2007-05-08 07:43:42 · 23 answers · asked by interested 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him that you don't want to. If they care about you they will understand.
2007-05-08 07:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by jd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you wanna do. Have your own mind and don't have to do anything you don't want to do. If he is your bf and gets mad because you don't want to do something because it doesn't feel right to you and he gets mad, then he isn't your friend at all. Please follow your heart, your morals, and your beliefs. Don't do something your not comfortable with or that you know is wrong just because someone might get mad at you. Take a stand and explain your feelings on why you don't wanna do it. Be your own person NOT what someone else wants you to be. You are stronger than that. If you do just do it to make someone else happy you will probably end up regretting it for the rest of you younger years and possibly the rest of your life. Be smart.
2007-05-08 07:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by misbotta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,if you fear making him mad by speaking with him...Get out now.There is no reason you should force yourself to stay in a relationship where you cannot communicate with your partner.If you cannot talk to your partner you have no relationship.Communication is necessary to maintain a healthy and open relationship.If he is forcing you to engage in those activities and you do not want to,he doesnt care for you as much as you think.Please,communicate with him about this,and let him know your feelings about it.If you cannot ,or he gets angry then he isnt worth your time.Good luck hun,and have a good day!!
2007-05-08 07:53:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend wants you to do something that you dont want to do then dont do it!I have learned over the years that if you question a situation like this chances are that the outcome may not be good.If your boyfriend gets mad at you tell him to get over himself and move on down the road!
2007-05-08 07:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by p.bidlingmaier 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he can't understand that you aren't ready to do whatever it is that you are talking about then he isn't worth being with. You should be with someone who understands you and you feel comfortable with. Talk to him about it and explain that you are just not ready. If he gets mad then he is really not worth it. Don't let the fact that he might get mad make you do something you are not ready for. You never know, he may understand and be willing to wait.
2007-05-08 07:49:46 · answer #5 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like ur in a pickle. Either ur a people pleaser or ur b/f is something more than ur willing to say. What do u owe this person?
Either way putting ur life in danger is NOT good.
2007-05-08 07:52:52 · answer #6 · answered by diamond257 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say too bad. If you aren't interested at that moment, you don't have to be. If he gets mad, he'll get over it, and if he doesn't you really don't want to be with him anyway, you know? I dated someone who was like that, and we lasted three months, I ended up dumping him because he was more of a player than I realized.
2007-05-08 07:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that you are afraid of making him mad. That means you are putting his wishes before yours, and there appears to be no compromise. Never compromise over your own body, or when it is something that can never be undone and the consequences are worse than the benefits.
2007-05-08 07:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything you don't feel comfortable doing. And if your boyfriend won't be supportive, if he pressures you or gets mad in any way, it's time to dump him!
2007-05-08 07:47:59 · answer #9 · answered by red_rose6886 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is genuine about you he shouldnt get mad if you dont want to do this little thing and if he is pressurising you id seriously consider your relationship potential control freak springs to mind
2007-05-08 07:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by stripeypipey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let anyone presure you into anything if he is not willing to wait i suggest you finnish with him as he is not worth being with as he is only out for one thing. their are plenty of real men out their who will respect your desition and will respect you for sticking to your princeables. although boys will put pressure on youfor - they expect the girl they bring home to mother and marry to be pure and untouched
2007-05-08 08:03:45 · answer #11 · answered by joan_tipton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋