My guy takes a really long time (30-45 min at least). He always takes care of me but he dosent always "finish". He will stop me from helping him (finish) is that normal? Mind you Im not complaining its just I dont feel like im doing my job..
2007-05-08 03:38:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most of that time is foreplay the act itself is not as long just not finished..
2007-05-08 03:44:34 · update #1
Mutual foreplay
2007-05-08 03:46:01 · update #2
I don't finish sometimes either, because I get tired (yes, I need to get on the eliptical more) or I'm just sleepy, etc. Don't make a big deal out of it, because HE may feel more self-conscious than you do (i.e. can't perform like a superstar porn guy).
What's so strange is that, for a long time, women understood that sex meant more than an orgasm, and guys were all about climaxing. Now it seems that everyone is all about climaxing, and something is TERRIBLY wrong if both parties don't get off in the same sexual contact. I say pa-shaw to that. Don't worry about it unless he does not seem satisfied, especially if he "finishes" most of the time.
2007-05-08 03:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by Perdendosi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a question that u have to ask him. maybe there is something in specific that he is wanting from u as his partner but is embaressed to say. i think that is u both r satisfied then its ok. u could trty being a littkle bit more romantic or nasty. the way that both of u r comfortable and satisfied. talk to him and get the info that u need from him. nobody here can tell u want to do. this should be your plessure and that something between u both. good luck.
2007-05-08 03:46:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is only looking out for you. He is definitely not selfish. Just tell him that you fell you're not doing your part when he doesn't finish. The best way to fix this is to get it out in the open and talk about it.
Hope things work out for you.
2007-05-08 03:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sometimes have the same problem. Sometimes is just not going to happen but I never stop my girlfriend from giving me a helping hand or mouth. You should ask him why he doesn't want your help. He may not want to tell you but if he is secure enough he will tell you.
2007-05-08 03:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by zoli20ga 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to start out with more fore play for him and then let him take care of you and that should speed it up a little. Is he Diabetic, I know that contributes to the issue
2007-05-08 03:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by Tutto Bene 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try foreplay before you guys just go at it!!! some guys can get off just by finishing you off...weird but true!
2007-05-08 03:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by New York Chic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what the problem is physically with him. but it sounds like hes frustrated with himself because he cant get off. he probably doesnt feel like a man. hes embaressed. bc of his frustration he tells you to stop and it becomes a goal for him to get off on his own. he should see a doctor just to be sure everything is A-OK. good luck, peace out
2007-05-08 03:47:34 · answer #7 · answered by million$? 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he dot finish its because he dot what you to get pregnant
My husband did the same thing .
Dot worried to much just talk to him and let him know what is in you're mind.
Look luck?
2007-05-08 03:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetlove 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Practice some squeezing exercises and when the time comes squeeze and see what squirts.
2007-05-08 03:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He doesnt finish...
Well, you are GIRL..and you should make him FINISH...this is where mind-reading comes in to play..
- watch his moves/interests specifically....he might be adjusting his position, when he is trying to finish..donot leave him, catch him off guard, go a little wild, hard and finish him off...
Chris
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2007-05-08 03:47:56 · answer #10 · answered by allgaymovies 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋