Has anyone ever dated someone after their divorce and realized it was just too soon so you ended it? Do you think it clouded how you truly felt about that person?
What happened when you were ready to date...did you try again with the same person, or move along to someone new?
2007-05-08 07:42:13 · 5 answers · asked by loves2sing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i found it was way to soon for me. I think it was 3 months after but i was so lonely during that time. Until i met someone else and the first time it wasn't much of anything. I didn't put my heart into it. So we broke it off. After that i was lonely again and bout 1 yr later i ran back into that person whcih we started again and i got my feelings hurt once again. So with having my feelings hurt 1st time by my ex and the 2nd time by a girlfriend i swore off women. Then i got lonely. I stayed lonely for a long time. I was depressed and was hurt very badly. Then i met the women i'm with now. She keeps me going through the day. She lives 45min away so we don't get to see each other daily but we talk at least 3 times a day. It's good thus far. I haven't put 100% of my heart back into it which i really don't know if i ever will in a relationship. I tell her sometimes that b/c of the past relationships that i feel i don't give enough. She seems to be understanding, and makes suddle comments that my ex wife has just ruined me for her. I tell her all the time i'm trying to get better at us and she says that she can tell. Plus i've been seeing a couselor since i felt it wasn't good for our relationship for this to be included. So i think she sees the effort that i put forth and it's paying off. Once i'm done I'm sure i'll be back to my old self again which means she'll have one hell of a guy.
2007-05-08 08:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really is one of those demanding question. To be truthful, for some persons, the undesirable emotions under no circumstances thoroughly pass away. God has made issues uncomplicated for me and my grown children. it really is been merely about 30 years and it remains demanding to believe how chilly and vicious some should be. i do no longer live on the challenge yet a pair circumstances a three hundred and sixty 5 days, youngster's birthdays typically, the memories come back. refer to the hot lady and tell her you're having issues. If she cares, she will be in a position to stay with you and help you out of your anger/harm. isn't it incredible how some are so loving and make tremendous spouses and others are so chilly and vicious that the harm under no circumstances quite is going away. supply the sentiments to the Lord even as they get up. You new lady can help you you heal. Thank God for good Ones.
2016-11-26 19:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was not ready to date again untill like a yr after my divorce . My ex- husband kept threatening everyone i went out with and finally got so sick and tired of it . I went to my aunts town for a while and started dating ppl there and I finally met my 2nd husband 3 yrs after my divorce . But I dated several different ppl.
2007-05-08 07:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited 2 years after my divorce to date. My first relationship was with a guy I knew wasn't waht I was looking for, he was safe, and that really helped me move on.
2007-05-08 07:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by skylark455st2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after yo get divorced the worse thing yo can do is fill your head with more bull..... i did that for a while and was getting so confused and couldnt take it , i am still not dating , and i am happy because now i have a clear head if i do meet someone .
2007-05-08 08:00:19 · answer #5 · answered by dawn p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋