Crazy situation with a girl. Need advice.?
I met this girl at my university about a year ago and from her signals she is interested in me. When I asked her out, she rejected me and said she didn't have time for dating. A few days later, her friends told me that she got caught off guard and said no because she was nervous. So what should I do? Should I wait for her to talk to me or should I continue to pursue her? I don't want to seem like a stalker or anything like that.
If I don't do anything, will she think that I am not interested and move on? Thanks for you advice.
2007-05-11 19:00:07 · 9 answers · asked by john23213 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep being her friend and stay connected to her buddies, too...I doubt that those girls would want to trick you, so just try to get closer to your "passion" and when the time is right, go for her again
2007-05-11 19:04:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think girls are basically the same throughout their entire life. We act in similar ways but then again, you have exceptions. Anways, back to you.. You gotta find out for yourself if the girl you asked out was really nervous and said no because of that. Just because her friends told you so, it may not be true. My suggestion to you is to speak to her one on one. I know, as scary as that may seem, trust me. It will work and hopefully you can bring up another date. If you're still worried about not making her scared right off the bat, ask to go out and have some coffee. I know this could probably make her uncomfortable because she's wonderin if she hurt you or whatever. Make her feel better by keeping eye contact and smiling =] Oh, and feel free to treat her out to coffee! hahaha Ask about her hobbies and interests and keep the conversation going. Find some common ground and you should be able to take it from there. good luck!
2016-04-01 07:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say spend more time with her, but dont make it awakrd, keep talking to her, make her laugh and eventually she will start to loosen up with you. If eventually when you two are hanging out together (but not dating) a kiss may happen out of nowhere if the mood is right, then after that you can ask her again.
Start the kiss by hugging her, she may or may not know that yo uwant a kiss, and if she wants one she will let you go for it ; )
2007-05-11 19:04:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did this turn-down happen a year ago or a few days ago? If it was a few days ago, I don't think a second invitation would make you seem like a stalker.
2007-05-11 19:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try again- just keep it low pressure the first time- maybe out for coffee someplace fun and quirky -rather than a date date!
if her friends were right that should help break the ice and give you guys a chance to get to know one another. build up to more involved date.
good luck
2007-05-11 19:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by cometkatt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man homie dont even sweat it .u tried already leave it alone if shes interested enough shell go up to u next time cus she knows u did already and she messed up .
besides its college have fun!!!
2007-05-11 19:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by ECKS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask her out again. this time she knows that this might be her last chance to say yes, and she will most likely say yes if she wants to go out with you. goodluck:]
2007-05-11 19:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her beautiful poem. get her e-mail and ask her that way
2007-05-11 19:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by helplife1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it.....
2007-05-11 19:03:39 · answer #9 · answered by sharon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋