I know I have to break up with him but i just dont know how too..I mean he was the first love of my life but lately it hasnt been workin out. Everything he does annoys me grrr...everytime Im about to say it he says the sweetest things to me and i just feel fu.cked up for doing it =[[.....how can i let him know with out hurting him?
2007-05-11 18:39:57 · 9 answers · asked by ღ 3SA sL33PY CaNT B3 sToPP3dღ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think there is a honest way of telling him without hurting him. Please be kind when doing it. Just be as honest as you can without saying he annoys you. Tell him you think that you need to spend some time apart..that you are feeling confused about your feelings for him. Tell him to give you a month to sort things out and after that month that you would like to talk to him about your relationship to see if it should go on or if you should completely break it off. If you date other people please do not flaunt it in front of him. Also if that is what you want is to date others than let him know that so he can also date others. Than in a month see how you both feel and go from there. Hopefully you will both agree on what to do!!
2007-05-11 18:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by sash 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem is you can't keep him from hurting. But if you don't break it off soon, you two will not even be friends. Love turns to hate pretty quick in some relationships. Especially when he already annoys you at times. Good luck. Oh, and I wouldn't find a new b/f for awhile. Maybe wait a month or 2.
2007-05-12 01:46:39 · answer #2 · answered by Connie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isnt a way to let him know without hurting him, but just be honest about it and do it face to face, explain to him what the situation is like, what's bothering you and that you would like to break up with him now before something worst happens (for example: uou could cheat on him with another guy, and that would hurt him even more), you two will move on sooner or later.
2007-05-12 01:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it look at this way no matter how or when you tell him he will be hurt regardless. There is NEVER going to be a right time or a right way to break it to him that you want to dump him. Part of dating is pain/heartbreak, etc. Do it ASAP you will feel relieved and probably you will feel bad for doing it, but life goes on and in time he will find someone new.
2007-05-12 01:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start developing your self, get busy with your life skills and worry less about feelings. Cease the moment, have an epithany! Follow your dreams, the ones that don't involve relationships, that way you'll have more to bring to the table of life. Your love life will take care of its self.
2007-05-12 01:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to have a long & deep chat with him. You need to tell him how you feel & let him know that you dont think it is working out. If you dont want to hurt him, tell him you need a break from him until you decide that this is what you want.
2007-05-12 01:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but you dont have a choice you have to be firm with him otherwise things will blow up and you'll hate each other. tell him straight and leave no doubt and you may atleast be able to salvage a friendship
2007-05-12 01:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by MattTheWiseAssGecko 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your shure about breaking it off and you delay it, it will only make it that much more worse.
2007-05-12 01:45:21 · answer #8 · answered by Michael B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel. honesty if the best policy. eventually, you both will move on.
2007-05-12 01:44:16 · answer #9 · answered by Brian D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋