my friends mom keeps calling my friend fat! She is a dancer so it is really important! Since we both are size 00 does that she is calling me fat too? and im worried about my friend cus i think shes going bulimic! ive had this suspision for a while now. One time after we were out eating at a rearuante she just walked in to the bathroom and it was kind of suspisuse. me and another friend followed her but i sneezed so i guess she heard us. im just really worried about her!! weve all told that she is not fat but im still worried! please help!
2007-05-11 10:53:45 · 17 answers · asked by guys~r~confusing 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It seem to me that your friend needs to learn to love herself. That means saying the hell to what people think! It could be a faze that she is going through. What your friend need to do is get some help quick! There is nothing healthy about trying to stay a size if it will cause you to harm yourself. Once your friend grows and mature a bit more she will see her skin will thicken and words will be just that "Words"
2007-05-11 11:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by MS VEALS 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-11-27 19:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bulemia is a very bad thing - once she starts it she will have a hell of a time stopping. But, as her friend, all you can really do is just help her as much as possible. You can't stop her from doing it - you can only be a positive influence on her.
My mom always used to call me fat growing up - which was hilarious, because she was over 200 lbs and I was 130.
2007-05-11 10:57:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
00 is not fat, shes a psycho.
If she thinks you are fat she prolly thinks the everyday girl with a size 5 to 7 is a walrus.
Reassure your friend and see about help for her if you really have suspicions. Explain the situation to an adult or counselor.
2007-05-11 10:57:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Similar problem in my family. My brother's wife is always telling her daughter she is getting fat. The two of them together are a size 0!
Both of them see their faces in that bowl and tried to have me follow suit. I replied why eat it to not nourish off it? then asked why? all I was told was to be beautiful. his wife looks as though death is visiting.
Try showing pics or movies on this to your friend so she will see the harm and as others have said inform your mom of your concern.
A true friend will fight to help even when her fam is the problem.
Keep up and good luck
2007-05-11 11:36:32 · answer #5 · answered by rose s 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If she thinks a rose is more beautiful than a daisy then you may have a difficult time to convince her. one person to tell her she is fat if SHE already thinks she is ...is enough confirmation for her (your mom has more power because they are thinking alike for whatever reasons...or she admires your mother's opinion very much) because several telling her that she is not fat doesnt convince her. She needs to hear from your mother first, and then herself. If your mother isnt convincing enough? what then? Your friend may need to convince herself somehow that your concern is not a way of controlling her. Her inner conflicts may take time. good luck
2007-05-11 11:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Obviously there is a problem with her mom. I would talk to a counselor at school, they would have professional help info. Talk to your mom too. Just don't go down the same path as your friend.
2007-05-11 11:04:02 · answer #7 · answered by Cat 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your friend is in need of intervention and her mother is not equipped to do it plz call child protective services
2007-05-12 05:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
encourage her that sh isnt fat, especially if you say your a friggin size 00. im a 9 and i don't consider myself fat. encourage her to eat a little, and i hope she doesnt do anorexic or belimic.
2007-05-11 10:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your mom is being inconsiderate.
If she thinks and says your friend is fat she is thinking you are too..
Bulimia is a sickness but it can be cured.
don't let your mom get you upset. you and your friend should help each other to stay strong and don't let mean things said to you and her make your life miserable.keep it smooth.
2007-05-11 11:22:40 · answer #10 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋