I am Algerian and white mixed and my hubby is white and so are my kids since they look light like my husband. What should I do? I feel weird sometimes
2007-05-11 10:59:35 · 10 answers · asked by goodfamel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What do you mean what should you do?? About what?
2007-05-11 11:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by kc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with wanting to explore YOUR heritage, you can always take an Arabic class (if you don't already speak Arabic), study history of the Middle East (it isn't all bad) or learn how to cook some traditional Algerian meals. If you want try to include your husband and children in these activities. Just remember no matter how much you learn about yourself or people you meet nothing will ever be able to replace the love you get from your family.
2007-05-11 11:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by CJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, not sure of your question. But be proud of your roots. Explain to your kids what your nationality and now theirs mean and all the wonderful things. Nothing wrong with it at all, you shouldn't feel weird. But proud of what you have to offer. Culture is a valuable thing. =)
2007-05-11 11:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by Amy L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Er, you should have thought of that when you married the guy. Sounds like you are mentally prepared to be in that kind of situation. But many families of mixed marriages have similar situation, seek them out.
2007-05-11 11:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its alllllllllllllllllll in your head, you are crazy to feel weird. Your hubby loves you, your kids love you, I bet your exotic and beautiful, just lacking some self-confidence.
2007-05-11 11:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by Fariba B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why should you feel weird?
if you do its because the issue is big in your head.
why don't you celebrate it and think of it as unique.
Habibi your beautiful! and most likely sexy.
its the inside that makes us different. why don't you look at the similarities instead.
2007-05-11 11:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by WICCA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares? I don't care? Do you care? What's there to worry about? I'm sure they look something like you, you're their mother. Your families happiness is most important, not how you all look :-)
2007-05-11 11:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by throughthebackyards 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your kids to the beach a lot and make them darker than you.
2007-05-11 11:05:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who's choice was that to get married ? or were you forced into it? this question always comes up, always the same, the answer is always the same, but, you people don't get it, do you?
No one forced you into interracial marriage, this was of your choosing.
2007-05-11 11:26:07 · answer #9 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get over it! What did you think was going to happen when you married him?
2007-05-11 11:06:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋