i am male teen. i have moobs. im almost 6 feet tall and about 200 ppunds. never had gf. is there a chance?

Question

is there a chnace i will get a gf even if im overweight? i feel embarrased. i have lost about 3 pounds recently from playing bball and eating a bit healthier. but i worry that no girl will like me.

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Answer 1

Don't worry about it. You will meet someone. If your weight is on your mind, then continue doing what you are doing. Eat healthy and stay active.. Having said that, it shouldn't stop you from meeting a wonderful girl.

But let me say, 200lbs for a guy your height isn't bad at all. Some women prefer men who are a little more substantial. i know I do.

Answer 2

Strange as it seems, not ALL girls are looking for handsome guys. I know you've heard it before, but PERSONALITY is much, much, MUCH more important.

You need to be well groomed (CLEAN HAIR!) at all times and wear clothes that fit -- not too baggy. Believe me, you will stand out among the slouchy, baggy, raggedy guys. Stand up straight, look people in the eyes and SMILE.

Be polite. If you don't know how, ask someone to teach you manners -- you will NEVER be sorry!

Be NICE at all times. LISTEN to girls when they talk but don't try to show off.

Don't be embarrassed -- look around, there are LOTS of overweight people out there! Yes, it would be great if you could lose some weight, especially since it's MUCH easier to lose it now than when you get older! But your whole life shouldn't revolve around a few extra pounds.

To BE confident you first have to ACT confident. That doesn't mean showing off, it just means not being too shy or letting others determine how you feel about yourself.

Being a teen is so hard, I know. Try to be yourself and be as nice as can be. Girls will notice.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Let me tell you, not every girl is as shallow as most people make ALL girls out to be. I have a friend that I have known for almost ten years, and he went through the same exact situation. His first girlfriend came when he was about 21. Even though she was... not so nice we will say... she made him happy. And this girl was like super model material (attitude and all). What I'm trying to say is, don't give up. Don't change yourself unless it's something YOU want to do. In the end, if you find someone who likes you, it's much better when they like you for you, and not who they want you to be, or what anyone else thinks you should be either. It's always about numbero uno, YOU. Take care of yourself first, and when you feel good about yourself and like who you are, then someone else will as well.

Answer 4

Just keep up the good work. For being 6 feet tall, being 200 lbs, isn't overweight. I know I look at how confident a guy is. To me, its all on the inside, not the outside. But most girls feel being with a bigger male, it makes them feel safer, at least with me. (I've never had a bf either so don't sweat it sweety)

Answer 5

dude anyone can get a gf, im 6'3 and big too son u just gotta learn how to talk to girls man, its easy u gotta tell them things they wanna hear, how good they look, how nice their hair is, pay attention when they change something about themselves and even if it doesnt look as good tell them u luv it, its game man its game, if u have no confidence in urself girls will never take u serious, when a girl asks u a question answer it firmly not sound like u r doubting urself, when u compliment say it like u mean it and if she says thnk u say "im just telling u the truth" if u need anything let me know

Answer 6

play football, with your height and weight you'll be a good asset to the team and the diet and work out plan (depending on your postion) can be healthy for your body and your self-esteam.
But if someone really likes you, you need to understand that their going to like you for who and what you are, if your weight is an issue then they would be with you.
One reason why you probably never had a girlfriend is b/c your esteam level is low, and you make it known by asking questions like this. Pull yourself together, stop thinking your not too good, pull yourself out of that hole your living in.
People can sense a low self-esteam...
Hope I Helped
Sadiq

Answer 7

I know lots of chubby guys who everyone liked because they were fun and funny. So, be fun and funny! Be friendly and people will like you regardless of what you look like. But you also need to lose weight for health reasons, if not for girls. Being overweight raises your risk of diabetes and heart disease and all that good stuff. Don't worry about girls too much, just get healthy for yourself and be friendly and they will most likely come to you.

Answer 8

I'm the same way it isn't hard try go up to one and asking one out i could i just dint fell like it
i weight 188pd and 6feet i could be fit its just i rilly dint fell like it just put some effort

but if a girl likes you for how you look then its not true love because everyone eventually looses there beauty when you get older. but if a girl likes you for you then then that's true love

PS i have moods to dint feel bad just exercise it isn't hard

Answer 9

Don't be doing anything for what other people might think of you...its very important that your focus be for yourself...and everything else will fall into place...sure things may not happen the way you imagine, but someone will be attracted to you because they like the person you are...it won't be for the person your trying to portray but the person you are....good luck.

Answer 10

looks aren't everything but they are something. how do you like someone first? you are attracted to their appearance and then you get to know them and you like their personality. i suggest that you diet and try to lose weight but remember that what's on the inside counts too and i am sure that a girl will love you just the way you are. but i would think you have more of a chance with losing weight :)