There was this guy in HS i used to hang alot. He was/is a very nice person.He was there for me when I was dump by my 1st love.Than a new girl came to school and he started to hang with her or maybe like her I don't know.All I know is that it hurt me to see him with her.We even stoped talking because of this girl.And boy did I cry but never told anyone about it. I did wanted him to get a girl but not this one.I started hanging out with the girl and found out many bad things.Thats one of the biggest reason I didn't want him with her.(this happend around 2001).He married the girl because she got pregnant)Recently around 6 months ago I saw him at a video store.We both looked at each other for a while and I felt something in my tummy I can't explain.He didn't talk about his wife and I didn't talk about my husband.There was a shine in his eyes. I found out he got sepparated from his wife a while ago.But I didn't ask him about it.I love my husband but i don't know why i felt that day.
2007-05-11 19:55:37 · 7 answers · asked by lupe s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's a perfectly normal reaction to seeing an old flame. The force of all those memories can hit you in the stomach, as well as regret, unfinished grieving, and the possibilities for the future, even if there's no chance any of the possibilities will come to pass.
What's strange here is that you're still brooding over a brief encounter that happened 6 months ago. Some of your other questions said you're having a lot of conflict with your husband. Thinking about this other guy, past or future, clearly serves some purpose for you. If you can straighten out your marriage, then your feelings about this encounter will probably become more clear.
2007-05-11 20:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems when you saw him, you entered what some people refure to as "the crossroads". It's normally when you look back on your life and think about how your life would be different if one thing changed. That feeling in your stomach could have been that feeling of "what if" things had been different. Maby now that he's no longer with that girl who ended up messing up your friendship, you can try and start talking to him again, of course keeping your husband in the loop.
2007-05-12 03:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by seanied2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Houyhnhn... I think I just answered another question of yours about quantity of sex you husband was requiring. I think you may be thinking the grass was greener on the other side of the fence. Better find out how you really feel about you husband and get that straight. This also kinda answered a question I had about you age in my last response.
2007-05-12 03:37:13 · answer #3 · answered by Ret. Sgt. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think most girls think about the one that got away. That's what he was. At the time you probably didn't realize the feelings you had for him.
2007-05-12 03:01:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The feeling is what we call a recollection of the past
2007-05-12 03:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by Thomas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question, "I love my husband" Now if you don't then you talk about it some more?
2007-05-12 03:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called LUST.. run for your life as fast as you can cuz it is EVERYWHERE! CRIKY! and we thot SMOG was bad.. another term is 'forbidden fruit'.. or as Brandon would say.. LARGE MOUTH BASS.. he not all there tho
2007-05-12 03:00:05 · answer #7 · answered by ravin_lunatic 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋