I'm 14, was kinda humiliated by other kids, how do I take a revenge?

Question

I have gymnecomastia so, though I'm slim, I have breasts with a feminine shape and developed like those of a 12 or 13 yo girl. Doctors don't recommend a surgery and say this will disappear in a year. But this is terrible, especially for a boy who likes swimming. Many kids and even adults keep picking on me, they've told me a lot of times I should wear a bra. I turned 14 Sunday and yesterday some schoolmates, 4 boys and 2 girls, said they wanted to give me a gift for my bday cause I'm a good fellow, help them with math and other subjects. Actually, I'm a good at math, get good grades and like to help people. I'm not that kind of boy who gets in trouble.
Well, the gift was a joke, they wanted to make fun of me, it was a bra. I got embarrassed, didn't expect something like that, couldn't avoid tears. They laughed, made fun of me and other kids laughed to. This was something so degrading that I didn't tell my parents. I'm their friend and they did this to me. Now I want revenge

Revenge is against my principles, but this time I really want REVENGE! Even if I have to wait for 50 years, someday I'll get one!

Answer 1

My suggestion is to type out their intimate secrets, print it, and potocopy enough to distrube to your school.

Answer 2

OK kid. Teens can be cruel. And if you have a visible difference it only makes it worse.

Well, since you're willing to take the time to exact a real revenge, perhaps the best revenge is be cooler than they ever dreamed of being. That means, getting better grades than they ever could, being more polite than they ever could, learning to dance, perform an instrument, be a better friend (to real friends) be successful in your chosen profession, just be a better person - the kind of young man who "goes places."

Then, when the those awful boys want to be your buddy, and the girls want to date you - you can tell them how awful they were to you as a teen and that you have no need for such shallow and pitiable people.

THis might even continue into adulthood - say being the loan officer at the bank where they want to finance a house - or by being their boss etc.

The best revenge you can exact is by proving the nay-sayers wrong.

And remember, let this awful behavior end with you - don't pass it on to someone else.

Answer 3

They are not your friends.I am sorry those people are so stupidly ignorant and mean. Revenge is not something you could ever achieve to the limit that they hurt you. And frankly, it would be lowering yourself to their level. That is so sad and I wish you could know that soon you wont ever see those persons again and you will go on being a good person with integrity and values and they will turn out just as they are now: LOSERS.
Try to just concentrate on your studies, being the best you can be academically and please do not let this get to you. I think the best thing you could do is not revenge-but just not being friends with them any more; and I bet your mother has some good advice too but then youd have to tell her. Well I know that you will be successful in life and someday look back on this and laugh but I thoroughly sympathize with you and if I were there, those 6 would NOT be laughing.

Answer 4

I am so sorry that you are having to go throught this. I can only advise you that this will end.

Revenge is a bad choice of words, You have been pranked and humiliated. What you should seek is not revenge however, if you want to prank and humiliate them...Ask for ideas here and you'll get lots of answers.

Answer 5

Live a good life and succeed at all you do. Forgive them, and let them know, through your actions that they are forgiven. If they can' get a rise out of you, then there would be no point in making fun of you, now would there?