i have these two friends who are cousins and are both boys.theres also this pattern that one boy gets a crush on a girl, then the other like that girl too, then they fight and try to make the girl tell them who she likes. in the end, they lose their crush on her, and get a crush on another girl. it keeps bugging that the fact they both tell me these things on msn, then they want me to tell them whats wrong with them, and ask me how to get the girl to like them or how to get the girl to break up with the other. but every time i tell them of the pattern and that they should like sepprate girls, they get really mad at me and say that i like the other guy or some stupid saying like that. how am i supposed to tell them of the pattern and to like different girls without them getting mad at me and saying mean things?
2007-05-11 21:35:31 · 5 answers · asked by Hip_cat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't even try ...they are playing games..Just stay out of it cause it will drives you nuts...Let them be..Maybe they'll grow up soon...
2007-05-19 17:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO ;)
They sound like the kind of jerks that will forever be competing with each other. They don't really care about the girls, they just want to know which one of them is better and they have found you to be a sucker in that you will actually pay attention to their immature competitions.
If it truly bothers you, just tell them to leave you out of it and then ignore their attempts to drag you back into their petty little war. Eventually they will either stop asking your opinion, or they will find something else to bug you about. ;-)
2007-05-12 05:10:50 · answer #2 · answered by Insomniac Butterfly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you don't want to be in the middle of these kinds of problems anymore. Say it is too painful for you to ssee them upset all the time and that they should start working this sort of problem out amongst themselves.
2007-05-19 16:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some more mature, and more intelligent friends. These guys sound like redneck morons.
2007-05-12 04:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they have the problem, not you, they sound like imature young boys to me, jealous of the other, i would find better things to do, than to listen to their stupid games, good luck
2007-05-12 05:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by happy go lucky me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋