once and something you'll never forget. The right time is when you know your ready for all the emotions that come with it, know how to use protection and how to protect yourself. And when your with someone you trust and love. If it's when you get married or before it's your choice. But you sound too young to be having sex. Be patient and the first time isn't always the best.

Answer 10

have sex with someone that you can trust and feel like they dont just wanna use you. probably around 17/18 would be the best age to have sex, but make sure that they arent any older than 19, cause then they are most likely just using you. sex is awsome, but always use protection cause my friend got screwed over for that. make sure you know the person well, and if its a one night stand and you spend the night, then the morning will be awkward, just grab breakfast, or get out as fast as you can, but if it is like your boyfriend/girlfriend, then itll be fine. just make sure that you know when you wanna actually have it cause you cant go back. and make sure that you just have fun with it, its your life, live it to the fullest